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/u/JamesNinelives on My bandana has finally arrived

I like it! :) June 14, 2020 at 12:02AM

/u/DontBeSuspicious0_o on My bandana has finally arrived

I love the bandana! You're rocking it well :) June 14, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/HappyAndProud on "SpongeBob Squarepants Revealed as Gay"

Just saw this. Really triggered me, tbh! Not sure why. It just sounds to me like they're trying to take away my favorite ace icon, AND spreading the whole "ace cannot into LGBT+" lie. June 14, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/2ezewrld on Wanted to share a doc I was working on which explained asexuality to those who have misconceptions. Feel free to look/use and I’m sorry I couldn’t fit all of it on there, I tried my hardest.

Nah dude thank you for helping me out! It takes a lot of collective views to create things like this and you really helped me! June 13, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/Casey_Heart on SpongeBob is an asexual legend

but he’s not aro tho right? cause my friend and i are obsessed with shipping him with both patrick AND squidward June 13, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/TheChronologer1 on Wanted to share a doc I was working on which explained asexuality to those who have misconceptions. Feel free to look/use and I’m sorry I couldn’t fit all of it on there, I tried my hardest.

Plus, a sexuality is not technically cis because it is its own sexuality. And there are oriented aces/aros/aroaces, much like how you can be bi with a strong preference for one gender over the other. Thank you for writing this, it's nice to see some valid points from people that have more time on their hands to be able to do stuff like this. It's greatly appreciated! June 13, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/2ezewrld on Wanted to share a doc I was working on which explained asexuality to those who have misconceptions. Feel free to look/use and I’m sorry I couldn’t fit all of it on there, I tried my hardest.

It’s no problem. I just really wanted to help with the discussion. 🖤 June 13, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/Casey_Heart on Nickelodeon celebrating pride and includes Spongebob who the creator has confirmed is asexual.

WAIT SCHWOZ— WHAT IS HE June 13, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/ghost-townn on Nickelodeon celebrating pride and includes Spongebob who the creator has confirmed is asexual.

Maybe I'm just overly nitpicky here, but isn't this kinda missing the point? Making a sea sponge ace, a species known for reproducing asexually? Isn't this just reinforcing the idea that asexuals aren't fully "human"? I'm probably just too picky or sensitive when it comes to this, but I'd personally prefer human characters being portrayed as ace. June 13, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/martialartsvegan on "SpongeBob Squarepants Revealed as Gay"

Yeah I hope so too, but the fact that they were saying “change of heart?” was implying Nick changed their mind and he wasn’t ace at all. June 13, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/ok-lemon-demon on Could really use some help

Yeah thats fine, basically every person who isnt asexual will try and tell you its a phase and its okay for labels to change. Just think about “Do I experience sexual attraction? Do I desire intercourse with another person?” if not you are likely ace. Also asexual people can masturbate as well June 13, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/deamonsunset on "SpongeBob Squarepants Revealed as Gay"

I think (aka hope) that they were implying that he was homoromantic/asexual, because anything else would definitely be invalidating. June 13, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/owopsididitagain on SpongeBob is an asexual legend

his parents tho, they dried sponges :0 how'd they,,, if it isn't biologically possible June 13, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/Kylandrielle on Wanted to share a doc I was working on which explained asexuality to those who have misconceptions. Feel free to look/use and I’m sorry I couldn’t fit all of it on there, I tried my hardest.

Thank you for writing this, I really appreciate it, and I'm sure others do too. June 13, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/ghost-townn on Nickelodeon celebrating pride and includes Spongebob who the creator has confirmed is asexual.

Why can't they just agree on gay-ace? This would be representation for both, problem solved. June 13, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/ghost-townn on Nickelodeon celebrating pride and includes Spongebob who the creator has confirmed is asexual.

The same thing has been happening with theories regarding Elsa from Frozen being lesbian...even though there are far more hints towards her being aro-ace. It seems like people always assume that anyone who isn't interested in the opposite sex must be gay. June 13, 2020 at 11:48PM

/u/dipseyd00dles on SpongeBob is an asexual legend

Petition to make sponge bob our mascot lol June 13, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/MineMapGo on Nickelodeon celebrating pride and includes Spongebob who the creator has confirmed is asexual.

Nick was attempting to say gay, although there is currently a controversy on twitter in which ace people are claiming him, with the assistance of the creator. Nick has since stopped comments on the main post. June 13, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/Bwaiite on I’m curious, do any of you crave affection?

On and off yeah. I wouldn't say in my day to day life I crave it but occasionally something will make me realise how touch starved I am. Like if someone suddenly hugs me or touches me etc. In relationships I'm SUPER affectionate and love cuddling and basically always maintain physical contact somehow, but in single life I don't think about it much. June 13, 2020 at 11:45PM

Jeff sounds like he's a reasonable person with no obvious red flags.

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On my old account, I posted to r/needafriend after my last breakup. I got this message after not responding to him for a few hours.

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Wonder what happened to NICEGUY1

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Friends With Benefits (With a twist) (30F)

Ok so I may not have picked a good tittle but I need some feedback. I think I want to hire a male escort. Have any women tried it? How was it? How did you find the escort? I just want someone who I don't doesn't know me and maybe has a clue and knows what they are doing when it comes to sex. I found a website. Found a guy. He emailed me back. I'm really thinking about. Ladies I'd love to hear. ***I would love to hear anyone else's opinions too. I just asked for women because it's a little different when it comes to stuff like that with us. Submitted June 13, 2020 at 11:34PM Ok so I may not have picked a good tittle but I need some feedback.I think I want to hire a male escort. Have any women tried it? How was it? How did you find the escort? I just want someone who I don't doesn't know me and maybe has a clue and knows what they are doing when it comes to sex. I found a website. Found a guy. He emailed me back. I'm really thinking about. Lad