It was on April 2012 that they met. She was working her shift at Sonic and he was applying there. She went to the back part of the store and he was sitting there in a green and white button up shirt, cargo shorts, and sneakers. They exchanged greetings and the day went on. He got the job and would be starting soon. They had many shifts together but for now they were just co-workers. Weeks pass and they have gone from co-workers to friends. One day she was complaining about everyone texting her at work and he said "well it's not me, I don't have your number." Without saying anything she reaches into his pocket, puts her number in his phone and puts it back in his pocket. "Well now you do" she says. They started texting each other randomly, just talking about anything and nothing. He starts to feel something for her but he realizes a problem. She was with someone at the moment. But little did he know she didn't really want to be the guy she was with. So h

I want a girlfriend but Im not happy with my life situation. I want to be healthier, further in my career, happier, more social circle, more hobbies etc.. Anyways I think I just answered my own question. It seems like if I even tried right now I wouldn’t be the person I want to be, but I’m 28 and don’t want to leave things to too late. I dunno. Any advice? Submitted September 12, 2020 at 11:49PM I want a girlfriend but Im not happy with my life situation.I want to be healthier, further in my career, happier, more social circle, more hobbies etc..Anyways I think I just answered my own question.It seems like if I even tried right now I wouldn’t be the person I want to be, but I’m 28 and don’t want to leave things to too late.I dunno. Any advice?

Has anyone had this and then found someone they were attracted to? I think this is the last thing that’s stopping me moving on is this intense attraction I had to him. Is it possible to be attracted to someone again equally/more? Submitted September 12, 2020 at 11:54PM Has anyone had this and then found someone they were attracted to? I think this is the last thing that’s stopping me moving on is this intense attraction I had to him. Is it possible to be attracted to someone again equally/more?

Are there really one women men out there?? Or do y’all dude always have someone on the side to talk to? Submitted September 12, 2020 at 11:59PM Are there really one women men out there?? Or do y’all dude always have someone on the side to talk to?

it’s these realities that struggle to blend or align with one another. Seeing them as orbs or “aruras” is the easiest way to process this concept. avoid people who see “auras.” ​ Im starting to figure that those who chase certain auras are unintentionally chasing those who’s realities are the easiest to purloin. The smaller your aura, the less obsessed you are with ground you stand on. ​ Meaning it’s easiest to indoctrinate you into my reality if yours can fit rather snuggly inside of mine. Avoid girls who just decide they want you without you having even spoken with them. This world is dirty place. People are chasing those who are easiest to adopt. ​ Because to them, in order for things to work, they’ve got to have things the way that they want them. so they refuse to have to compromise pieces of their reality for a partner in this life. They either assume you feel the same, or that you’re just naive. ​ Which is why confusion or fighting occurs, as if you turn out not to be

Is she trying to make me jealous What is she trying? Making me jealous? So ive benn seeing this girl (F24) for 6 Months. We really get along really well and talked about all stuff ( friends, family and so on). She even introduced me to her friends. She told me about her male coworker before. But in recent times she when i ask her about her work day she mentions him more. Even though its just a short message like : Yeah work is fine and my colleague XXX is here too =)). When she send me a photo of him lying at a couch i just responded : hes waiting for you She only said : no were just colleagues I just shrug it off in the past and laughed about it. But now im feeling a bit jealous Im not sure how i should feel about it. Edit: when i was talking about other woman in my past she just cut me off and said she doesnt want to listen Submitted September 13, 2020 at 12:01AM Is she trying to make me jealousWhat is she trying? Making me jealous?So ive benn seeing this girl (F24) for

Is this some sort of attachment thing? I don’t know why I’m struggling. Is this some sort of anxiety? I [M19] haven’t had the best relationship with girls, I respect them and grew up amongst them. I was raised by my mother, sisters, aunts and grandma. I have never been able to talk to them or know what they are like because they often say I’m annoying because I’m singing all the time lol. I don’t know what to say to them, or even start talking to them. Have never had a conversation with my mother. I have been there for my sisters when they had breakdowns or anything of that sort. Worst relationship with father imaginable, we’re always arguing. I stay away from everyone because I’m scared of arguments. Anyways I don’t have a lot of female friends I have always been scared to talk to the girls in high school because I’m scared they might say that I’m annoying or talk shit. It happened to me in middle school so I don’t want to repeat the process. Come to college and I have been distant

Virgin and single guy [M19]. I haven’t been in a relationship for so long. What do you guys exactly do in a relationship? I just understand the sex, kisses and hugs. I struggle with opening up to others and I don’t want to burden them. It feels so crippling when I tell someone about myself or give information away. Submitted September 13, 2020 at 12:04AM Virgin and single guy [M19]. I haven’t been in a relationship for so long. What do you guys exactly do in a relationship? I just understand the sex, kisses and hugs. I struggle with opening up to others and I don’t want to burden them. It feels so crippling when I tell someone about myself or give information away.

Break ups hurt like a bitch. Wheres the rum so i can numb this bitch. Submitted September 13, 2020 at 12:06AM Break ups hurt like a bitch. Wheres the rum so i can numb this bitch.

I agree that's a terrible argument. Just because you only have one of something doesn't automatically make that thing a good addition to your life. You can have only ONE (biological) dad, but that doesn't magically make him a good parent. If you have e.g. an abusive parent (as it sounds like in your case) there simply no excuse for that abuse. Period. That's still one toxic person, and that's one toxic person too much. If someone is toxic, they should be cut off from your life. Doesn't matter if they are a family member, that doesn't minimize the damage their toxicity can cause. Actually, the harm family members can cause is sometimes the worst abuse because they often have the power of proximity, which can seriously fuck someone up. You don't have a obligation to keep in touch with family members. You don't get to choose your family members but you do get to choose if you want them to remain in your life when you're an adult. September 12

Maybe tell him that invalidating you makes you question if he is valid and perhaps an ethics review board needs to be brought in to discuss the therapists method of treatment? September 12, 2020 at 11:48PM

I’m a Scorpio September 12, 2020 at 11:48PM

THATS BOT HOW ASTROLOGY WORKS, sex orientation and your astrological chart don’t have any connection September 12, 2020 at 11:47PM

Sex-repulsed aces can have their fun, but we shouldn’t be okay with sex- negative ideas. There’s nothing wrong with other people having sex, especially good sex, and we should support that. We should avoid falling into the trap of saying that sex is bad, or that people shouldn’t talk about it. People should talk about sex, and not wanting to be a part of that conversation is not the same as wanting it to not happen. September 12, 2020 at 11:46PM

I am very sorry to hear that. I don’t see how this relates to the sub and all but I still feel sorry for you. September 12, 2020 at 11:45PM

Erm, your story is super sad and I agree with your point about the "but they're your parents argument", but I think you might've posted this in the wrong sub. September 12, 2020 at 11:44PM

Ugh I just hate when family members are like “have you got a boyfriend yet” or “I know this one guy..” and I just don’t give them anything because I know they wouldn’t understand. Not to mention when you like girls romantically too. September 12, 2020 at 11:44PM

"Sex negative" is a political ideology based in controlling and suppressing undesireable and deviant sexuality. You may have meant sex-repulsed, but i thought i'd point out the difference. And this isn't just "having fun" you're literally just shaming people for being sexual. Not even allosexual just sexual. September 12, 2020 at 11:43PM

Gonna use this every where September 12, 2020 at 11:38PM

This. Still hate it, always will. Fine being a girl, not fine with being s*xualized. I would never wear revealing clothes in any case but I definitely dress less cutely than I'd like to and I almost never wear makeup even though it's fun because I want to repel that kind of attention as much as possible. anger and disgust from suddenly being sexualized against my will This is a great way of putting it and for whatever reason way too many people just don't get it. They can't even comprehend you not wanting to be thought of that way because to them you simply are that by definition and the person inside doesn't matter anymore. It's awful. September 12, 2020 at 11:36PM

Well I’m a Scorpio and they are supposed to be the most sexual but here I am :/ September 12, 2020 at 11:36PM

Hi all, I'd like some advice if that's alright. I ran into an old flame on OLD a few days ago. We dated when we were 18-19 years old and it ended how most teen romances do, badly. I apologised, he said it was water under the bridge. There has been a slight amount of flirting since and we are planning to catch up for coffee next Saturday. I am so new to this after a 10 year relationship that ended a year ago. I don't want to bombard him with texts, I'm worried if I don't interact enough he will lose interest. Just really running low on confidence. How much is too much, or too little contact? Submitted September 13, 2020 at 12:03AM Hi all, I'd like some advice if that's alright. I ran into an old flame on OLD a few days ago. We dated when we were 18-19 years old and it ended how most teen romances do, badly. I apologised, he said it was water under the bridge. There has been a slight amount of flirting since and we are planning to catch up for coffee ne