I wanna start having sex with a man (Bi20F) I did all the research, managed to use my dildo properly and everything but I'm hella nervous I've only ever made out with girls so far, I want to try with a guy any advice to be less nervous or even where to start hooking up? I'm usually not awkward around men but when it comes to actually get with them I sound like such a dumbass. Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:45AM I wanna start having sex with a man (Bi20F) I did all the research, managed to use my dildo properly and everything but I'm hella nervous I've only ever made out with girls so far, I want to try with a guy any advice to be less nervous or even where to start hooking up? I'm usually not awkward around men but when it comes to actually get with them I sound like such a dumbass.

I'm wondering about would my girlfriend be pregnant if my condom slipped to head part during sex and for 2-3 strokes my partially covered dick went into her with pre cum on my exposed side? What are the chances? Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:50AM I'm wondering about would my girlfriend be pregnant if my condom slipped to head part during sex and for 2-3 strokes my partially covered dick went into her with pre cum on my exposed side? What are the chances?

I just don’t feel like sex at all. I feel like I SHOULD want sex. And if I keep saying no, people will stop offering. I just don’t know if this is me being mature or whether this me turning frigid. I still watch porn and jerk off if I feel the need - and I do get horny! I’m an attractive gay man who has plenty of offers. I just have fallen in to the habit of declining. Thoughts? Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:54AM I just don’t feel like sex at all. I feel like I SHOULD want sex. And if I keep saying no, people will stop offering. I just don’t know if this is me being mature or whether this me turning frigid. I still watch porn and jerk off if I feel the need - and I do get horny! I’m an attractive gay man who has plenty of offers. I just have fallen in to the habit of declining.Thoughts?

My long distance girlfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship because of our different values regarding intimacy. We both feel very affectionate towards each other and we are both very attracted to each other, but we have not been talking sexually or sending each other sexual photos for a long time, and it seems like a chore getting her to be intimate in that way with me. She has told me she “feels like a slu*” when sexting me which I thought was very weird because I am her boyfriend and it’s natural to feel sexually for each other despite the distance separating us. Now I understand that some people might not feel comfortable with sending explicit photos or talking explicitly, but I can’t help but feel bad about her not wanting to, I guess I just feel unwanted. Hearing someone else’s perspective would be appreciated. Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:18PM My long distance girlfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship because of our different v...

Hey! So story starts few months ago when i stumbled on ig profile of girl that I knew during highschool and we had some common friends so we were out all together few times but havent seen her in 3-4 years and I decided to follow her and she followed me back. Last week she put some story about food and I commented it and we started talking about it and we exchanged few messages and at that time i was at vacation so i said “we could go out and try it when i come back and ofcourse when you will have some free time” and she only liked that message and answered about topic and we exchanged few more messages and then i threw some joke which she only liked and that was that. Now i dont know should I text her and ask her out or try to start other conversation? Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:21PM Hey!So story starts few months ago when i stumbled on ig profile of girl that I knew during highschool and we had some common friends so we were out all together few times but havent seen her...

I am going to be referencing a specific scenario but I am assuming whatever advice I get can also be extrapolated to general scenarios. Here is the context: I met this girl a couple of days ago and got her number. We have been texting back and forth. I suggested that we should meet up sometime soon, and we agreed to go for boba and a walk downtown during the weekend. I specified that I would pay as well. Now, I have gotten mixed opinions from friends as to whether or not it’s a date. I want it to be, as I am attracted to this girl. Should I ask her explicitly if it is a date? Will it ruin the mood? Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:29PM I am going to be referencing a specific scenario but I am assuming whatever advice I get can also be extrapolated to general scenarios. Here is the context:I met this girl a couple of days ago and got her number. We have been texting back and forth. I suggested that we should meet up sometime soon, and we agreed to go for boba and a walk downtown ...

Hey everyone! So to start I recently got back into college and before I arrived I was excited not just for school, but also hopefully getting back into the dating scene. Unfortunately I have a few problems, those being: I've always been very antisocial due to my anxiety I'm not very well socially acclimated due to moving around a lot I'm older (30) and the average college students in my area seem to range from 18-24 or so I haven't dated many girls, asked plenty out and got rejected damn near every time and the few who said yes left me with nothing but bad experiences it's a small private school in a small-ish town no one really seems to share my interests I also struggle with depression, but that and the anxiety I think are at least under control enough with counseling to allow me to start dating with a healthy mindset. I guess my biggest question would be where to start. I'm not big into the bar scene, but at this point I don't think I can be to...

I'm 20F and I already know I have an avoidant attachment style. Almost every date I've "almost" been on got cancelled and fell through for whatever reason. Hearing everyone else's horror stories doesn't help wither, and the thought of putting in all this energy to get dressed and perform prettiness just for it to lead nowhere seems muy exhausting. I mean let's be real, what are the actual benefits of dating (if any) in 2021? Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:32PM I'm 20F and I already know I have an avoidant attachment style. Almost every date I've "almost" been on got cancelled and fell through for whatever reason. Hearing everyone else's horror stories doesn't help wither, and the thought of putting in all this energy to get dressed and perform prettiness just for it to lead nowhere seems muy exhausting. I mean let's be real, what are the actual benefits of dating (if any) in 2021?

I think that’s really what it boils down to. Run with that whichever way you want. A man with romantic tendencies is likely to not have the specific ending he wants. It’s unrealistic for most men to think about this in a way resembling anything like that. That’s what I think. Maybe sometimes you literally should just give up. I know that’s not what you want to hear but yeah Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:33PM I think that’s really what it boils down to. Run with that whichever way you want. A man with romantic tendencies is likely to not have the specific ending he wants. It’s unrealistic for most men to think about this in a way resembling anything like that. That’s what I think. Maybe sometimes you literally should just give up. I know that’s not what you want to hear but yeah

I have seen a girl at a local store for a couple months now. Today I was checking out and asked her how her day is going, and she said bad. She asked if I wanted a bag and I said yes because I was walking home (100-200 feet). She asked how far it was and giggled and I think I have a chance if I don't blow it. I also don't want to offend or come off as crazy Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:36PM I have seen a girl at a local store for a couple months now. Today I was checking out and asked her how her day is going, and she said bad. She asked if I wanted a bag and I said yes because I was walking home (100-200 feet). She asked how far it was and giggled and I think I have a chance if I don't blow it. I also don't want to offend or come off as crazy

So I’m 19(M) and have black nails on both hands and was curious about either guys and girls opinions through a dating perspective if it’s attractive or attracts a certain type of people. I know that it looks emo and what not or with different colors could be seen as a gay signal, but I still like them. So I guess the general question is whether if it’s a bigger turn-on or turn-off? Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:38PM So I’m 19(M) and have black nails on both hands and was curious about either guys and girls opinions through a dating perspective if it’s attractive or attracts a certain type of people. I know that it looks emo and what not or with different colors could be seen as a gay signal, but I still like them. So I guess the general question is whether if it’s a bigger turn-on or turn-off?

This is the second time it’s happened where this guy that I really like, who I thought really liked me after going on 4 dates with me, has not texted me back after 2 days. The first time he didn’t respond after 2 days, I messaged him asking what’s up. He apologized and messaged back and said he wants to see me. I responded again, and now it’s been 2 days again where he hasn’t said anything. Do I say something to him and ask if he’s interested, or do I just drop it? I really really like him and thought he liked me too :( Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:39PM This is the second time it’s happened where this guy that I really like, who I thought really liked me after going on 4 dates with me, has not texted me back after 2 days. The first time he didn’t respond after 2 days, I messaged him asking what’s up. He apologized and messaged back and said he wants to see me. I responded again, and now it’s been 2 days again where he hasn’t said anything. Do I say something to him and ask if...

It’s been 5 months and i still cant get over a guy Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:45PM It’s been 5 months and i still cant get over a guy

What are your thoughts on this? I was always under the impression that you should be honest and yourself with a girl you're interested in. I recently had a conversation with a friend who told me she preferred to play games and have guys play games with her, most importantly to build "seduction". She said that if you're too direct, you risk that person taking advantage of that or you get bored early on. I know the answer might be well she's not the one, but I mean, what if she is lol? I get that you should somewhat be mysterious (but not too much) with your intentions and keep her guessing but I'm not understanding the full scope of what that means. How do you as a guy "seduce"? , How do you "play games" or should you even? Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:50PM What are your thoughts on this? I was always under the impression that you should be honest and yourself with a girl you're interested in. I recently had a conversation wit...

Theres a guy in my firend ground and I’m not sure if I find him attractive but I think I kinda have a crush on him But how do I know. I don’t wanna flirt with him if I dont know if I’m really interested since we’re in a friend group and I don’t wanna play games with someone. But how would I know for sure? +I’m not sure if i might be interested beacouse hes the only guy whos not in a relationship or if i truly find him interesting Guys I’m lost Pls help Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:53PM Theres a guy in my firend ground and I’m not sure if I find him attractive but I think I kinda have a crush on him But how do I know. I don’t wanna flirt with him if I dont know if I’m really interested since we’re in a friend group and I don’t wanna play games with someone. But how would I know for sure? +I’m not sure if i might be interested beacouse hes the only guy whos not in a relationship or if i truly find him interesting Guys I’m lost Pls help

I (22f) recently agreed to go on a date with a guy I met from tinder. Admittedly, I agreed to go on the date way too fast as I’d only been talking to him for a few hours when he asked. At the moment it seemed like a great idea, he was funny and charming + I have 0 dating experience so why not? However, after talking with him a bit more I just don’t think it’s going to work. The chemistry just isn’t there and after telling him that I wanted to be as covid safe as possible he’s still asked me to come over to his place to presumably mess around and also go to a casino with him. I don’t want to waste his time or his money on this date. My go-to method is usually ghosting but I’ve been trying my hardest not to do that. My question for the guys is: how would you want to be let down? Do you want the harsh truth? Would a lie/excuse feel better? Is ghosting fine in this case sense it’s only been 2 days of chatting? Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:54PM I (22f) recently agreed to go on a d...

I [24f] find it hard to believe that a majority of guys are okay and appreciate when a girl messages back first. I have been talking to a guy [24m] for a while, and I'm usually the one who texts first, initiates first, and is always asking HIM questions. He never does any of it, but he'll response in paragraphs back. I'll get responses soooo much later so wasting my time on him was pointless. I stopped replying back to a dead end conversation after he left me on read for literally a week, saying he had alot of work to do and got busy. How hard is it to take less than a minute to respondd back? It's as if he'll come back from the dead later, most likely when he's bored. I've gotten excuses for late responses like "was busy with work", "my furnace blew up", "was with the parents" (mind you it was 7 hours), my dog bit my phone and broke it". It's ridiculous. So when someone asked whether guys prefer girls messaging and ...

23 year old female here and trying to get back into the dating scene. I swiped on this really cute guy Monday and we matched a few hours later. He messages me right away and we start talking, I wanted to take the conversation off the app and he tells me to snap him but never tells me his snap!!! My dumb ass messaged him again the next day and he hasn’t responded to me and I’m so sad about it he’s so cute. What sucks with this particular app is it shows when people are online and when messages are read and he hasn’t even opened my message :( I’ve had no luck dating lately Submitted August 26, 2021 at 11:59PM 23 year old female here and trying to get back into the dating scene. I swiped on this really cute guy Monday and we matched a few hours later. He messages me right away and we start talking, I wanted to take the conversation off the app and he tells me to snap him but never tells me his snap!!! My dumb ass messaged him again the next day and he hasn’t responded to me and I’m...

Should i just go for it and brush it off if she shoots me down? She had a crush on me a year before the pandemic, nothing came of it as I didn’t know at the time and i got with another girl. Me and the other girl have broken up a few months ago and with school starting back i was wanting to ask her out to the movies or something. Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:01AM Should i just go for it and brush it off if she shoots me down? She had a crush on me a year before the pandemic, nothing came of it as I didn’t know at the time and i got with another girl. Me and the other girl have broken up a few months ago and with school starting back i was wanting to ask her out to the movies or something.

The ladies are like seem stuck up, and the ones that like me I don't. It woulda been nice, Oh lawd it woulda been nice but I'm 40 already, the world is becoming stranger to me, the 90's are like the ancient Egypt, even Lorde seems old news..the world moves so fast no one gonna remember Billie Eilish in six months. So what gives.. it's so sad I can't take it, as a human i yearn for contact but being a man is hard and lonely! in my experience anyway.. So it's only me, my cat and my medication.. and the world can keep up being made of plastic and Instagram can keep up on showing us beautiful people in beautiful places and some of us will look at the sky on a 4th floor balcony and say thank you for the loneliness..thank you for the unfairness and thank you for the frustrations and pain..thank you for letting everybody find love but me Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:09AM The ladies are like seem stuck up, and the ones that like me I don't. It woulda been ...

Listen i appreciate women and men who actually actually take the time and go to therapy and not let their emotions from their past relationships or past issues in general. Get them down into a dark place and to the point where they think negative about anything and everyone else. I appreciate you guys because I want to say at least you are trying to help yourself and take care of your emotional and mental health. That is the best thing anyone can ask for. Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:10AM Listen i appreciate women and men who actually actually take the time and go to therapy and not let their emotions from their past relationships or past issues in general. Get them down into a dark place and to the point where they think negative about anything and everyone else. I appreciate you guys because I want to say at least you are trying to help yourself and take care of your emotional and mental health. That is the best thing anyone can ask for.

gosh I feel so stupid. I pretty much walked past him and didn’t recognize it was him walking towards me! I wasn’t really paying attention, and don’t like looking people in the eye when walking, so the entire time I ignored his presence as if he wasn’t important. (btw this was at work.) Then I saw him during his lunch (I was already done for the day, I ignored him when I began my shift, so this is a lot later now), and he saw me as I went ahead to check my schedule, I decided to look at him so that I could say hi, but when he looked back at me, he didn't look so happy to see me. He had no expression on his face, and never said hi back when I said it. ( He usually always does.) Now I'm upset that he hates me for ignoring him ( In all honesty, I feel like I'm going crazy because since I wasn't paying attention to my surroundings, I'm still not even sure if it was him who I was ignoring or someone else). But yeah, I feel like such an idiot for saying hi. He probably ...

What do I lack as a guy to not be the one they go home with at a bar the same night? It’s kind of demeaning in some way that other people she’s been with, they are able to be intimate without much effort and I’m always put in the “let’s take it slow” and boyfriend / beta category Submitted August 27, 2021 at 12:13AM What do I lack as a guy to not be the one they go home with at a bar the same night? It’s kind of demeaning in some way that other people she’s been with, they are able to be intimate without much effort and I’m always put in the “let’s take it slow” and boyfriend / beta category