We broke up and was friends, but it wasn’t working out so we’re strangers now. It felt like he was putting in no effort at all and never asks about me, but while we were arguing he said he cares a lot, but he’s never shows it. He still watches my story and is active on Instagram, even though he only got the app to talk to me. And he doesn’t unfollow people so I was the one to unfollow him on everything. There’s no hatred or anything, just tired of him being like that all the time. Should I block him to cut ties clean or leave him be? Submitted March 10, 2023 at 01:13AM We broke up and was friends, but it wasn’t working out so we’re strangers now. It felt like he was putting in no effort at all and never asks about me, but while we were arguing he said he cares a lot, but he’s never shows it. He still watches my story and is active on Instagram, even though he only got the app to talk to me. And he doesn’t unfollow people so I was the one to unfollow him on everything. There’s no...

Can I just trade all of that for health insurance. March 10, 2023 at 12:12AM

It seems like I always attract narcissists. I’ve had a narcissist female friend and she was insanely disgusting towards me, a trauma dumper, and envious of me even though I helped her at her lowest and after I had enough of her shit I blocked her. And never looked back, Months later, she kept trying to hit me up on my social medias I never even told her about. Saying a bunch of nonsense and bullshit lies. Exactly a year later she tried to hit me up again! So fucking creepy. Anyway, I recently was talking to this guy online that I thought had chemistry with, but always on the phone he he would name call me, like say “dumb bitch”, “you’re dumb” and the funny thing is he would say I was his soulmate the first few days we talked and my narc female friend would say me and her were soulmates I guess “friend soulmates” which I knew was absolute bullshit because she would cheat on her boyfriend like crazy. Anyway this guy, the first few days me and him start talking he’s like oh we’re soulmat...

A few days ago I wanted to meet up with my friends with benefits to talk to him about something serious. On Sunday night I told him to meet me on Monday and he agreed to. On Monday evening I texted him to ask if he was coming and he told me he couldn’t make it because he had an emergency to deal with. He said he could come on Tuesday or Wednesday instead. I told him to come on Tuesday because I wasn’t available until quite late on Wednesday. He replied ‘Okay deal.’ Tuesday came around and he didn’t show up nor did he message me to let me know he wasn’t going to make it. Wednesday he didn’t show up either. I still haven’t heard from him and it’s Thursday. I am really hurt that he didn’t show up. I can tell that he obviously doesn’t care. I don’t intend to continue the relationship. I thought we were at least friends… at least that’s how I felt. So my question is should I just quietly move on or say something to him? Submitted March 10, 2023 at 12:13AM A few days ago I wanted to...

It's normal to hate me, also sorry, and I feel like that's the truth that this is what everyone thinks about me deep down even if I know that it's irrational (and not the cool kind of irrational) March 09, 2023 at 11:14PM

I deserve it, it's awful enough that I exist March 09, 2023 at 11:11PM