There have been longer posts, but regardless, thank you for taking the time to read this. It means a lot. This girl I’ve been seeing for 2-3 months just ended things with me. She was on the fence about doing it because she really likes me but doesn’t want a relationship, and she knows that I do. I had fallen in love with her, and haven’t told her. If I did, it would drive her away. Here’s why: She hates herself when she’s in a relationship. During a relationship or when she feel some coming, she becomes irritable and resents the person she’s dating, and doesn’t know why. She especially resented me, she says, because she is seriously falling for me. The closer she felt to me, the meaner and more critical she was toward me, and then the more stressed and guilty she felt about it. She knows it’s a serious problem of her own, and doesn’t know if she’s capable of a relationship. She has mentioned therapy for this issue, which I think would certainly help. And despite all that, she still...