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Which sexual fantasy/desire/act have you waited the longest to satisfy? Was it as good as you had hoped?

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18M Looking for someone to roleplay as a mother figure

I am looking for someone (male or female it doesn't matter) to roleplay as a female in a scenario I have had cooking up for a long while. Please either message me on Reddit or on discord (my discord is Evy69#4081) I would love to give you details over direct messaging! If any of these things would be an issue this rp is not for you! Also if there is anything you would like to add let me know, I am pretty open about this!! -Mother/son -Curvy Women -public humiliation -clothing descriptions -Playing a dominant female -Public -Breastfeeding -Teasing -Smaller penises -water sports (not needed for the rp) (i could be missing some things, but I think that's everything) Thank you for reading my post!!! ~Lil Brim Submitted December 13, 2019 at 11:53PM I am looking for someone (male or female it doesn't matter) to roleplay as a female in a scenario I have had cooking up for a long while. Please either message me on Reddit or on discord (my discord is Evy69#4081)...

Are headaches during masturbation common?

Hello, so I've been trying to set a personal record for most days consecutively beating my meat and whenever I do it now I get a splitting headache which is annoying but it hurts like hell. This just started a couple of days ago. Thanks in advance! Edit: Forgot to mention that I have taken ibuprofen with no success of the head ache going away Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:06AM Hello, so I've been trying to set a personal record for most days consecutively beating my meat and whenever I do it now I get a splitting headache which is annoying but it hurts like hell. This just started a couple of days ago. Thanks in advance!Edit: Forgot to mention that I have taken ibuprofen with no success of the head ache going away

Loose Pussy after a lot of sex

I am a gifted man with a small asian girlfriend. I started to realize her pussy is getting very banged up. And its starting to become ugly. Its still tight on the inside but it just looks worn. If i take a break from sex will it start to reform? Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:11AM I am a gifted man with a small asian girlfriend. I started to realize her pussy is getting very banged up. And its starting to become ugly. Its still tight on the inside but it just looks worn. If i take a break from sex will it start to reform?

Why Am I Able To Have Non-Orgasmic Ejaculations?

I'm not sure how common this is or how much info there is out there on this, but I've been doing this thing for a few years and it's been kind of hard to find more info on it. So if you're familiar with the concept of penis-having individuals being able to have multiple orgasms you're probably familiar with the exact opposite of what I can do. Since it's more common I'll start there. The basic idea is orgasm and ejaculation aren't don't always have to co-occur and it's possible to separate them with practice. You do a lot of Kegel's to strengthen your PC muscles and then eventually you'll be able to squeeze those muscles tight enough that you can stop yourself from ejaculating during an orgasm, which allows you to bypass the refractory period and maintain the same level of arousal so you can continue having sex without taking a break, sometimes having multiple orgasms before allowing yourself to ejaculate and have a refractory period. I...

I [21M] need some advice about my sex life with my girlfriend [19F]

I have been together with my girlfriend for almost 2.5 years now. She's my first serious relationship and i'm her second. Although she doesn't have any sexual experience from her previous relationship. We have a semi-long distance relationship. about 2 hours away from eachother. We see eachother around 2-3 weekends a month. We also videocall almost every day. In the beginning of our relationship we were figuring things out about sex. Things were great to be honest. We both initiated about the same amount of times when we saw eachother. We we're quite intimate i would say. She was never really someone that wanted to try new things. It took some time for her to even agree to anything other than missionary. This was kind of difficult for me because i really wanted to explore a bit more. Eventually she agreed to different positions and to me giving her oral sex. The first few times she really liked it, and asked me for it maybe 5 times more after that. Then suddenly she ...

Holding an Erection

Hello, Background: 20yrs old male Problem: In the past, I had holding an erection and blamed it on alcohol as the problem because I doubted I had ED. However, with the last two girls I had an affair with, I was sober. I don’t consider myself to be experienced or good with sex and I’m insecure with my penis size (girthy but slightly below average) so I do get really nervous. In my head, I’m mainly focused on making sure I’m doing everything right for her and asking questions like “is she enjoying this?” “I’m sweating too much” “I hope she doesn’t think my dick is too small”. I plan to sleep with her tomorrow so any quick response would be grateful Question: do you think the limping of the penis during sex is caused by ED or performance anxiety/nervousness? Thank you Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:15AM Hello,Background: 20yrs old maleProblem: In the past, I had holding an erection and blamed it on alcohol as the problem because I doubted I had ED. However, with the last two...

Hiding and protecting self porn pics/videos

My husband and I are thinking about breaking our long-held rule against taking porny photos and videos of our antics. NOT for sharing, just for our use. Obviously, we live together so something like an external hard drive would be possible but we'd rather not have to deal with moving sd cards all the time. We'd like to have a place that is secure that we can both upload to from our phones and view easily, ideally from different devices, like the cloud but easy to secure from sneaky and curious and sometimes snoopy teenagers. I use a mac, he uses a PC, we have android phones. For example, he was out of town for work and I asked him to take photos. Which he did, and I enjoyed them, but I can't leave them on my phone so I deleted them and would rather have a place to save them easily. We don't want to use google photos/drive or anything like that that is less secure and definitely not linked to our main accounts. We have kids, and while they are old enough to leave stuff...

It always takes me more than 30-40 mins to ejaculate - And I feel it's a big failure

i'm a healthy man, medium built with standard BMI, hadn't any surgeries, not taking any AD pills or have any problem with erection. My problem is that I always need more than 30-40 minutes of sexual stimulation to reach orgasm and ejaculate, but I never become soft during the course. During college it worked out great, young ladies loved the feeling and the endurance. However, things are really different as I get older and date mature women. I can last, but my recent partners cannot. Even though they can reach orgasm once or twice, I cannot. I ended up ejaculate with manual or oral stimulation only because my partners was too tired to continue. An hour long sexual session makes them enable to wake up next day for work. It's not because they are not attractive or we are stressful. I also sought medical attention but it didn't help. It causes problems with my self-esteem in addition to feelings of inadequacy, failure, and negativity. Sometimes I try to avoid intimacy ...

Cleaning out my inbox and remembered this mild interaction

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Guess im done

Someone just told me if im not naturally attractive I should fake it and make myself seem cool and collected and thats mandatory. You apparently cant appear flawed on a date. So I just say screw it cuz im not about being fake and acting like I got it all together. I'd rather women not do that either. I sont want the perfect woman, I want a real woman with flaws and issues like a real person. This faking it shit is just stupid. Submitted December 13, 2019 at 11:59PM Someone just told me if im not naturally attractive I should fake it and make myself seem cool and collected and thats mandatory. You apparently cant appear flawed on a date. So I just say screw it cuz im not about being fake and acting like I got it all together. I'd rather women not do that either. I sont want the perfect woman, I want a real woman with flaws and issues like a real person. This faking it shit is just stupid.

Is this a kiss on the first date situation?

I met this girl about six weeks ago on a dating app (Badoo). We were both kinda looking for the same thing on it and we had alot to talk about. She lives about 70 miles from me so it's not like we could meet anytime but i decided to ask her out on a date in a town close to me, she usually takes the train and she was fine with going here. Let's call This girl "Felicia" for the rest of the text Let me just round up a bunch of things we have in common: We both like the same movies (tarantino, horror, biographies and historical), we like the same academics like history and sceneography, we have kind of the same taste in music though im more metal and she's more country and rock. We both have the same kind of political worldview. She has a huge thing for guys who play guitars and i started playing electric guitar maybe two months ago (she's aware of it, insisting i continue training). I really like her overall look, i haven't yet spotted one thing i dont lik...

Should I tell this girl I love her to help myself get over her?

There have been longer posts, but regardless, thank you for taking the time to read this. It means a lot. This girl I’ve been seeing for 2-3 months just ended things with me. She was on the fence about doing it because she really likes me but doesn’t want a relationship, and she knows that I do. I had fallen in love with her, and haven’t told her. If I did, it would drive her away. Here’s why: She hates herself when she’s in a relationship. During a relationship or when she feel some coming, she becomes irritable and resents the person she’s dating, and doesn’t know why. She especially resented me, she says, because she is seriously falling for me. The closer she felt to me, the meaner and more critical she was toward me, and then the more stressed and guilty she felt about it. She knows it’s a serious problem of her own, and doesn’t know if she’s capable of a relationship. She has mentioned therapy for this issue, which I think would certainly help. And despite all that, she still...

Why would he be physically affectionate but act uninterested?

tl;dr: He initiates holding hands, kissing, and intimate touches, but does not put the effort into the relationship. Why? I have been seeing this guy over the last three months, and we only went for 6 dates as we traveled during this period to different countries for 3 weeks. Anyhow, on the second date, he initiated holding hands, and we almost kissed. Right after this date, we both traveled. He didn't text me, so I did. I noticed he was flaky and taking 4 hours to reply although he used to take 20 mins max before. I asked him why he did that, and he said he lost a bit of interest bc I am leaving the city in a month, and he won't like a long distance. After we returned from our trips, he texted and we did hang out that night. He was also getting physically close to me. However, he does not make time for me or text me as much as I do. I am confused why would someone trying to be that affectionate and show no interest? we didn't even have sex, and we are demisexuals. I got ...

/u/Spade11or1 on Conversations with colleagues about other colleagues' attractiveness. Am I the only one who finds these intensely uncomfortable?

Whoa, that's like not OK. I think many allos would have problems with that. Hard and fast rule for all sexualities: don't fuck where you work. December 14, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/marburger on Spotted on Animal Crossing: Pocket Camp!

love that game December 13, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/Head_Lynx on Jumped on the twitter bandwagon of identities through the decade

I'm in this post and I don't like it. December 13, 2019 at 11:52PM

No sex

I (F) hadn't seen my girlfriend in two weeks and I had high hopes of getting intimate / having sex when I finally got to see her. We haven't had sex in about two months+ because she just doesn't seem to have a sex drive anymore. I know she loves me so much and feels extremely guilty about her lack of sex drive. I don't want to get upset and make the situation worse but since we have been both trying really hard on either side - it just made me so sad of the whole situation and I started crying. We are now in bed and I can't stop the tears and she's just kind of shut down and gone to sleep. I have an urge to break it off with her but I also adore her to bits and it would break my heart to not have her in my life. I just feel so hopeless Submitted December 13, 2019 at 11:47PM I (F) hadn't seen my girlfriend in two weeks and I had high hopes of getting intimate / having sex when I finally got to see her. We haven't had sex in about two months+ becaus...

How in the HECK do I close the "settling" gap?

I don't like the terminology either but that's what gets my point across. I'm 24m, recently separated from 27f. High school sweethearts. Got married three years ago. No kids, thankfully. Repeatedly "left" and cheated on. It's been about two months but I'm not going back when I'm inevitably asked to, this time. She was incredibly physically attractive but had many personality flaws that alienated her from friends and family, and ultimately myself. I'm an average dude in moderately fit shape. I have a real career and I'm easy to please. A little short (5'6"). That last one puts me in the " below average" category to many young women, apparently. I've seen a couple women and spoken to a number on Tinder. It feels like I'm passed up, consistently, by women that aren't nearly as physically attractive as my ex or didn't have much ambition (regarding personal growth or career or whatever). I'm very involved i...

Hit it off with a girl I barely talk to at the pub.

How do I slide in without being creepy? I’ve never messaged her before and I don’t know whether she enjoyed the conversation because she enjoyed my company or because she actually likes me. Ideas? Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:04AM How do I slide in without being creepy? I’ve never messaged her before and I don’t know whether she enjoyed the conversation because she enjoyed my company or because she actually likes me. Ideas?

Is this a bad question to ask a 23 year old girl?

I'm 25 and trying to get to know a 23 year old girl (long distance) better. We have been talking/texting casually for 3 months. I sent her a message asking if she likes to party. She said absolutely. I then asked in a message if she like beer or liquor more. She said both haha. I sent her another message and said this "Do any of your friends do crazy stuff I wonder.. Like some of my friends like to smoke pot lol. I don't like that stuff though. Makes me feel weird. I use to have a really crazy friend. Her name was Sara." She hasn't gotten back yet (she started a new stressful job a few weeks ago, and she gets back when she can.) Was that a bad get to know you better question? Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:06AM I'm 25 and trying to get to know a 23 year old girl (long distance) better. We have been talking/texting casually for 3 months. I sent her a message asking if she likes to party. She said absolutely. I then asked in a message if she like bee...

Help me with him ...

Hello my friends... i don’t know really how to start but imma try out ... there’s this one guy who looks at me all the time He is in my class Tries to make me jealous Talks to his friends but looks at me while talking to them Snaps me Texts me We do not talk much because He’s my ex What shall i do ? I think of him ,his eyes ,his smell all the time I have snapchat only for receiving snaps from him I am happy when i get a message frim him But i dont feel any attraction towards him Somstimes i fwel butterflies in my belly when we hild eye contact for more than 5 seconds but then i look away... how do i feel about him ? How does he feel about me ? Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:07AM Hello my friends... i don’t know really how to start but imma try out ... there’s this one guy who looks at me all the time He is in my class Tries to make me jealous Talks to his friends but looks at me while talking to them Snaps me Texts me We do not talk much because He’s my ex What shall i do ? I...

I’m [23M] not sure if she’s [21F] interested

She and I had Spanish together last spring, during which time we worked together a decent amount and exchanged numbers. Over the summer I texted her and asked which Spanish she was taking this semester, to which she didn’t read or respond for three days for context. Earlier this semester I texted her some shit to study for the first test, since my class is before hers (she has read receipts on and didn’t read/respond for almost a day and asked me some questions about my class at that point, with more late responses from her). I didn’t really think of her as anything but a class acquaintance at that point, but that changed 3 weeks ago when I installed and ended up matching with her on Tinder. I ended up texting her and asking if she wanted to grab drinks, but she responded and was going out of town. I sent her a text telling her to have fun and shoot me a message if she wants to do something when she gets back, but no response/read. Earlier this week I texted her and asked when her S...