Why Am I Able To Have Non-Orgasmic Ejaculations?

I'm not sure how common this is or how much info there is out there on this, but I've been doing this thing for a few years and it's been kind of hard to find more info on it.

So if you're familiar with the concept of penis-having individuals being able to have multiple orgasms you're probably familiar with the exact opposite of what I can do. Since it's more common I'll start there. The basic idea is orgasm and ejaculation aren't don't always have to co-occur and it's possible to separate them with practice. You do a lot of Kegel's to strengthen your PC muscles and then eventually you'll be able to squeeze those muscles tight enough that you can stop yourself from ejaculating during an orgasm, which allows you to bypass the refractory period and maintain the same level of arousal so you can continue having sex without taking a break, sometimes having multiple orgasms before allowing yourself to ejaculate and have a refractory period. I've never been able to do this so I'm not 100% on the specifics, but that's the gist of it to my understanding.

What I do is basically the opposite of that. A few years ago when I first started getting really into edging I noticed that the amount of precum I was producing was increasing every time I edged over the course of a couple months. Eventually the precum started to be cloudy like regular cum, instead of just being clear. I would always start with clear precum, but if I edged long enough it would start to turn cloudy. I kept practicing, partly because it felt really good to tease myself and partly because I post videos online and I had gotten a lot of people saying that they were big fans of the amount of precum I produced.

Fast-forward to now and I've gotten so experienced with this that I can basically get out an entire load of cum without having an actual orgasm. This doesn't happen all at once, but over the course of 30-60 minutes (note, this time starts when I get close to the edge the first time, I usually masturbate for 2+ hours if I'm doing this sort of thing and I build up to it very slowly), I can have several "mini ejaculations" to the point where nothing will come out when I finally go over the edge and have a full orgasm. These "mini ejaculations" don't cause a refractory period, and I don't lose arousal until after I have an orgasm. I haven't really been able to find much info on this, aside from a few porn videos that appear to show the same thing happening to other men, because most of the time if I try googling it I just find info on multi-orgasmic techniques for men, or info on ruined orgasms. I don't think this counts as a ruined orgasm either though because it doesn't feel like an orgasm. It still feels incredible, but it definitely isn't an orgasm, and I really want to learn more about what my body is doing.

Keep in mind, this isn't like a "what's wrong with my body" type of thing. I absolutely love this, and I try to do it as often as possible whether I'm having sex alone or with my fiancee. Alone it provides free lube for jerking off, and with my fiancee I'm able to give her the sensation of my cock twitching inside of her and warm cum filling her, while still maintaining an erection and being able to go right back to fucking her (after I've backed off from the edge of course) using my cum as lube. But I still really want to understand this better. I hope I did alright explaining the situation, if not you can check my post history to see exactly what I'm talking about.

Submitted December 14, 2019 at 12:11AM

I'm not sure how common this is or how much info there is out there on this, but I've been doing this thing for a few years and it's been kind of hard to find more info on it.So if you're familiar with the concept of penis-having individuals being able to have multiple orgasms you're probably familiar with the exact opposite of what I can do. Since it's more common I'll start there. The basic idea is orgasm and ejaculation aren't don't always have to co-occur and it's possible to separate them with practice. You do a lot of Kegel's to strengthen your PC muscles and then eventually you'll be able to squeeze those muscles tight enough that you can stop yourself from ejaculating during an orgasm, which allows you to bypass the refractory period and maintain the same level of arousal so you can continue having sex without taking a break, sometimes having multiple orgasms before allowing yourself to ejaculate and have a refractory period. I've never been able to do this so I'm not 100% on the specifics, but that's the gist of it to my understanding.What I do is basically the opposite of that. A few years ago when I first started getting really into edging I noticed that the amount of precum I was producing was increasing every time I edged over the course of a couple months. Eventually the precum started to be cloudy like regular cum, instead of just being clear. I would always start with clear precum, but if I edged long enough it would start to turn cloudy. I kept practicing, partly because it felt really good to tease myself and partly because I post videos online and I had gotten a lot of people saying that they were big fans of the amount of precum I produced.Fast-forward to now and I've gotten so experienced with this that I can basically get out an entire load of cum without having an actual orgasm. This doesn't happen all at once, but over the course of 30-60 minutes (note, this time starts when I get close to the edge the first time, I usually masturbate for 2+ hours if I'm doing this sort of thing and I build up to it very slowly), I can have several "mini ejaculations" to the point where nothing will come out when I finally go over the edge and have a full orgasm. These "mini ejaculations" don't cause a refractory period, and I don't lose arousal until after I have an orgasm. I haven't really been able to find much info on this, aside from a few porn videos that appear to show the same thing happening to other men, because most of the time if I try googling it I just find info on multi-orgasmic techniques for men, or info on ruined orgasms. I don't think this counts as a ruined orgasm either though because it doesn't feel like an orgasm. It still feels incredible, but it definitely isn't an orgasm, and I really want to learn more about what my body is doing.Keep in mind, this isn't like a "what's wrong with my body" type of thing. I absolutely love this, and I try to do it as often as possible whether I'm having sex alone or with my fiancee. Alone it provides free lube for jerking off, and with my fiancee I'm able to give her the sensation of my cock twitching inside of her and warm cum filling her, while still maintaining an erection and being able to go right back to fucking her (after I've backed off from the edge of course) using my cum as lube. But I still really want to understand this better. I hope I did alright explaining the situation, if not you can check my post history to see exactly what I'm talking about.