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/u/CapiPuppy on This person thinks people that aren't gay bi lesbian or trans shouldn't be accepted into the community.

r/unexpectedpokemon June 09, 2020 at 11:59PM

/u/judiyon on Let us rise up, and just like stab some people I guess, it'll be fun, I'll bring drinks

Do baguettes count? June 09, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/TazariaGaming on I love you all.

This community is great! We're all here to help one another. And I'm glad to hear you accepted yourself! Well done! June 09, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/Elwing42 on Finally wear my ace ring for the pride month 🏳️‍🌈

You sure will, there is so much wonder on Etsy ! June 09, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/greenbunn67 on Finally wear my ace ring for the pride month 🏳️‍🌈

Ahh too bad, but maybe I can find something similar on etsy. Thanks anyways! June 09, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/WolfgangNeko on Being asexual

This post makes me sad becouse I'm poor and I can't give you and award June 09, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/FormicaRufa on My new favorite mug arrived

Nice ! Longsword and spear for me. June 09, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/AceSpace-Cake on Anyone interested to start an Instagram page about asexuality?

I would love to help, but I think I’m really bad at committing in things like this 😅but if you need more people or someone to do small things or something, I’m good at editing videos and photos, I have more less artistic skills Also I have an idea, it would be great to spread it all over the world, I’m from Mexico and I can translate somethings into Spanish, in order to educate more people UwU P.D. I’m ace panrromantic UwU June 09, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/mizuwolf on I've known for a long time that I was asexual, but last year I realized I prefer women over men and started questioning a lot of my sexual identity. Recently I realized I actually could be in a romantic relationship with anyone, but overall prefer women. So here's to my panromantic asexual self!

I totally understand what you mean - there's a lot of defensive movements - from biphobic lesbians to lesbians who insist you must be a 'gold star' lesbian - so it's hard to feel like you're really allowed to call yourself one. But at the end of the day, if the label doesn't bring you comfort, there's no need to push it on yourself. It's funny though, every time I have a crush on a fictional male character (hello Adam Jensen) I realize that a lot of what makes me attracted to them is things that society specifically tries to make young boys push down, like openly caring about things lol. ​ You are valid though, and if you relate to that doc as much as I did, you should feel okay calling yourself a lesbian. If irl men don't do it for you romantically, and if you'd never want to date one even if they did, then (imo) you're a lesbian. <3 June 09, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/sayen13 on Is there a correlation of asexuality and being the youngest child?

I'm the middle sister and i'm ace biromantic, my older sister is bi and my younger sister is straight June 09, 2020 at 11:35PM

/u/discipula26 on I’m listening to The Invisible Orientation to learn more about Asexuality as an Allo

Sorry, I’m still confused. simply wanting to have sex due to lust without mental attraction. Like you’re attracted to someone’s physical features instead of non-physical? But that would still be sexual attraction, wouldn’t it, because you still want to have sex with that person, specifically ? Or you want to have sex to have sex, without caring much about who with? Which sounds like sex-positive asexuality. June 09, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/mrhenk9 on I just sold one of my ace pride designs and the person left this amazingly sweet message! Happy pride month!

Mrhenk9 is my reddit alias, mrnoel9 is my most used user name except if its taken like on reddit June 09, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/Wow_so_rpg on I just sold one of my ace pride designs and the person left this amazingly sweet message! Happy pride month!

Is it Mr Noel or Mr Henk? Hmm June 09, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/Elwing42 on Finally wear my ace ring for the pride month 🏳️‍🌈

Thank youu ! Sadly I found it in an old drawer so I have no idea where she came from... sorry June 09, 2020 at 11:26PM

/u/niky45 on Do I still count as asexual if...?

ace = no SEXUAL attraction. ie you see someone attractive and your mind DOESNT go "so hot, I'd fuck them". you can still have romantic attraction. most aces do (unless they're aro too) June 09, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/greenbunn67 on Finally wear my ace ring for the pride month 🏳️‍🌈

Such a cool ring! Where did you get it from? June 09, 2020 at 11:24PM

/u/Felipe_Silva_ on Let us rise up, and just like stab some people I guess, it'll be fun, I'll bring drinks

Bayonetta? The witch? June 09, 2020 at 11:23PM

/u/TheDykeofAgragoth on I’m listening to The Invisible Orientation to learn more about Asexuality as an Allo

maybe it is, but sometimes the desire to have sex is purely motivated by physical lust, and sometimes there is a mental pull that you want to satisfy with sex, and you can find someone sexually attractive without having a pull to engage in sex, so I was trying to explain that there’s a difference between simply wanting to have sex due to lust without mental attraction, and mental attraction without physical attraction but maybe I’m confusing aesthetic attraction for sexual attraction - desire to actually engage in sex June 09, 2020 at 11:20PM

/u/akcrow on Let us rise up, and just like stab some people I guess, it'll be fun, I'll bring drinks

And you can get a bayonet for a gun. June 09, 2020 at 11:15PM

/u/TheCakemeister on This person thinks people that aren't gay bi lesbian or trans shouldn't be accepted into the community.

I guess that's a minor lining to my curse. June 09, 2020 at 11:11PM

/u/isiprobablyhungryrn on An Ace Mood

THIS. I really really hate our society and social norms for forcing this kind of lifestyle onto everyone June 09, 2020 at 11:11PM

/u/RandomizerWorks on Anyone interested to start an Instagram page about asexuality?

I’d love to help, even if it’s just for support or to be a small moderator! I’m good at writing, so I could do that, although I’ve never done much photoshop. I personally am ace/panro. June 09, 2020 at 11:11PM

I watch 90day fiancé and I’m worried

So I watched 90 day fiancé and I saw a lot of these people got scammed online but they are stilll in denial (like David and Lana or Caesar). I would say its pretty easy for me getting the date but I think since my personality is unique and I’m pretty picky, I’m never the type who gets another relationship right after I broke up which I think is healthy. I also came from different countries and I have moved around so I’m kinda culturally mixed myself since I adopted some of these cultures from the countries I’ve lived in and they can be very different. A lot of times, I couldn’t connect with men since I can be too diverse for him. Some are also scared of my career etc. But I have a strong desire to have a partner and I’m worried that I look like I’m desperate when going on dates. I never pressure anyone to be in a relationship w me but then regarding sex, I always try to hold off until someone is fully committed to me and some people just left right after I told them that I’m holding ...