My dad has been a drug addict my whole life. He has always come in and out of my life through the years. He mostly kept his distance because he didn’t want to hurt me. I have an amazing grandmother who has always tried to compensate for his absence as well as always picking up his pieces. I have had a lot of horrible experiences from his history of drug abuse, throughout my teenage years from when I was 11 I would get phone calls from random people saying that if I didn’t give them money that he owed they would hurt him. Then the next day or next week he would be found beat up in a gutter somewhere. This was so traumatising as I would always think it was my fault, my mum and step dad would change my number (I only had a phone for when I would go to school or to contact my family). Sometimes he would come to my grandparents on ice and try to hurt them. He never hurt me. When I was 17 in my high school exams (HSC in Australia) I had turned up at my grandparents one afternoon to find o...

I don’t really know what to say, my relationship with my girlfriend has turned toxic and now I look at it, it has been for a few months. She was more than okay at the beginning of the relationship, taking most jealousy situations with ease and accepting I’m my own person. Slowly as things got serious these tendencies just arose. It’s like something switched in her head and at the moment we’re both hoping it’s down to the contraceptive pill that she is on, as it’s the mini pill and is known to cause depressive episodes etc. However we can’t be sure. I’ve lost friendships with some really cool female friends because my girlfriend is just overly jealous, cry’s endlessly when a situation of going out without her comes into play, and then passively try’s to talk me out of going. When I’m out without her it’s constant unease at the situation. She’s been through my phone countless times almost everytime we meet and has done it once whilst I was asleep. But I suppose the thing that gets me th...

Hey, guys! I’m a 20 year old female college student & I constantly get into massive arguments with my family because of their “boomer mentality”. I’m not sure how to communicate with them anymore or even maintain a healthy relationship. Both of my parents plus all of my grandparents went to college & earned their degrees in commerce or the humanities.They are all highly paid & successful white-collar professionals. They said I should pursue law school because I’m articulate, analytical & insightful lol. I have told them that I won’t pursue a law degree unless I get a super high score on the LSAT ( above 90th percentile) & get into the top 20 schools. I heard the legal field is too over saturated to break into unless I attend a top school & get good internship opportunities. When I made the decision to go to school for nursing instead of economics ( pre-law) , they were all shocked to death! They are constantly telling me how I’m wasting all of my potentials ...

I used tinder as an outlet to find people who have cars to take me out more. I had so much fun on my tinder dates. But none of them worked out more than a year. Me and my last tinder date just broke it off this afternoon (refer to previous post). I used apps like bumblebff to find other females to meet up in my area but most of the girls live over 30 miles away. I don't have a car or a license. I don't know how to drive. But I'm going to try to make that happen this year because me not knowing how to drive is really holding me back. For the time being, I don't know what to do. I'm thinking about installing a dating app again and finding more dates but dating is stupid to me. From my experience, nobody is going to be there for the long run. And I think I'm choosing the right guys when I do background checks and when they have college degrees and seem to be cool people. But they just want to fuck and they will ditch you for another girl if given the chance. I...

This is my second post (original in DeadBedrooms) and realized I should have added this part in my original post in which I was asking about whether or not it is time to leave my marriage. Has anyone felt like they can't leave their marriage (after trying counseling, talking, seminars, mentoring, praying,etc) because being unhappy doesn't seem like a good enough reason? I mean, my husband (despite flaws and our issues in original post) is, when it comes down to it, a decent man. We are Christian, and I know what the Bible/church says about divorce. There is no cheating or abuse. I am just desperately unhappy and have no reason to believe things will change based on his patterns. I am apathetic and sad. I am the LL. I understand (as much as I'm able and not having a Male brain) that he is frustrated in every sense of the word. He often uses Bible verses about how two become one and being one flesh and how we don't act like a married couple, etc. He has implied I'm...

Hi everyone. I’m 8 months pregnant and my husband said I was fat. I’m 31 years old. I gained 31 lbs and was already overweight 170 when I got pregnant so he isn’t wrong. I’m going to try to eat healthier (now) and work out really hard (after baby). My question is. I’m embarassed to be seen by him right now. I don’t want to be seen by him. I can’t even eat in front of him because I’m worried about how I look when I eat in front of him. I’m worried about him seeing my thighs during delivery. I basically just want to disappear until I look okay again. What do I do in the meantime? To avoid him being even more unattracted to me? Is he always going to remember this and never be head over heels for me again even if I lost weight? I’ll always be the girl that was once overweight. Submitted January 08, 2020 at 12:10AM Hi everyone. I’m 8 months pregnant and my husband said I was fat. I’m 31 years old.I gained 31 lbs and was already overweight 170 when I got pregnant so he isn’t wro...

This is something I would like to do to my wife but I am not quit sure why. I sadly think its because of porn. I know there are different opinions about porn but lets just say that it has had a negative impact on me and I try to avoid it. BUt still this is something that has stuck with me, wanting to finish on her face. The thing is I dont want to be disrespectful to her and I want her to enjoy it if we are trying something new. So I wonder if getting cum on your face does give some pleasure or is it just disrespectful? Is there a way to make it a more pleasurable thing? Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:13PM This is something I would like to do to my wife but I am not quit sure why. I sadly think its because of porn. I know there are different opinions about porn but lets just say that it has had a negative impact on me and I try to avoid it. BUt still this is something that has stuck with me, wanting to finish on her face. The thing is I dont want to be disrespectful to her and...

When we got together about 3 months ago she told me she can only take about half of me in her mouth. I of course told her no problem. She's not the best ever at giving head but she still does a great job and I tell her that and of course I return the favor! We were at a kinda wild party and we were in a bedroom with another couple. Each of us were making out and my GF ended up giving me head in front of them. It was much better than she ever has before. She was so into it. The best part was she kept deepthroating my entire dick (7.5 inches). It felt so good. How do I ask her to do that again?! I wanna respect what she said about not being handle all of me. But I know she can, and she sure looked like she loved it! And of course I mean how do I get her to give me that kind of head when we're in private lol. Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:17PM When we got together about 3 months ago she told me she can only take about half of me in her mouth. I of course told her no pr...

I have no idea what the deal is but I get super horny during and right after my period. like mega horny. So horny that sex is all i can think about. My boyfriend said a hard no to period sex which is okay, I don’t have a problem with that. I can see how its nasty and I don’t really wanna deal with the mess anyway. I’m on the last day of my period right now and damn i’m horny. I want to do it tomorrow but I want it a certain way. How do I ask for this in a way that is not too much? Its not like he won’t want sex. I just don’t know how to ask for what I want. Or even some validation that others feel this way lol! Thanks! Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:20PM I have no idea what the deal is but I get super horny during and right after my period. like mega horny. So horny that sex is all i can think about. My boyfriend said a hard no to period sex which is okay, I don’t have a problem with that. I can see how its nasty and I don’t really wanna deal with the mess anyway. I’m on the l...

Ladies what do toy enjoy in bed? Positions, foreplay, hard, slow, what do you like your man to do ? If you explained to your man what works for you and what gets you off . what would you say? Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:21PM Ladies what do toy enjoy in bed?Positions, foreplay, hard, slow, what do you like your man to do ? If you explained to your man what works for you and what gets you off . what would you say?

Hello everybody, I'm Denis, 20. In general, everything is so - I finally lost my virginity, but could not finish in 2 hours of sex .. What's wrong with me? Every day before that, I steadily and calmly received an orgasm daily with the help of masturbation, since every day, closer to the evening, there was a strong desire, however, when full-fledged sex appeared, there was no orgasm for all 5 times that we had Only 1 time happened, and then when I stimulated myself a little. Are there any problems? It may be due to the fact that I have serious feelings for her, as it turned out, (It was a strange acquaintance and the beginning of a relationship, the first relationship in my life), literally two weeks later I realized that I’m not really. Or can it be due to the fact that I masturbated every day and developed some kind of habit? Or is it all in my head and if I really fall in love with a girl, will everything be all right? Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:27PM Hello everyb...

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A little preface: I have nothing against homosexuality, so it’s not like I’m trying to repress it. I would not care if I’m gay. So I sometimes like watching solo men masterbate. Specifically guys who look similar to me. I have a very “twink” body type so I often will look up things like “twink guy masterbating” I told my girlfriend about this (which I have a great sex life and relationship with, so I’m open about stuff) she does not mind but she said that it means I’m bisexual. The thing is. I dont think I’m attracted to guys at all. It honestly feels gross to even think about sleeping with another guy. I’m just turned on by guys that look similar to me masterbating. I don’t think it makes me gay, but I would like to know if I’m wrong. Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:34PM A little preface: I have nothing against homosexuality, so it’s not like I’m trying to repress it. I would not care if I’m gay.So I sometimes like watching solo men masterbate. Specifically guys who look simi...

so i got curious and tried the same. While the afore mentioned OP described their experience as absolutely gross, the cum being bitter and disgustingly tasting, i tasted nothing. Literally nothing. It had a weird texture, comparable to ingesting the kind of fart slime that children sometimes play with (the one in small plastic tubes; usually pink or green, designed like a tocix waste barrel most of the time) but other than that i tasted nothing. ​ Can't relate to that guy's experience. Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:35PM so i got curious and tried the same. While the afore mentioned OP described their experience as absolutely gross, the cum being bitter and disgustingly tasting, i tasted nothing. Literally nothing.It had a weird texture, comparable to ingesting the kind of fart slime that children sometimes play with (the one in small plastic tubes; usually pink or green, designed like a tocix waste barrel most of the time) but other than that i tasted nothing.​Can...

What is a good way to keep a 12 year old boy from getting into porn? I'm not a prude. I look at it. I just think it's detrimental to kids so young as they're figuring out their own sexuality. I've been taking an angle that many of the men who make porn are bad guys and are exploiting the women, even if they seem like they're enjoying it, they're actually being hurt. And those guys get paid everytime he clicks on something. Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:40PM What is a good way to keep a 12 year old boy from getting into porn? I'm not a prude. I look at it. I just think it's detrimental to kids so young as they're figuring out their own sexuality.I've been taking an angle that many of the men who make porn are bad guys and are exploiting the women, even if they seem like they're enjoying it, they're actually being hurt. And those guys get paid everytime he clicks on something.

I want an older partner, preferablly 45-55 who is very nurturing and caring for her "son." I was curious how many women would actually engage in this form of relationship. This includes -calling her mommy or mom 24/7 including in public, private, text, intimacy including cuddling and sex. -being breastfed constantly by her. -being a typical son who does household errands for her including but not limited to washing the dishes, doing laundry, other mundane household chores while she enjoys relaxing while watching television drinking a glass of wine that I fetched for her. -being asked to come into the bathroom while taking a bath being asked to get a foot and back massage. -also being asked to come with her to the mall, get her mani-pedi done, hair done, supermarket shopping including having to pick up the heavy items and telling the cashier (my son will take care of it). So how many women would explore, engage, and even embrace in such a relationship with such a younge...

So we’ve been going out for a while now and I would like to know what sort of things turn her on. But I not sure whether to be direct and ask or how else to go about it. Any replies appreciated, thank you Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:50PM So we’ve been going out for a while now and I would like to know what sort of things turn her on. But I not sure whether to be direct and ask or how else to go about it. Any replies appreciated, thank you

I've been with women for whom nothing happened, it was practically like kissing her arm, to women who loved to play with it (clamps too), to those who found it so sensitive that you had to work up to it and they could even practically cum with just nipple stimulation. That fact blows my mind .. to have one body part with so much variation. And the one you gravitate to! Does this fact blow your mind too? Or anything else? Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:50PM I've been with women for whom nothing happened, it was practically like kissing her arm, to women who loved to play with it (clamps too), to those who found it so sensitive that you had to work up to it and they could even practically cum with just nipple stimulation.That fact blows my mind .. to have one body part with so much variation. And the one you gravitate to! Does this fact blow your mind too? Or anything else?

So my biggest turn on so far is doing forbidden things. For example having a massage and then the guy starts fucking you and telling you its good for you, yes i know its ridiculous but it works. So im actually scared about me having sex in the future because there is nothing forbidden about me and my boyfriend having sex. And roleplays? I m just not sure it will work. Ive found out that when i try to be thankful for what im seeing, the naked body, it also helps me get turned on. BUT SADLY, it only works a few times every few months. Any suggestions? We dont really choose our sexuality what am i to do Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:57PM So my biggest turn on so far is doing forbidden things. For example having a massage and then the guy starts fucking you and telling you its good for you, yes i know its ridiculous but it works. So im actually scared about me having sex in the future because there is nothing forbidden about me and my boyfriend having sex. And roleplays? I m just...

I (F) have been masturbating everyday since my teens, the first time I orgasmed I fell off my bed in disbelief. The waves of excitement and absolute ecstasy that rushes through my body was an instant addiction and I didnt understand why anyone could go a day without having an orgasm. It felt fucking incredible. I called in sick at high school and had a porn marathon on my laptop for half the day, it was then that I experienced my first orgasm. Sheer delight. Threesomes, young woman old boss, thick women, ebony porn, girl on girl, oily massage, gay porn, trans woman and woman, I'd rub my throbbing clit in delight to pretty much anything whilst my french knickers slid about in thick, wet pleasure. The more out there the porn, the wetter my knickers. I'd get so wet even my anus got covered in it. My orgasms make me feel like I've travelled somewhere with no time or space, the fast deep throbs in my clit travel down towards my pussy opening and pulsate warmly throughout my b...

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I miss you more today than usual, whether it's because I'm very sick or very tired I can't tell you. I dreamt of us last night, I can still feel the stubble on your chin from it. I wish it was real, I want to be there with you, to hold your hand and feel your heartbeat. I miss you so much more today, it's one of the hardest parts of being so far away but it's odd to think that can make someone break a bond. The distance hurts but it makes me savour every syllable you speak, and every laugh you give me. The distance makes me love you so much more, maybe I'm the weird one. You don't know how much I love you because there are no words to describe these feelings of love and peace, but we don't need words to know how we feel. There's an unspoken knowingness that we have with each other and a simple glance can say so much more than a paragraph of the finest literature. I love you, and I can't wait to hold you in my arms and bask in the warmth of your ...

Ok folks I have a dilemma. I am not a fan of the in-app messaging (they tend to be buggy). I much prefer a texting/messaging app - of which there are a ton out there. The thing is if I give out my phone number it's easily Googleable and the person can find out everything about me. I want to maintain some level of privacy in the early days of chatting - so what phone messaging apps are best to use if you don't want to use your own phone number? Submitted January 07, 2020 at 11:16PM Ok folks I have a dilemma. I am not a fan of the in-app messaging (they tend to be buggy). I much prefer a texting/messaging app - of which there are a ton out there. The thing is if I give out my phone number it's easily Googleable and the person can find out everything about me. I want to maintain some level of privacy in the early days of chatting - so what phone messaging apps are best to use if you don't want to use your own phone number?