So my phone has a big issue where either messages to me aren't being received and the messages to others aren't being received. I met this really awesome guy and we've been on two dates and want to go on another but two weeks ago he had a family emergency and had to fly out of the country to be with them. We try to talk a bit every day but for the past couple days he would send me something, I would respond and he just wouldn't answer but then send a message the next day. Today I finally asked if the messages I had sent last night and the night before had gotten in. He said the messages from two days ago did but not the ones from last night so at least he knows that I did send him something. So now my issue is that I don't know if he's getting all my messages and not responding or I'm not getting his messages back. I called him earlier today forgetting that he's a couple hours ahead just to say hey and let him know about the phone issue but he didn'

My SO(F26) and I(M30) have been struggling with uncomfortable / painful sex for a while now. We have discussed the topic a few time and the back story is that space has always been a bit cramped down there. I was her first and I guess we both thought that over time it would become a little easier / less painful. Apparently she has seen a doctor years ago and the have discussed Pelvic floor therapy. She didn’t go into much detail other than that. Sex wise I try and do my due diligence and make sure she is relaxed and comfortable if you know what I mean. However it still takes quit a while to penetrate and the pain threshold can be anywhere from discomfort to “A hot iron rod” being inserted. I have done some research and found vaginal dilation kits can be therapy to help. Dose anyone have experience with this? Her resolution is penieal reduction surgery. Lol. Not sure I want to go that route. Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:02AM My SO(F26) and I(M30) have been struggling with un

I (F19) ate a guys (M18) ass for the first time the other night and I am not really sure how I feel. I have had a crush on him for a little while and he invited me to his house to watch movies and i knew what that meant. When I got there we smoked some and started watching a movie and things escalated and we started making out and getting undressed. I decided to go down on him (he was laying on his back) cuz that’s just usually the routine I follow. I was sucking his dick for a while and then he grabbed my hand and put it on his asshole. I didn’t really know what I was doing but in bed my first reaction is always just to try and hopefully do a good job. Turning someone else on always turns me on, so I went for it. Then he kinda lifted his legs up and pushed my face down a little and grabbed his dick away from my hand so again I just kinda went for it. I was licking his asshole and I hadn’t even registered that that was what was happening. I kept at it for a long time because I wante

I’m (F20) bad at talking dirty to my boyfriend. When we’re having sex I do say “oh god” (that was a few times) or “fuck!” (That’s usually what I say) or I’m just really loud. Like porn loud hah. But I did ask him before if he likes dirty talk and he does. I just can’t seem to figure out what to say. I’m more hands on and tease him by touching him. So what’s some phrases you men like or you women use? Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:05AM I’m (F20) bad at talking dirty to my boyfriend. When we’re having sex I do say “oh god” (that was a few times) or “fuck!” (That’s usually what I say) or I’m just really loud. Like porn loud hah. But I did ask him before if he likes dirty talk and he does. I just can’t seem to figure out what to say. I’m more hands on and tease him by touching him. So what’s some phrases you men like or you women use?

I know it's normal to be horny at my age but, I can't help but feel my libido is crazy high. I'm horny 24/7.... I'm a college student and I see beautiful. sexy girls everywhere... I just want to go balls deep in 80% of the girls I see! Jesus. It's like 80% of my thoughts since I'm surrounded by girls on campus. I feel like some horny dog humping the air. Does everyone else feel like this on the inside or is something wrong with me? Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:08AM I know it's normal to be horny at my age but, I can't help but feel my libido is crazy high. I'm horny 24/7.... I'm a college student and I see beautiful. sexy girls everywhere... I just want to go balls deep in 80% of the girls I see! Jesus. It's like 80% of my thoughts since I'm surrounded by girls on campus. I feel like some horny dog humping the air. Does everyone else feel like this on the inside or is something wrong with me?

I’ve never done anything with a girl before, only men. But I’ve always watched lesbian porn. Sucking her tits, eating her ass, scissoring, her eating my ass, kissing her and licking her neck all turns me on. Who else like this Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:11AM I’ve never done anything with a girl before, only men. But I’ve always watched lesbian porn. Sucking her tits, eating her ass, scissoring, her eating my ass, kissing her and licking her neck all turns me on. Who else like this

I Just read a very interesting article by Olivia Fane, which suggests the notion that love has nothing to do with sex, and that sex isn't an expression of love at all https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/jan/28/sex-love-communicate-erotic-hormonal-closer-hug Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:18AM I Just read a very interesting article by Olivia Fane, which suggests the notion that love has nothing to do with sex, and that sex isn't an expression of love at allhttps://https://ift.tt/337or3c

I told a friend that I was desperately unhappy without a romantic partner in my life and found it to be very damaging to my emotional state. They responded that being alone should not affect how I felt about myself. We went back and forth some, and the statement was made that if you aren't happy alone, you won't be happy in a relationship. I get that you can be in a relationship and unhappy. Or you can be happy alone. Anyways, interested in the groups thoughts. Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:03AM I told a friend that I was desperately unhappy without a romantic partner in my life and found it to be very damaging to my emotional state. They responded that being alone should not affect how I felt about myself. We went back and forth some, and the statement was made that if you aren't happy alone, you won't be happy in a relationship.I get that you can be in a relationship and unhappy. Or you can be happy alone. Anyways, interested in the groups thoughts.

Me and this girl now we like each other and we had akward moments. I want to know know how to tell her that "it" could work without it being akward.😬 Submitted November 20, 2019 at 11:42PM Me and this girl now we like each other and we had akward moments. I want to know know how to tell her that "it" could work without it being akward.😬

I met a girl early on Saturday call it 7pm. We are out at a bar and we get to talking and having drinks. She seems to be into me. Fast forward to like 2:30 I leave with her and we go to her place. At this point I am totally hammered. We attempt sex for a couple mins but tbh knowing myself, in that condition there’s no way I could perform. I honestly don’t remember much from leaving the bar (only a few snipits) until I was woken up by her telling me she called me an Uber and sent me on my way. I vaguely remember the ride home and getting into my bed. Now I get to thinking, she had to have gone into my pants to get my wallet for my drivers license to call the Uber. Doesn’t wake me up till it’s a min away. And she totally paid for it as there is no record of it either my Uber and bank accounts. I think I gave her my number at some point but have not heard back. I never got hers. Do you guys think she had a boyfriend? Submitted November 20, 2019 at 11:42PM I met a girl early on

I like to think of it as if you offer a person the moon on a stick and only provide a lolly pop they will be disappointed but offer them a mouse poop on a sick and show up with a lollipop they will react a lot better. Submitted November 20, 2019 at 11:45PM I like to think of it as if you offer a person the moon on a stick and only provide a lolly pop they will be disappointed but offer them a mouse poop on a sick and show up with a lollipop they will react a lot better.

During the start of the semester, I asked her out, but she rejected me, she told me she was too busy. I moved on. Over the course of the semester I began talking to her, she would always have a big smile when I talked to her, she laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at me, etc. I thought it was going good, untill these coupld of days, she started to act cold, ignoring me, saying one word, acting shady. I decided, fuck her and moved on. Did I make the right move? There is a more in depth if you check my question. Submitted November 20, 2019 at 11:51PM During the start of the semester, I asked her out, but she rejected me, she told me she was too busy. I moved on. Over the course of the semester I began talking to her, she would always have a big smile when I talked to her, she laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at me, etc. I thought it was going good, untill these coupld of days, she started to act cold, ignoring me, saying one word, acting shady. I decided, fuck her and moved on. D

i (21f) have been seeing this girl (23f) for a little over a month. we met on a dating app. the first 2 weeks of us seeing each other was mainly hanging out and having sex. neither of us was sure what we wanted, and i wasnt sure if i liked her in a romantic way or not. after about another week though, i realized i was forming a crush on her. she had awkwardly tried to bring up the topic of 'what we are' a couple of times, but i avoided it everytime. which was immature. eventually she told me she liked me over text, and i told her i liked her back. since then, basically all of our conversations regarding feelings and the relationship have been over text. im really sad to say this but over the past couple of days ive realized that she clearly likes me more than i like her. im not nearly as emotionally available as she is, mostly because of the fact that my last breakup was recent. (she is aware of how recent it was when we first starting talking about this stuff, and i told he

Sooo my (F20) boyfriend (M20) and I met in college and he recently moved to another college about an hour and a half away. He lives with his sister there and we’ve seen each other quite a bit but not nearly as much as I think either of us would like. So the problems started when my boyfriend and I went to a renaissance festival with his sister, her boyfriend, and one of her sisters coworkers/friend. We’ll refer to the sisters friend as K, she’s who I’m worried about. I left the ren fest a little early to spend some time with my little sister since we live close and apparently for the rest of the afternoon and night my boyfriend and K were spending their time alone together. Note she’s probably a solid 9 and I’m a 6 on a good day (which is rare bc I study wildlife and do field work most days). My boyfriend was also was saying they got along great and talked for hours while they walked around. I wasn’t too worried because I trust him but as time goes on I’m getting more worried. Fast fo

I have a co worker who is very attractive and stares at me. Let me break it down: ​ Started working at new job 2 months ago, she is the one who did my paperwork. ​ When I first met her I looked into her eyes and she was blushing uncontrollably and smiling. whenever I am near her she did this. When I took a picture of her and the team she was blushing uncontrollable. One time our shift ended at same time but when I left I said bye to the male co-worker and then went on my phone, I saw her basically running ahead of me/avoiding me to the train. so I assumed she didn't like me. Then one day I walk by and she smiles at me Then I buy a new sexy shirt and I catch her being attracted and later that day we ate lunch together and had a tremendous conversation and connected well she was telling me really deep personal stuff, we could've talked forever but our breaks ran out, afterward we kept running into each other blushing. 1 half week ago I wore something that everyone was

I (21F) have been sleeping with this guy (20M) for the past couple months and I am 95% sure he has a new girl. He still talks to me on the daily like nothing has changed though. Not really sure what to do about this or what it means?? Submitted November 20, 2019 at 11:58PM I (21F) have been sleeping with this guy (20M) for the past couple months and I am 95% sure he has a new girl. He still talks to me on the daily like nothing has changed though. Not really sure what to do about this or what it means??

Hi there! I've (30F) been on a couple dates with a guy (31M) that I'm into, however he doesn't initiate the dates or doesn't really text me. This is definitely a different interaction than I'm used to. I'm often the one pursued by the guy and can feel claustrophobic in relationships because I don't need constant validation or to talk all day everyday. So, for the most part I'm okay with the way things are going, however.....I'm crushing HARD on this guy. My assumption is that he's not into me but of course I need the help of fellow redditors to fully decide. I met this guy through a dating app, although I found out later he's in my social/outdoor community. Therefore we see each other once or twice a week outside of trying to go on dates. Setting up the first date was a bit of a saga considering that I'm always busy and he's working on a PhD. He's a bit nerdy and seems somewhat unsure of himself in social situations (a friend of

I matched with a guy on bumble who imo may be out of my league. He was responsive at the beginning, but never asked questions back. So I stopped responding. 2 days later, he responded back with a question (finally!) and that got a good conversation going and I got to know him more. But eventually, the conversation I noticed seemed to primarily be me asking him questions, and he wouldn't be asking questions about me, just responding to my messages with a few lines. He didn't seemed to ask any questions back. I guess there's other girls he's probably talking to. All of this without much emotion or emoticons (but i think that's not a normal guy thing?) Guys, should I just give up and stop the conversation? He seems to only answer when I ask a question and I feel like he's just replying back to kill time and isn't interested much in me if he's not asking questions back. Is this true? Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:07AM I matched with a guy on bumb

Hi everyone, This is my first post, sorry if I don’t format or somehow break a reddit rule! Anyways, I’m a 26 year old male looking to hookup with a friend’s sister who is 41. I’ve met her on a handful of occasions and always thought she was attractive, the last time I saw her she asked for my phone number “Incase I ever breakdown” (we both commuted about 40 minutes to the same city and live in the same town), she was overly nice, recently divorced and generally flirtatious. I tried to flirt back as best as I could but my friend (her brother) who I’ve known since we were 10 was with me the whole time. I never got her alone to talk to her or gave her my number. The last time I saw her was over a year ago, but every time I talk about my family or my friends family I’ll ask “how’s your mom? How’s your dad? How’s your sister?” and he said his sister asks how I’m doing all the time. I learned in conversation recently that she is still single, hasn’t been with anyone since her divorce etc.

I'm a young 20 year old Male, that is usually told that I'm very good looking, but finding it hard to find hookups on the likes of Tinder and all them other dating sites. I'd think I'm not a bad looking guy, but still find it tough to find someone. Do you find it easier by meeting people in public or online dating? How can I improve? Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:13AM I'm a young 20 year old Male, that is usually told that I'm very good looking, but finding it hard to find hookups on the likes of Tinder and all them other dating sites. I'd think I'm not a bad looking guy, but still find it tough to find someone.Do you find it easier by meeting people in public or online dating? How can I improve?

Sorry if this has been said before however, I keep seeing this “marriage is 100/100” and I just feel like it gives the wrong idea. Basically what it’s saying is in a marriage you have to give 100% of yourself, that things aren’t supposed to be divided up equally. I agree with this is some regard because I don’t believe things in a marriage should just be divided in a way where each person is doing an “equal” part. That being said no person can give 100% of themselves 100% of the time. I think you should try but at some point you or your spouse will fall short. If you’re the spouse who has been giving it their all and is now faced with a person who just can’t then this can lead to resentments, anger, frustration, and just a lot of negative emotions. Marriage needs to be two people who do their best to give 100% but know that when they eventually do fall short the other person will be there to pick up the slack. That isn’t to say that one person should be doing more all the time. It’

I have no idea about any of these references and would love a breakdown. November 20, 2019 at 11:57PM

I’m sure they weren’t all asexuals, but it was probably a pretty good setup for the ones who were. You got some social status, a good way to shut down anybody who was giving you a hard time about being asexual, and you might have believed that you were doing something positive for God and society by being yourself. November 20, 2019 at 11:54PM