I [32f] am having trouble receiving messages from guy [33m] I've been talking to. Don't want him to think I'm not interested.

So my phone has a big issue where either messages to me aren't being received and the messages to others aren't being received. I met this really awesome guy and we've been on two dates and want to go on another but two weeks ago he had a family emergency and had to fly out of the country to be with them. We try to talk a bit every day but for the past couple days he would send me something, I would respond and he just wouldn't answer but then send a message the next day. Today I finally asked if the messages I had sent last night and the night before had gotten in. He said the messages from two days ago did but not the ones from last night so at least he knows that I did send him something. So now my issue is that I don't know if he's getting all my messages and not responding or I'm not getting his messages back. I called him earlier today forgetting that he's a couple hours ahead just to say hey and let him know about the phone issue but he didn't answer so I assume he's sleeping. I sent him an apology message for calling him so late that he'll hopefully see tomorrow but I don't want him to think that I'm not interested in him by ignoring his messages. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do? It's an extremely frustrating problem to have when you can't communicate with people.

TL;DR: I met a great guy and we want to see each other again. He had a family emergency and had to fly out of the country. Apparently most of our messages aren't getting through to each other and I don't want him to think I'm not interested.



Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:13AM

So my phone has a big issue where either messages to me aren't being received and the messages to others aren't being received. I met this really awesome guy and we've been on two dates and want to go on another but two weeks ago he had a family emergency and had to fly out of the country to be with them. We try to talk a bit every day but for the past couple days he would send me something, I would respond and he just wouldn't answer but then send a message the next day. Today I finally asked if the messages I had sent last night and the night before had gotten in. He said the messages from two days ago did but not the ones from last night so at least he knows that I did send him something. So now my issue is that I don't know if he's getting all my messages and not responding or I'm not getting his messages back. I called him earlier today forgetting that he's a couple hours ahead just to say hey and let him know about the phone issue but he didn't answer so I assume he's sleeping. I sent him an apology message for calling him so late that he'll hopefully see tomorrow but I don't want him to think that I'm not interested in him by ignoring his messages. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do? It's an extremely frustrating problem to have when you can't communicate with people.TL;DR: I met a great guy and we want to see each other again. He had a family emergency and had to fly out of the country. Apparently most of our messages aren't getting through to each other and I don't want him to think I'm not interested.
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