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/u/ZealousidealBook8 on So sorry for all of these posts

It was thankfully mostly just a stranger to me. June 07, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/acecat20 on So sorry for all of these posts

If someone said that to me I would be wary of being alone with them. What a douche!! Hopefully he's not someone you're really acquainted with & can avoid as much as possible. June 07, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/SerbalVR on Come forth with your (respectful) sex-positive/sex-averse content

hell yee B3 June 07, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/SerbalVR on Come forth with your (respectful) sex-positive/sex-averse content

mood June 07, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/Lynchpin_Cube on damn i wouldn't have expected such a hot take from a terf but you're right, anyone who says they've had sex before is lying for clout

If you look at the last 24h of her twitter you will see all the terf-iest tweets a terf can tweet June 07, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/gehanna1 on [META] We need to talk. It's getting toxic in here.

I appreciate this post. I'm sex averse for myself in those situations, but I have zero problems with others around me living their lives and discussing a very normal part of their human experience. Once I commented on a post about someone sex-averse shaming their friends for talking about sex around them, and I commented to say that our sexual preferences and sexuality shouldn't force others around them to hide who they are or what's normal for them. Got down voted to hell for it. June 07, 2020 at 11:42PM

/u/HealingTank on My sister gave me ANOTHER ring so now I have three

Not once, not twice, but three times an Ace!? We're not dealing with the average Ace warrior anymore.. June 07, 2020 at 11:40PM

/u/jeanlovespigs on [META] We need to talk. It's getting toxic in here.

Great minds think alike :) June 07, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/GreyTheBard on How many of you masturbate?

Same June 07, 2020 at 11:32PM

/u/asterix175 on Im so tired of this ridiculousness

What’s her name? June 07, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/TinWhis on [META] We need to talk. It's getting toxic in here.

I was going to suggest flairs, glad to see someone else jumped on that first. June 07, 2020 at 11:27PM

/u/Cashew_box on Im so tired of this ridiculousness

Don't let them tell you how to be you. I'm glad to hear you went off. June 07, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/monwoo101 on How many of you masturbate?

Same, also when I watch porn I just like that the two people are having a good time and that make me feel good to see them enjoy each other. June 07, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/TheMostMajesticSquid on There's a lot of misunderstanding about aces because allos don't know the difference between the different kinds of attraction, so I made some aesthetically pleasing, easy-to-understand definitions. Feel free to share wherever you like to spread the word! Full res pictures in comments.

I'm glad I could help! June 07, 2020 at 11:21PM

/u/CapiPuppy on Got this in my mail today!

Thank youuuuu June 07, 2020 at 11:16PM

/u/Evidmid on How many of you masturbate?

I always walk around like : I think that person is pretty. Is she pretty? I am staring at that person, I like her looks, right? Is this sexual interest? I have a hard time telling if somebody is attractive. It recently got easier to tell for woman but only those with a very specific look. People just are not sexually interesting for me I guess :) June 07, 2020 at 11:12PM

/u/Evidmid on How many of you masturbate?

I thought about that label. I don't know if I'm aego. I only masturbate to something to read, but never to porn. Body fluids are extremely disgusting to me and only the thought of someone touching me without clothes or in a sexual way makes me nervous (not in a good way) I think it's just learned behaviour: You see something you masturbate to and it'll get more interesting over time June 07, 2020 at 11:10PM

/u/lexxib7 on [META] We need to talk. It's getting toxic in here.

This is where gray sexual comes in to play. Gray sexual is still on the spectrum of asexuality but it’s a little different in that most are sex positive and can enjoy sex but that it comes and goes. As a whole they don’t experience sexual attraction but sometimes once in a blue moon they can or at least want to have sex. I myself fall on the gray sexual side of things. I’m married and I don’t ever thinking about having sex or initiating because I’d much rather do things like cuddle and watch Netflix. But every once in a while we have sex and I like it. Then I go right back to watching Netflix. June 07, 2020 at 11:08PM

/u/Over_Lor on Feeling extreme guilt and anxiety for not wanting to give bf sex

I suspect he's trying to gradually guilt trip you into a poly relationship you don't want. This is setting off so many red flags. It's not a healthy relationship if you're scared of saying no. June 07, 2020 at 11:08PM

What do you do for "Me" time?

This is a throw away account. So my husband and I have been married since 2017 and together since 2011. We started out as roommates in a 4bedroom house in a college city. Basically we've always lived together. We have a great marriage. Hes very kind and hardworking. We are lower middle class and enjoy roadtrip vacations. Everything seem fine but I hate to say it, I feel a little lack of personal space. I'm sure alot of it is covid but we each need our own alone time and it's taken me 10 years to figure that out (he still hasnt) Hes an extrovert with add. Loves being around people. I'm a total introvert and enjoy the simple joy of hanging in the house. I just feel like whenever we go somewhere or do something. Its together. What do you and your spouse do to get some me time? How often do you get to enjoy your own personal time (during Covid especially, but before covid as well since things will go back to normal eventually) TLDR: husband & I have been together

What's your wedding anniversary tradition?

Our first wedding anniversary is coming up soon. I've got some plans for it, but coming from a household were anniversary was standard to completely be forgotten (my parents are very happily married, they just don't care about the anniversary) I'm wondering how is it for you guys? Do you have any special traditions for your wedding anniversary? :) Submitted June 07, 2020 at 11:56PM Our first wedding anniversary is coming up soon. I've got some plans for it, but coming from a household were anniversary was standard to completely be forgotten (my parents are very happily married, they just don't care about the anniversary) I'm wondering how is it for you guys?Do you have any special traditions for your wedding anniversary? :)

My profile ends with a little footnote about getting out of an abusive relationship.

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“You’ll never meet another guy like me”

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