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/u/christinelydia900 on Do you use any psychiatric medicine?

I take ADHD medication October 10, 2021 at 12:06AM

/u/Mesonoxian_Feast on Repulsion with my own body.

Dysphoria is a word in and of itself and can be used outside of ‘gender dysphoria’. It’s a state of feeling negative about anything, while dysmorphia is a physical abnormality/ deformity. I guess certain communities use ‘dysphoria’ as shorthand for ‘gender dysphoria’, but in actual definition it’s different 🙂 October 10, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/ClaimJolly9226 on another ace poll cuz i didnt like the last one

Seeee , soy asexual October 09, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/gabatron95 on Opinion on watching Sex Education as an Asexual?

It's amazing, I absolutely love it and it's such an important show, but I mean the warning is in the title... There are multiple sex scenes every ep, sex is constantly talked about. But it's amazing!! And it's about the connections, the drama... It's done in a very tasteful/informative way. There is an asexual character in S2 as well 😊 but just try the first ep and see how you feel? Do whatever makes you comfortable xx if you like it great, if you don't then don't watch it 💕💕 October 09, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Very_Sticky_Fingers on My people!

I'm in Uni RN and I'm really feeling like I should be having sex, so I feel this October 09, 2021 at 11:55PM

Should I be concerned if I experience numbness when getting head?

The other day my gf was giving me head, as she was going I noticed my hands and harms slowly fall asleep until it reached the point I could barely move my fingers, got light-headed, and wasn't able to reach climax, should I be concerned or is she just that good? Submitted October 10, 2021 at 12:32AM The other day my gf was giving me head, as she was going I noticed my hands and harms slowly fall asleep until it reached the point I could barely move my fingers, got light-headed, and wasn't able to reach climax, should I be concerned or is she just that good?

Kids sleeping on their parent's bed, how clean are the sheets of couples that have sex?

I know It's completely normal for kids to sleep on their parent's bed But for some reason, to me, it feels weird to sleep on a bed where people had sex. Why? I don't know... I guess that having information about couples with kids might help. Maybe I'm missing information I've been wondering about this because some days ago I saw a post of someone saying that in movies people have sex and go to sleep right after and they wanted to know how true this was. And I read in the comments people saying things like - They usually shower after and change the sheets, or shower in the morning and change the sheets, or they clean themself up with baby towels, (or that the woman always go to pee because its healthier than way, etc) - Someone said, for example, that for a married couple that has sex every night it would be too much work to change the sheets every day so they usually don't mind... Someone else said that they don't have sex right before sleep, instead,...

Do mfm threesomes ever work?

Done two and so far the less endowed guy gets jealous that she pays more attention to the cock that feels better or they'd rather watch and beat off to it..fmf has gone much better thus far Submitted October 10, 2021 at 12:46AM Done two and so far the less endowed guy gets jealous that she pays more attention to the cock that feels better or they'd rather watch and beat off to it..fmf has gone much better thus far

Transman nervous about dating and sex

I’m a transman who has never had sex before, hell I’ve never even been in a relationship before. It’s mostly because I was an insecure queer teenager who thought sex was yucky and convinced myself I’ll never date. But now as I’m an adult, I’ve matured and think I’m ready to start meeting people and dating. Though, it makes me really nervous and not optimistic . I’m gay and very much a bottom, plus I haven’t had any type of surgery and no hormones. I know I’ll have a harder time finding a partner who is comfortable being in a relationship with a someone who isn’t cis. And even if I can find a good partner who respects me fully, the idea of sex makes me a bit nervous. Mostly out of insecurity. The thoughts of vaginal sex or even taking my shirt off would bring up too much dysphoria and make me uncomfortable. I’m not looking for advice, I’m just sharing my thoughts. I’ll have a lot to discuss with a hypothetical future partner that’s for sure. Submitted October 10, 2021 at 12:51AM ...

Condoms don’t fit

So, i measured my penis.He is 13-13.5 cm long, and circumference in the middle is 12 cm.I’ve tried 56 mm and 52 mm.They slip off.I have Tried different kinds and brands Submitted October 10, 2021 at 12:55AM So, i measured my penis.He is 13-13.5 cm long, and circumference in the middle is 12 cm.I’ve tried 56 mm and 52 mm.They slip off.I have Tried different kinds and brands

is leaving someone on delivered on snap a blow off?

I (20f) have this crush on my coworker (25m) that just kinda started recently. He was always the one to initiate our friendship, make plans with me, and ask me for my snap and all that before this. I just started working there a couple months ago so I'm not expressing romantic interest in case of making things awkward. But, I don't know how to tell if he's interested in more. We snap chat throughout the day and he keeps the convo going but sometimes he'll take a couple hours to respond to me and I'll see that he's been active and snap chatting a bunch of other ppl before. I also try to take some time to respond but not usually as much as he does. Am I reading into things? Submitted October 09, 2021 at 11:53PM I (20f) have this crush on my coworker (25m) that just kinda started recently. He was always the one to initiate our friendship, make plans with me, and ask me for my snap and all that before this. I just started working there a couple months ago so ...

A girl that I kissed the other day told me that I'm moving too fast with her and that she doesn't want a relationship, when I don't even want be her boyfriend in the first place. Is it over with her? (15F) (16M)

(tdlr at the end)So basically, last week, a girl started to talk to me on instagram, and we quickly became friends, so we decided to hang out, everything went well and we ended up kissing. We hung out again and we kissed, a lot, and everything went well too (or so I thought). That same day I had to go out of the town she lives in until this friday, which meant that we could only talk online, and everything was still ok. But days went by and i started to notice that she was taking waay to long to respond and or directly ignoring me, which gave me lots of anxiety because of not nowing what was going on, and because I really like to talk to her. So I got tired of that and this morning I decided to just ask her what was going on (not in a confrontational way), she replied saying that she has not been paying attention to her phone lately because of multiple reasons, which I found completly valid. But then, to my surprise, she started saying that I'm going too fast with her and, that s...

About a guy

So I recently downloaded a dating app and have been talking to a guy for about a week and half. Since I did not get the message on time I gave him my number and he texted me right away in the morning when he saw it. I recently took the move of adding him on Instagram and he accepted my follow but didn’t follow me back.I’m really confused what to do or what this even means. Submitted October 09, 2021 at 11:57PM So I recently downloaded a dating app and have been talking to a guy for about a week and half. Since I did not get the message on time I gave him my number and he texted me right away in the morning when he saw it. I recently took the move of adding him on Instagram and he accepted my follow but didn’t follow me back.I’m really confused what to do or what this even means.

is tinder/ bumble worth paying for?

Like the title says. Is bumble or tinder worth paying for? I had a lot of matches at first and they've been dwindling down. I have a bunch of girls whom liked me and or in the beeline. But I'm torn as if it is worth it or not... Submitted October 09, 2021 at 11:59PM Like the title says. Is bumble or tinder worth paying for? I had a lot of matches at first and they've been dwindling down. I have a bunch of girls whom liked me and or in the beeline. But I'm torn as if it is worth it or not...

Flirting with girl got awkward

So i'm studying abroad for some months and have been for a month. Two girls also started studying here and will be here for some weeks only. I talked to them a bit and we went to a party together with some other students. At the party i flirted with one of the girls and we kissed on the way home. I went with the girls to their house (they live together) and we drank a bit more and talked. The second girl went to bed and me and the other girl continued flirting and kissing. Some clothes came off but we didn't have sex. She told me she very recently had a breakup and that her ex was currently testing himself, so she wanted to wait for confirmation before having sex. This wasn't a big deal for me and i said i understood completely. I went home a bit later. Tonight i was with the girls and some other students at their house. After the others left, the second girl again went to bed while me and the girl talked. She told me she "wasn't sleepy at all" which to me s...

First bj today and I have some questions

Ok holy crap, I just got my first bj today and I'm curious if you guys have had a first experience like mine. First of all I didn't cum, I got close for a minute but more so during the handjob section. Do you guys reach orgasm by a bj or are handjobs and actual intercourse easier to finish with? Am I the only guy to have massive issues when it comes to nutting while sitting up? I feel I can only nut easily laying down. What do you guys think? Submitted October 09, 2021 at 11:40PM Ok holy crap, I just got my first bj today and I'm curious if you guys have had a first experience like mine. First of all I didn't cum, I got close for a minute but more so during the handjob section. Do you guys reach orgasm by a bj or are handjobs and actual intercourse easier to finish with? Am I the only guy to have massive issues when it comes to nutting while sitting up? I feel I can only nut easily laying down. What do you guys think?

Why do I get this feeling, am I being selfish , I can’t control it

For instance me and my girlfriend will hang out every weekend or so , and we will text , she usually texts me back in 10-20min , but Friday-Sunday she went to her moms (she didn’t want to go) , and she said she would love to hang out Monday and Tuesday, business she got to her moms she has tooken longer to text back because she is probably busy or hanging out with her sister, but I’m getting that heavy sinking feeling when she doesn’t text me for awhile , I really hate that feeling, I really love her but this feeling hurts and it’s just my brain being selfish and I hate it , how do I get it to go away Submitted October 09, 2021 at 11:41PM For instance me and my girlfriend will hang out every weekend or so , and we will text , she usually texts me back in 10-20min , but Friday-Sunday she went to her moms (she didn’t want to go) , and she said she would love to hang out Monday and Tuesday, business she got to her moms she has tooken longer to text back because she is probably busy...

Struggling with sex drive for the first time in my life, I can't think of a solution.

I am a 27 year old demisexual (meaning that I only find people sexually attractive after I've built an emotional bond with them) woman that tended to have a really high sex drive with my previous partners. I used to want to have sex multiple times a day. It was a high priority for me. Right now I've been living with my partner for 1 year. While we were dating before moving in together, and during the first weeks of us living together, we had a very active sex life. I gave him at least a BJ everyday and we sexted during the day and everything. I was his first partner. We have a really good relationship and we are extremely close. We're best friends and I deeply love him and feel attracted to him, even more than when we first met. I'm always touching him, watching him, caressing him, slapping his butt – things he enjoys, by the way. But I just feel so dead down there. I have a very healthy lifestyle, by the way. These are the factors I've identified: I want mo...

I like being manhandled but not in a sexual way…

I’m sorry if this is a bad sub for this, I really couldn’t figure out where to talk about it. I’m a very small gay man and I’ve always liked being pushed, pulled, and “helpless”. Ever since I was a kid and my friend group would do a mass role playing game (like secret agents, soldiers, anything we could copy from a game or movie etc) outside or on the playground, I always liked playing the role of someone who needed to be protected or saved. In middle school, when we had that obligatory dance learning week, there was always too many guys compared to girl and so we would have to dance together. One of my dance partners was a baseball guy. He once grabbed my wrists and swung me around aggressively, and I swear to god that was my gay awakening. In highschool I always liked it when other guys (especially guys that were attractive), would roughhouse with me or put their arms around my shoulders. And since I’m so small, guys would think it’s funny to pick me up in a teasing way, not knowing...

am i missing out

Hello, Sorry everyone very embarassing, real life 40yr old virgin here. Due to low self esteem/confidence i have a tough time considering women would ever be interested me in a sexual way (god knows where this comes from, must be from my adoloscent years maybe) Thank god for Pornhub eh! haha. Was just wondering if anyone can advise me how much im really missing out on?, i hear a lot that porn is not real life so im guessing all the naughty stuff like bjs and doggystyle i watch are just fantasy and just in porn? although alot of friends say they get this on the regular I wonder whether they are just bragging, or maybe I just think its too good to be true! Submitted October 09, 2021 at 11:58PM Hello,Sorry everyone very embarassing, real life 40yr old virgin here. Due to low self esteem/confidence i have a tough time considering women would ever be interested me in a sexual way (god knows where this comes from, must be from my adoloscent years maybe) Thank god for Pornhub eh! haha...