i (early 20’s) can’t tell if this is all in my head, or maybe i’m just having an issue with seeking validation or wanting sex as a form of feeling loved, i don’t know. i do struggle from sexual trauma but i don’t cry during sex or get panic attacks anymore, so maybe this is how it’s been showing up? but anyway, recently i have noticed i’m the only one initiating. my boyfriend used to initiate a lot, like waking me up for sex, touching me even when we’re in public, whispering in my ear he wants to have sex when we get home, etc. but he doesn’t even try to have sex with me anymore. i always initiate, and when we have sex it’s great and he’s really into it, but if i don’t initiate we just don’t have sex. i’m not sure what it is. is he tired of my body? we’ve been together for two years. i’ve tried to be more exciting and give him more blow jobs and even offered to try anal but no change. told him he doesn’t have to make me finish anymore either. one night i cried telling him how i feel...

Had this girl I been talking to for a minute watched a movie had some drinks wasn’t tipsy or drunk shortly after had her butt naked in front of me ready to go but... I couldn’t get it up told her the truth she helped me get half chubby she ended up finishing and tried to help me do the same and then I also couldn’t do that either I just told her to stop she tried to console me but I was angry as fuck cause i thought to myself the entire time if I was actually ok mentally or physically like im 22 yrs old and couldn’t get it up or finish I read something about having a emotional attachment with the person I’m with can be a problem but even if I never had this problem before a few days later thought maybe it was because of the liquor in my body and again was struggling by myself to get fully erect should i even think of supplements, pills, or even eating healthier I mean i think I’m pretty fit i keep up with my body I dont eat to many fruits or veggies lately but i mean i look physicall...

I’m 27F and recently when I use my vibrator and have an orgasm I’m like overly exhausted and tired and sleepy. I can usually be, I know that’s normal but this is definitely not the normal for me to be this physically strained. My libido/sex drive has recently been high I don’t know if that corresponds. But has anyone experienced this Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:48AM I’m 27F and recently when I use my vibrator and have an orgasm I’m like overly exhausted and tired and sleepy. I can usually be, I know that’s normal but this is definitely not the normal for me to be this physically strained. My libido/sex drive has recently been high I don’t know if that corresponds. But has anyone experienced this

Title kinda speaks for itself but yea I love a mans body and I love having a dick in my mouth, but I love amateur spitroast porn. I know some videos are disrespectful and downright disgusting but I found some really nice amateur mfm spitroast porn and it was amazing. I mean the woman was respected and it was erotic and sometimes that shit gets me off more then gay porn. I dont know if this means im gay or bisexual or maybe I should say that I dont have labels . Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:52AM Title kinda speaks for itself but yea I love a mans body and I love having a dick in my mouth, but I love amateur spitroast porn. I know some videos are disrespectful and downright disgusting but I found some really nice amateur mfm spitroast porn and it was amazing. I mean the woman was respected and it was erotic and sometimes that shit gets me off more then gay porn.I dont know if this means im gay or bisexual or maybe I should say that I dont have labels .

No caveats, no external issues, just the perfect sex life for you in a LTR. How often? What sex activities? Vanilla? Etc. Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:57AM No caveats, no external issues, just the perfect sex life for you in a LTR. How often? What sex activities? Vanilla? Etc.

What is the difference between love and fate? Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:41PM What is the difference between love and fate?

What are the “rules” of wanting to date people at the gym or yoga class? Do you guys or girls viewed it as a no no place, a sacred place and don’t do that sort of stuff there? I imagine some go to both places not looking to get hit on or date. Or is it OK? What’s the general consensus? Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:01AM What are the “rules” of wanting to date people at the gym or yoga class?Do you guys or girls viewed it as a no no place, a sacred place and don’t do that sort of stuff there?I imagine some go to both places not looking to get hit on or date.Or is it OK? What’s the general consensus?

If you were dating a girl (24), would you find it odd that she takes her completely platonic guy friends on one on one friend dates occasionally? Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:01AM If you were dating a girl (24), would you find it odd that she takes her completely platonic guy friends on one on one friend dates occasionally?

It's only been 5 weeks if you wanna be exact. Been official for 2. He's nice and he's very smart. He is objectively a catch. And cute. And tall. But this isn't the relationship I want. He gives me the ick a lot and frankly I don't know if I fancy him anymore? I certainly enjoy spending time with him, but it's almost like a friend? He is on the spectrum and probably can't always help it, but he misses so many cues and I want someone who gets them. He'll rarely vocalise his feelings (I love being complimented and I compliment him ALL the time). He won't so much as send a heart emoji every now and again. He never texts good night. I'm a pretty small (110lbs) woman and he has watched me struggle and drop bags of shopping before and won't offer to help. He might just chuckle. I have to ask explicitly. He also forgets to say thank you a lot when I pay for stuff. Really grinds my gears. He also makes me cringe a lot. He can be quite opinionated on...

My ex and I ended our relationship because of his health (he decided he needs to focus on himself and doesn't want to bring me along for his healing journey). However, we had the healthiest and most incredible relationship before we broke up. We both wanted to be together forever and we still miss each other a lot. My ex is always there for me and I know we both still love each other. I recently told him that it saddens me that I lean on him more than he leans on me, and that I feel like he is indifferent to me to which he replied that he knows how much his decision has hurt me, and that he doesn't want to hurt me any more by doing anything that could be bothersome to me. So he told me that he'll wait till I tell him I'm totally fine before we start reengaging with each other more regularly. Part of me thinks that he's saying that he just wants to make sure i'm over him before he talks to me because he doesn't want to deal with my emotions but the other p...

I dont care, not my body it can look cool too if they got good hygiene but its not something I care to see October 18, 2021 at 11:23PM

I'm a bit too late for this, but let me explain something as a former sexual. Allos are fully capable and aware of what it means to be asexual. Temporary states of being in which doesn't experience sexual attraction is all that needs to be experienced to understand what it means to be an asexual or acknowledging that it is possible not to be in that state. October 18, 2021 at 11:22PM

Same! And it makes it hard because when I talk about "attractive," "hot," "cute," I'm not really saying the same thing as allo people! October 18, 2021 at 11:15PM

When I see an attractive person, especially a feminine-presenting one, I will stare - I can’t help it. They’re so pretty! If the chance arises, I might approach and compliment their makeup/hair/clothes/etc. But there is 0 sexual desire involved. I’d rather see them with their clothes on than off. October 18, 2021 at 11:13PM

Really tall women. I find handsome men aesthetically pleasing, too, but in a "ah, yes, this one has a very symmetrical face" sort of way. I'm totally fine talking with them. Not flirty, just... idk, normal? Conversational. For my job I've had the opportunity to have conversations with with a number of handsome celebrity men, too, and apart from a little starstrucked-ness initially I'm still just my usual chill self. But introduce me to a tall woman or show me a video of Gwendolyn Christie, Florence Kasumba, Liv Tyler, or Hannah Waddingham and I turn into an absolutely useless puddle of stuttering and running into doorways. As in, I've run into actual doorways. It's not that I want to do anything with them, it's just like my brain totally shorts out on "..tall...majestic...wow...so tall...oh my god..." October 18, 2021 at 11:07PM

Every time I have sex (ok, to be fair its not every time)... many times I have had sex with my husband i have been left feeling as though I am not good enough. Somehow. I am not a starfish lover. Even if we are doing missionary, I'm into it. Its really messed up our sex life. I refuse to have sex if I'm tired, because if its not up to snuff I feel ashamed. Its at the point now where I can't even have sex at all, because the criticism is too much to handle. Nothing is ever clearly defined, its just, he makes me feel inadequate. Its at the point where I would rather he cheat than have to ever put out again. Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:31PM Every time I have sex (ok, to be fair its not every time)... many times I have had sex with my husband i have been left feeling as though I am not good enough. Somehow. I am not a starfish lover. Even if we are doing missionary, I'm into it. Its really messed up our sex life. I refuse to have sex if I'm tired, because i...

I had sex with my partner recently and I have a few questions about the possibilities of pregnancy and the chances of it. The detail that are important is the first condom I was using broke but I caught it early and put on another, at that time I wasn’t “close” then when I had finished it went into the condom and I thought that was that. But I’m worried about the possibility of any precum that might have come out during this window. I don’t think any came out but I’m not sure. She is one day after she finished her period and like I said the cum was caught. But is there a chance? Should I be worried or am I being paranoid? Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:50PM I had sex with my partner recently and I have a few questions about the possibilities of pregnancy and the chances of it. The detail that are important is the first condom I was using broke but I caught it early and put on another, at that time I wasn’t “close” then when I had finished it went into the condom and I thought ...

Looking for ideas…There’s been this guy(m23) I’ve(f23) been seeing and I want to be fun in the bedroom. I’m looking for creative sexy games or whatever you got lol. We play drinking games as is so those ideas are welcome too. So far I’ve only brought cards over to his house and played stripping games. I could tell he was super into it and in the end the cards were scattered all over the place it was fun if i say so myself. I want to bring or do something new next time I go over. I want to drive him crazy with a little (or a lot of) teasing. I’m pretty bold/adventurous so ideas big or small would help! (Posting again cause lack of replies:(. ) Tl;dr: just looking for some creative sexy bedroom games, anything you would think of you wished a girl to do to you or something fun a girl has done to you? Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:53PM Looking for ideas…There’s been this guy(m23) I’ve(f23) been seeing and I want to be fun in the bedroom. I’m looking for creative sexy games or wh...

I've always felt subconscious about my penis as I've never been a very "outgoing person" and earlier I tried to measure it using a guide on the Internet, measure to the public bone etc and was wondering if this is a good length??? Edit: I meant 5" in girth Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:58PM I've always felt subconscious about my penis as I've never been a very "outgoing person" and earlier I tried to measure it using a guide on the Internet, measure to the public bone etc and was wondering if this is a good length???Edit: I meant 5" in girth

Hello I (24F) am having some issues. Most of the time when I have sex, I’ll bleed and cramp after for days and it’s just like a period. It’s happened with every partner I’ve ever had, no matter their size. I’ve been to doctors and they say nothing is physically abnormal. I had sex yesterday and my cramps are worse than my typical period cramps. Not sure what to do… Please help! Thanks in advance! Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:59PM Hello I (24F) am having some issues. Most of the time when I have sex, I’ll bleed and cramp after for days and it’s just like a period. It’s happened with every partner I’ve ever had, no matter their size. I’ve been to doctors and they say nothing is physically abnormal. I had sex yesterday and my cramps are worse than my typical period cramps. Not sure what to do… Please help! Thanks in advance!