OKAY here me out ... I am 17 F and here’s my problem. Fucking pubes. Like wtf SO FRUSTRATING that they are there but they are, even if I shave !! So, in sex in guessing the preferred way is for no hair but like that shit is too hard to do. What do guys think of hair? Shouldn’t it be like a two way street? And if not, what are some ways of keeping it clean looking down there, and best ways to shave minus waxing Thanks 😊 Submitted September 22, 2019 at 12:02AM OKAY here me out ... I am 17 F and here’s my problem. Fucking pubes. Like wtf SO FRUSTRATING that they are there but they are, even if I shave !!So, in sex in guessing the preferred way is for no hair but like that shit is too hard to do. What do guys think of hair? Shouldn’t it be like a two way street?And if not, what are some ways of keeping it clean looking down there, and best ways to shave minus waxingThanks 😊

I'm a 36 year old man. My favorite sexual activity by far is giving oral to women. I'm polyamorous and I have a few infrequent FWBs. Unfortunately, I keep finding women who do care for oral. Either it does nothing for them (my girlfriend) or past trauma makes it psychologically uncomfortable (a fwb). Cunnilingus is such a huge part of my sexual identity and a huge source of joy and satisfaction for me, being able to use my mouth and see my partner's pleasure. To the point that I find myself becoming depressed if I have a long dry spell performing cunnilingus. I've tried everything I can think of to find a partner/partners who genuinely enjoys receiving oral. Tinder, Whisper, Fetlife, specific subreddits, OkCupid, etc. I'm losing my mind. How do I find local women who are sincerely interested in receiving oral?? Submitted September 22, 2019 at 12:03AM I'm a 36 year old man. My favorite sexual activity by far is giving oral to women. I'm polyamorous a...

So my girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) have been together for 1 year and a half now, but we are in a long distance relationship, so we only see each other once a month. She never managed to reach orgasm, be it alone or while we are making love. She masturbates about once a week, exclusively on the clitoris. She does enjoy making love but I was never able to make her cum. The main problem I think is that I don't know what could work because she doesn't know aswell. I want to give her pleasure, it is really the main thing I'm looking for when we make love. So how I/we can achieve it ? We are planning to buy sextoys, but I don't really know what else good be useful. Thanks for reading ! Submitted September 22, 2019 at 12:05AM So my girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) have been together for 1 year and a half now, but we are in a long distance relationship, so we only see each other once a month.She never managed to reach orgasm, be it alone or while we are making love.S...

It's been almost three months since I met her. How it happened is so weird. Her aunt introduced us while I was working. I passed you by moments before she formally introduced us. I muttered to myself, "Jesus she's hot" I wouldn't have approached you in a million years. We had three amazing dates before she had to go back to her home state. Such bliss, thinking about it makes me smile and flutter inside. The timing was impeccable. I had just gotten over my ex and I wasn't even looking. Then you waltzed in and swoon me. A week ago from today I drive 8 hours to see her. I had such a great time. We made out like I never thought possible, we cuddled up, held hands. I gave her a rose before I had to say goodbye. She says the sweetest things ever, but now she's so cold. I don't even know what to do. I'm at loss Submitted September 22, 2019 at 12:05AM It's been almost three months since I met her. How it happened is so weird. Her aunt introd...

We don’t really have anything in common personality-wise but we genuinely love each other and spend most of our days together and it’s so heartwarming that after all the banter and jokes we would go home and I receive lovely messages from most of them telling me how good it feels to spend time together. They’re never toxic and I never doubted that they’re the best thing to ever happen to me. Tell me about your best friends. Submitted September 22, 2019 at 12:11AM We don’t really have anything in common personality-wise but we genuinely love each other and spend most of our days together and it’s so heartwarming that after all the banter and jokes we would go home and I receive lovely messages from most of them telling me how good it feels to spend time together. They’re never toxic and I never doubted that they’re the best thing to ever happen to me. Tell me about your best friends.

Yeah just was randomly thinking about this in the shower (was going to post this in shower thoughts but feel like it's better here). In relationships girls are so quick to say I don't want to change you or even a lot of them say I don't want anyone to change me. Lots of girls so focused on that. I have never been one to say don't change me or not I usually would do all the changing till I get tired of it and usually make a clean exit, because that life doesn't fit me or click with me. (hope that makes sense) Then I thought maybe I should find someone who fits my life and my thoughts so I can grow as a person. And that's rough cause I'm very detailed in the way I talk and try to help and understand people. I mean I have a lot of flaws and what is detailed to me maybe sloppy to others but I digress. When a lot of the times my view on things isn't what is expected and can cause a lot of people to get upset. (either that or all the girls i date aren't v...

I haven’t met up with a tinder girl in over a year. Finally, I matched with someone who showed interest and first suggeste we meet up. Right now, I am waiting for her response which will not likely happen considering its 7 hours later. I’m tired of the constant dissapointments. Maybe I’m not attractive enough to have someone put in effort. The girl before her said she would let me know if she was able to come out, yet she never messaged me to tell me if she was coming out. This is why guys get “thirsty” and needy. Submitted September 21, 2019 at 11:53PM I haven’t met up with a tinder girl in over a year. Finally, I matched with someone who showed interest and first suggeste we meet up. Right now, I am waiting for her response which will not likely happen considering its 7 hours later.I’m tired of the constant dissapointments. Maybe I’m not attractive enough to have someone put in effort. The girl before her said she would let me know if she was able to come out, yet she never ...

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My mom asked me if I was gay out loud and in front of close friends and strangers. Gave her the ole "Hey, maybe" and shrugged. September 22, 2019 at 12:08AM

Yeah. I’m making it a point to not be alone with him and my brother isn’t gonna be leaving me in situations where I might be. Unfortunately we’re a part of the same friend group 😒 September 22, 2019 at 12:07AM

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I'm asking for advice on what might be going on in this situation because, quite frankly, I haven't experienced this type of behavior from a guy before. So for some background, I'm in college and this guy was in one of my classes last semester. We used to study together and things like that. We only went to one outside social event together, but it was a party so we didn't get to talk too much. Anyways, I didn't talk to him for most of the summer then towards the end of the summer he reached out to me. We had a small-talk conversation via Snapchat (which is what I primarily use) and then I stopped replying at some point because it wasn't really going anywhere. Anyways, I Snap'd him once school started because he seems nice enough that I might want to be friends with him, or maybe more. He invited me to 3 parties, but I ended up not attending because I'd rather get to know him one-on-one. So on Tuesday, we got a bite to eat together and talked for like a...

I'm in uni and I've got two classes with this girl I'm interested in One day she started talking to another girl I sit with and came to sit with me and her She talked to me first during a walk a walk to another building on campus mid class "You're --- right, we have --- together too" We talked more during class and the next class we were in a group together and talked a lot, making a lot of eye contact I guess. She's given me TWO cute waves, I think. We walked to the parking lot together, but with the other girl I sit with. Is it weird to ask if she wants to hang out or get a drink or food when we've only talked in class a few times? I planned on doing that but she left alone through a different door than me the next two classes and I couldn't catch her. She's ~20 and I'm 23 with no dating experience Submitted September 21, 2019 at 11:34PM I'm in uni and I've got two classes with this girl I'm interested inOne day s...

Anonymous account because my bf knows my account. Tl;dr at the bottom. Can't be too specific but since he's not following this subreddit and I don't expect it to reach the front page I'll be truthful regarding the important stuff but some of the details might not be entirely true. So I met my now bf about a year ago when we both started working at the same company. I left before the summer and I kind of knew he liked me since I would sometimes catch him looking at me during meetings. He offered to grab some coffee with me after work and over the year nothing much came of it. I was really trying to do my job well so I was constantly working on that and I also fell head over heels into a relationship with someone else which luckily ended after about 2 months. When I didn't make the date happen he moved along while still being friendly at work and stuff so I just kind of forgot about it. I switched jobs before the summer and we kind of lost touch but a former (and...

Two years ago, I [27M] got totally ghosted by the first girl I fell in love with. She [27F] opted to apologise with a postcard and said that she made a mistake, three months later. (Not joking.) While I did attempt to get out there and start dating again, the whole ordeal completely shattered me and I currently have trouble trusting people and getting close to them. I got ghosted because I travel a lot for work - she played and started believing all these scenarios about me getting some on the side, which, I never did. So, in the end, she thought that she'd have an easier time getting over the whole relationship by simply ghosting me, only to realise that she messed up, big time. (It says so on the postcard.) I tried using Tinder for the first time this year, but I dislike the whole online dating thing, so I quit. I like meeting people IRL and talking to them, but even with potential partners, I have a hard time. I stopped going out and socialising but I am feeling sad and lonel...

So basically I met an old acquaintance of mine 3 weeks ago at a birthday party and let me tell you something he got reallyyyy handsome and we got along really well. We didn't have any deep talk or anything but he made me laugh and I got interested. Anyways 1 week ago he texted me out of nowhere and I literally screamed out of happiness, because I would have never expected that. It was small talk (which was kinda cute but also kinda awkward) , that ended, when I went to bed. Two days later he texted me again and we talked a little more comfortable. That conversation also ended, but in a good way. It's been like 4 days and I haven't heard of him. I'm wondering, if he's expecting me to text him or if he just lost interest? I'm a coward when it comes to stuff like this. I've never experienced something like this and never had a boyfriend. Please help me, I need advice. Submitted September 21, 2019 at 11:38PM So basically I met an old acquaintance of mine ...

Seriously, I've been thinking about her for so long. We worked together briefly last year, and by that I mean like 5 months. I wouldn't see her every shift, but I would on 50% of my shifts. Since leaving that job it's been a year, and I have been thinking about her non stop since then. Shes beautiful and smart, but most of all, she is older and more mature, which scares me because it makes me feel like shit compared to her because I don't even have a car yet and I feel like I'm more reliant on my parents while she's working and doing her own thing. I feel like I'm not worth her time. I found her on Facebook a month ago, which was about a year after I last saw her on my last shift. Do I even have a shot? Are the differences in our age at this stage of our lives too drastic to make anything happen? Submitted September 21, 2019 at 11:51PM Seriously, I've been thinking about her for so long. We worked together briefly last year, and by that I mean li...

I get terrible ingrown hairs from having curly hair and shaving. I have dark hyper pigmentation spots in between my thighs and some on my booty. I am currently in the process of getting laser hair removal so the problem stops. I am just self conscious in bed when bending over you can see some of my ingrown hair scars. Does it gross men out? Submitted September 21, 2019 at 11:58PM I get terrible ingrown hairs from having curly hair and shaving. I have dark hyper pigmentation spots in between my thighs and some on my booty. I am currently in the process of getting laser hair removal so the problem stops. I am just self conscious in bed when bending over you can see some of my ingrown hair scars. Does it gross men out?

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I've [21F] always had a hard time having strong feelings for others when it comes to relationships. I often found myself uninterested in the person after a while. But this specific guy[22 M] is someone that i always thought about, even when we weren't on speaking terms. He is an amazing person: smart, kind and very supportive. He was always my favorite person to see, to be with, and a person whose success and happiness means so much to me. I became close to him during our last semester of school. We spent a lot of time together, whether it was at school, after school or even on skype at home chatting for 3 hours every night. We were great friends, we seemed to make each other laugh, and felt comfortable together. But we were just friends, and he had a girlfriend at the time. I started developing feelings for him, since I spent so much time with him, and his presence always made me so happy. But i never treated him as anything more than a friend since he was already in a relat...

Hi - I (34F) have been wanting to leave my current east coast state for awhile. I love the west coast and used to live there, and after my breakup in March (we were together 3 years) where I basically was staying here for him, and my job, I figured now is the best time to go live where I’ve always wanted to. Of course, the day after I make the decision to move (I needed to give my apartment 60 days notice) a guy (37M) I dated in the beginning of the summer (who I really liked) reached back out to me and wanted to get together. He got freaked out in the beginning of the summer with commitment issues or something, but said he sorted himself out and did I want to meet? (I believe him, he is very genuine) So we met up - I didn’t tell him about moving, because it wasn’t final with my work or my apartment, it was all beginning stages. We met up again after that. And then once more. By this time it had been a couple weeks so I decided I needed to tell him my plans. He said he completely un...

So there’s this girl who I can’t read. So a while back, while at work minding my business, I happen to look up and catch this girl staring me dead in the face. She quickly looks the other direction afterwards. Now every time she comes in, and we make eye contact, she looks away quickly or try to avoid it. Fast forward, we’re now friends on Snapchat but there’s no interaction between us cause she claims she “hates” people and isn’t interested in talking to anyway. She also views my stories usually with 10 minutes of me posting them. The other day, I posted a selfie which she viewed & later posts a story saying she had a crush on one of her snappers and he’s so handsome. After I viewed it, she deletes the story. Is this girl trying to send subliminals or am I looking too much into it? I’ve replied to a few of her snaps before but never forced a conversation upon it. More of a testing the water type thing. Submitted September 22, 2019 at 12:08AM So there’s this girl who I can...