Yeah in Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, I believe it goes breathable air, water, food, then shelter, for straight degenerates who don’t know what they’re talking about. When it comes to the ace list of Hierarchy of Needs it goes: Aces: On top there's breathable air, there's water, there's food... Allosexuals: And then sex! Aces: No. There's shelter, there's sleep... Allosexuals: And then sex! Aces: I'm getting there, I'm getting there... There's clothing, there's personal security, there's employment, there’s resources, there’s health, there’s property…. Allosexuals: Now sex?! Aces: Almost there, stay with me… There’s friendship, family, sense of connection, respect, self-esteem, status, recognition, strength, freedom, self-actualization, intimacy, and then, maybe, there’s sex. April 27, 2023 at 01:29AM

Or change your idea of what the relationship will be? Always been curious about the general consensus Submitted April 27, 2023 at 01:07AM Or change your idea of what the relationship will be? Always been curious about the general consensus

Idk how to navigate this. I haven't met him yet, but we've been talking for a month. I don't think I've connected with someone on deep level just in text before. He seems really nice, and had already made it clear that if nothing happens, he'll still like to be my friend because he really like my vibe and talking to me. We may meet very soon and may sleep together, depending on the situation. The thing is, I've never dated anyone and only been with guys casually. The body count is not a lot, but I'm 26 and i do crave for some romantic stability. I am anyway not getting any sex though, but if i turn this guy down, I'll be back at ground zero and will also feel bad that i am missing out on life cuz i am not having enough sex (last something physical happened was a year ago). So how to not be judgemental? My experience with fuckbois has made me a bit sceptical of guys who want fwb or hook-ups, even if they might be nice and intersting people generally. ...

So I went on a date yesterday. It was with a girl who was pretty nice and kind but not someone I am attracted to... I went to a bar and a music performance with her because I'd rather go with her than go alone... I see her as someone I could be good friends with... I mean we hugged at the beginning and end, sat next to each other having drinks.... But we never kissed or did anything that intimate... I mean yeah it was a date I guess, but I'm really going out with her to not feel bad going alone and to get more confidence to meet other girls and ask other girls out.... I mean shoudl I keep 'going out' with her in the hope of meeting a girl I actually like? Submitted April 26, 2023 at 09:34PM So I went on a date yesterday. It was with a girl who was pretty nice and kind but not someone I am attracted to... I went to a bar and a music performance with her because I'd rather go with her than go alone... I see her as someone I could be good friends with...I mea...

Not all reactions should be validated. Some fears are irrational, some responses disproportionate to the stimuli that cause them. I'm not unsympathetic to people that have extreme responses, it's not like they're bad people for reacting "incorrectly" or anything like that. But their lives are made worse by having those responses, and the compassionate thing to do is to encourage them to get that sorted out. We don't have to pretend that all responses are reasonable. April 26, 2023 at 11:32PM

Im a Diablo nerd and I agree. April 26, 2023 at 11:31PM