I'm planning on losing my virginity to someone I've known for over a year now , and I don't know what to do , we've both talked about it and we want to try, neither of us have had any sexual experience yet , Is there anything I need to know? What things can I do to turn him on easily? Should I use some free condoms I got or buy some? Literally anything that could help , would be much appreciated I am a female Submitted December 01, 2019 at 11:47PM I'm planning on losing my virginity to someone I've known for over a year now , and I don't know what to do , we've both talked about it and we want to try, neither of us have had any sexual experience yet , Is there anything I need to know? What things can I do to turn him on easily? Should I use some free condoms I got or buy some? Literally anything that could help , would be much appreciated I am a female

So I moved in with my gf a few months ago and with the stresses of moving and finding jobs and such we didnt have as much sex as we had been previously. At first there were no issues but out of nowhere I'm basically at the point where just insertion can be enough to make me cum. To be fair I've never been a marathon runner but I'd like for us to both enjoy a lasting session. Realistically I'm looking for tips/tricks/products to help the situation. The most common thing I've seen is trying to masturbate beforehand but even that hasn't made much of a difference lately and I dont really know what to do. Submitted December 01, 2019 at 11:53PM So I moved in with my gf a few months ago and with the stresses of moving and finding jobs and such we didnt have as much sex as we had been previously. At first there were no issues but out of nowhere I'm basically at the point where just insertion can be enough to make me cum. To be fair I've never been a mara...

(24f) I’m not sure if mine counts, but when I was in college my roommates cat was sitting on my shoulder and licked my earlobe. Immediately horny. Immediately removed cat from my shoulder. Very embarrassing. Very weird. Tell me your weird discoveries! Submitted December 02, 2019 at 12:01AM (24f) I’m not sure if mine counts, but when I was in college my roommates cat was sitting on my shoulder and licked my earlobe. Immediately horny. Immediately removed cat from my shoulder. Very embarrassing. Very weird. Tell me your weird discoveries!

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My GF is really particular and cleans herself like crazy. There is normally no smell at all. The other night there was a bit of a pungent smell and it really got me going. It didn't smell bad just a strong pussy smell. I was super into it and came so fucking hard. I didn't say anything to her because I didn't want to make her self conscious (I've never said anything about her odor). Anyone else get this? Submitted December 02, 2019 at 12:09AM My GF is really particular and cleans herself like crazy. There is normally no smell at all. The other night there was a bit of a pungent smell and it really got me going. It didn't smell bad just a strong pussy smell. I was super into it and came so fucking hard. I didn't say anything to her because I didn't want to make her self conscious (I've never said anything about her odor). Anyone else get this?

My best friend and I (both F) tend to fuck a lot. I'm the top, so I am usually the one doing the work (fingering her, eating her out, letting her grind, etc.), but she also enjoys doing stuff to me too. She really likes fingering, and shes gone down on me like twice, but whenever she did that she didnt do it for very long (like 45 seconds, then she'd use her hands). Today when she was fingering me I asked if she wanted to go down on me and she shaked her head. I cant help but feel like she doesn't want to because I have more labia than most. This got me feeling insecure, so I pulled up my pants and tried to just cuddle. This made her really upset because she said that she just prefers fingering me instead. Idk, I'm just feeling as if I'm gross or something so she doesn't want to go down on me. Submitted December 02, 2019 at 12:10AM My best friend and I (both F) tend to fuck a lot. I'm the top, so I am usually the one doing the work (fingering her, eat...

I’m 19F and still a virgin, so here’s the thing, I don’t know a lot about sex. My bf and I have only ever made out and give each other oral once or twice (he’s 23 and not a virgin but says is waiting for me). So, we were making out in his dorm and I could feel he was getting hard so I started touching his thing through his clothes. He started taking my clothes off and honestly I wasn’t 100% sure about it but also wasn’t 100% unsure about wanting to have sex. But the thing is we ended up making out in our underwear when i got a call from my best friend (she was actually sick that night I told her I was going to my bf dorm but if anything happened she could always call me. When she spoke to me she said she had around 98 something temp and couldn’t move). And I immediately got up from the bed and got dressed. My bf wasn’t mad or anything he just said something about his dick hurting after I gave him blue balls. He said “this probably will hurt later, don’t worry I’ll take care of it” Id...

He enjoys it and I enjoy watching him do it. But he is afraid it's weird and not normal. How do I convince him otherwise? I feel like some if not most guys wish they could? Submitted December 02, 2019 at 12:11AM He enjoys it and I enjoy watching him do it. But he is afraid it's weird and not normal. How do I convince him otherwise? I feel like some if not most guys wish they could?

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I’ve been sexually active for a good two years and i’ve never had an orgasm. I feel like i’m missing out because all my friends tell me how amazing it is but I can’t relate. The only way i’ve ever came close to having one is from anal. When i’m receiving oral 100% of the time I fake moan because I honestly don’t get pleasure from it. What should I do to change that? Submitted December 02, 2019 at 12:18AM I’ve been sexually active for a good two years and i’ve never had an orgasm. I feel like i’m missing out because all my friends tell me how amazing it is but I can’t relate. The only way i’ve ever came close to having one is from anal. When i’m receiving oral 100% of the time I fake moan because I honestly don’t get pleasure from it. What should I do to change that?

My (F22) bf (21) and I have been discussing it but I don’t know the best way to find another female who would be willing Submitted December 02, 2019 at 12:21AM My (F22) bf (21) and I have been discussing it but I don’t know the best way to find another female who would be willing

I’m a pretty open book and I tend to message/text a lot when I’m first starting to get to know guys online. I feel like it could be an annoyance to some but I can’t help it. If I think I could be interested in someone, I want to know everything about them...so I ask a lot of questions and I tell a lot of stories. Do you think this helps or hinders? Do guys like chatty girls that message/text/talk a lot (not frequency but length, I mean) Submitted December 01, 2019 at 11:23PM I’m a pretty open book and I tend to message/text a lot when I’m first starting to get to know guys online.I feel like it could be an annoyance to some but I can’t help it. If I think I could be interested in someone, I want to know everything about them...so I ask a lot of questions and I tell a lot of stories.Do you think this helps or hinders? Do guys like chatty girls that message/text/talk a lot (not frequency but length, I mean)

I don’t get it. We met last night at a very popular bar in a major city. After I introduced myself we spent the rest of the night together dancing, holding hands/ each other. Got her number at the end of the night and messaged her today and haven’t received a text back. Why??? Submitted December 01, 2019 at 11:48PM I don’t get it. We met last night at a very popular bar in a major city. After I introduced myself we spent the rest of the night together dancing, holding hands/ each other. Got her number at the end of the night and messaged her today and haven’t received a text back.Why???

I live in Atlanta, and dating here for the past several years has been miserable. Despite pursuing my interests and keeping an active calendar with social events/Meetups/classes, I never meet anybody I click with, and I have only had brief, months-long flings. I have literally run out of people to meet on the apps. Maybe unsurprisingly, the only longer things I've had over the past few years have been LDRs with women in other cities. In about a year, I'll have the opportunity to either stay put or relocate to pretty much anywhere I want. Finding a good relationship is my top priority currently, and I've been considering moving to the Northeast, since I have the impression that dating in one's 30s is normal and easier there. In particular, I've considered NYC, although I have also heard extremely mixed reviews of the dating scene. I've heard that casual sex is a big part of it, so I should probably add that I'm actually looking for a serious relationship/se...

You might be heteroromantic asexual. Someone who feels romantic attraction to the opposite sex, but no sexual attraction. There are lots of those. I'm asexual/aromantic myself, a lack of both forms of attraction. From what I've heard, that's how it works. I created a lightbulb system for easy explanation: For allosexuals (Those that feel sexual attraction,) a lightbulb goes off when they're attracted to a person. For demisexuals, the light starts off dim, but as they grow closer to a person, the light grows brighter and brighter. For grey-asexuals, the lightbulb goes off very rarely. Think of it as covered in cobwebs. For aces, the light just doesn't go off. December 02, 2019 at 12:12AM

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Hi sorry for the late thanks but I come with an update. We came to a conclusion that she does not want any kind of relationship. So here's that. Thanks for advice tho I really appreciate that. December 02, 2019 at 12:09AM

Sometimes I actually act a bit cold towards some boys, as if they're immediately going to try flirting with me. Once we start talking and discover some common ground however, it's at that point where I start to relax. I have a lot of guy friends, so idk why I'm like this! December 02, 2019 at 12:09AM

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I think we're at that point where we should start comparing pasta and cake. Sex is too low of a benchmark to determine quality December 02, 2019 at 12:05AM

Every time I see someone saying asexuals are plants, I can’t help but think it’s my fault. December 01, 2019 at 11:58PM

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