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/u/Kittylover9889 on Spongebob is NOT gay you dumb pricks, stop trying to take our only representative Mascot away from us. Damnit!

Well there is a difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction, asexual is when you have no sexual attraction but that doesn’t mean you have no romantic attraction! That’s being aromantic. So since you still feel romantic attraction it has to be to someone meaning you can be straight, gay, lesbian, pan, bi, etc. The examples you used don’t work but most sexuality’s work with being asexual. August 31, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/Misterwuss on The greatest of struggles

No because setting the times takes precious seconds away from my time being able to watch avatar! August 31, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/Thunderclapsasquatch on The greatest of struggles

Just use a timer! August 31, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/krba201076 on A while ago I posted about my ace shark and a commenter suggested I make an asexuwhale. Months later I have succeeded in doing so

This is adorable. You are so talented. August 31, 2020 at 11:48PM

/u/Maristine on Would you describe yourself as queer?

I prefer to call myself a sexual minority. I’m also hetero and cis. I’m not the type of person who would ever be called queer as a slur, so I don’t feel like I have the right to reclaim the term. Kind of like how Native or Asian people still can’t say the N word even though they are minorities in Europe and North America, because the N word was never used against them. That’s my opinion anyway. But if someone else with the same labels as me feel comfortable using queer to describe themselves, I’m not going to complain about it. That’s just how I feel about myself. August 31, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/xhannah__ on A while ago I posted about my ace shark and a commenter suggested I make an asexuwhale. Months later I have succeeded in doing so

Love the whale 🐳🐋 August 31, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/IguanaBox on I was browsing YouTube and this caught my attention.

They also covered it with a transparent layer so you can read it anyways August 31, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/Maristine on I was browsing YouTube and this caught my attention.

They’re missing the gray but I can’t complain about free representation. August 31, 2020 at 11:32PM

/u/DuskBlue343 on The greatest of struggles

Is this going where I think it is? Lol August 31, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/AT-TE-212 on The greatest of struggles

This is too accurate August 31, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/claimingagate on The greatest of struggles

Garlic bread is life August 31, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/Skinny_ToothPick on dragons? garlic bread?

The idea is that all of these things are better than sex, garlic bread, cake, fantasy, anything cool really. August 31, 2020 at 11:29PM

/u/DuskBlue343 on The greatest of struggles

Garlic bread is love August 31, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/DuskBlue343 on I think this belongs here :)

"Straight passing"? August 31, 2020 at 11:26PM

/u/AceOfManyYears on I’m 62. It’s time.

Thanks. August 31, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/mai_hai on Sometimes I forget I'm asexual...

Very often I too forget people aren't asexual by default. This reminds me one time I was at a friend's house, she grabbed a box and said "Look". It was a condoms box but I just saw it as a regular box and didn't realized what it actually was, so I was like "What? Is there something behind the box? Next to the box? What do you want me to look at?" She looked at me very confused, and I was even more confused. "These are condoms" "Ooohh,, right. I forgot people have those at their houses" Also, yesterday my friend showed me a pic of a BTS singer whose bulge was visible through the clothes and she told me "I want some of that" and I was like "?????????? Some of what? I don't get it, is this a meme?" She then explained it to me and it all made sense. August 31, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/elizasummerbee on The greatest of struggles

How did you pick the two highest priorities in life to do at the same time??? Like, obviously the garlic bread is going to burn and you're going to have to pause Avatar to avoid a fire! AAAAGGGHHHH!!!!!! August 31, 2020 at 11:24PM

/u/doctercreeper on Black ace ppl

Hi August 31, 2020 at 11:18PM

/u/levelupgirl on The greatest of struggles

Like Extra Toasty Cheez-Its, I feel you August 31, 2020 at 11:15PM

/u/chvrchbat on Stolen from Twitter.

The Sims 3 was such a good game, I was obsessed with that. It bummed me out when it no longer worked on my laptop. I did that too, made gorgeous sims with no partners, always made them a loner in personality traits so they wouldn't need too much social interaction, and I'd focus intensely on their skills, job, building their wardrobe or house! 😂 Ah man those were the days. August 31, 2020 at 11:14PM

/u/ThatLB on The greatest of struggles

I’m fairly new to personally labeling myself part of the Ace community and even newer so reddit.......I might be crying right now because I’ve always been told that I haven’t found the right person, or that it’s weird that I dont find people sexually attractive. AVEN was where I started after realizing that I was different from the people around me. I’m not “out” because my mom thinks that life without having sex is like not having a life- and that I just haven’t started that part of my life yet. I’ve gone through puberty and I have tits shit but I’ve never thought about anyone romantically or sexually. My mom is trying to get me to date boys Because if I try, I’ll like it... sorry this is kinda meaningless and stupid. Sorry i know it’s selfish to unloadall this shit on random people. I just needed it somewhere. August 31, 2020 at 11:14PM

(29F) after almost 3 decades of hating my body, being self conscious, and avoiding physical/emotional intimacy- I’m trying to say screw it and stop letting it rule my dating life.

I have never had a serious relationship. Drunk hook ups, short term situationships, sneaking around with men I know I don’t even like- oh I’ve got those in tenfolds. I think it’s part hating my body, part rape trauma, part trust issues with men from my emotionally abusive father, and part fear of rejection. I also have never felt so alone in my life. I am independent, funny, empathetic, open, responsible, hardworking, friendly and physically attractive. I am told this, and I do have the privilege to feel love from other family members and friends. Yet I cannot get myself to fully believe any of this and push men away constantly who try to get close because I assume all the want is sex and to control me. I know I sound like a piece of work, but I’m fucking tired of this self sabotage. Has anyone had to rewire the way their brain works in order to experience intimacy? How did you go about it? I try to workout, eat healthy, avoid manipulative toxic people, create time and space for l...

Would it be cringey if someone you were dating had their awards up?

This goes for both men and women. If you were just dating someone, went to their place and - I'll use my friend was an example - you saw that they had an Olympic medal up, is that tacky? At what point are you no longer able to have awards/certificates up? Is an elementary school first place cringey whereas a university first place isn't? Is a Master's degree diploma acceptable whereas a Bachelor's isn't? I just need some advice in this area. Thank you Submitted August 31, 2020 at 11:57PM This goes for both men and women. If you were just dating someone, went to their place and - I'll use my friend was an example - you saw that they had an Olympic medal up, is that tacky?At what point are you no longer able to have awards/certificates up? Is an elementary school first place cringey whereas a university first place isn't? Is a Master's degree diploma acceptable whereas a Bachelor's isn't?I just need some advice in this area. Thank you