That sounds similar to me except in one key way. Let's start with the similarities: i've been in relationships with allo peoples before, also experience aesthetic attraction (in fact, it's really important to me). The difference is I have no idea if I am overall sex favorable, neutral, or adverse. I think that's mostly bc of gender. I'm a cis man so most women I meet expect me to be sexual, initiate and have a high drive. So I've been in a lot of situations feeling pressured to have sex when I didn't want to, and didn't have the language to articulate why that was. I wonder if that will be different in future relationships hmmmm July 02, 2021 at 11:44PM