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/u/DucksEnmasse on Aces, how old are you?

What if I’m a reality warping avian army of an indeterminate age? July 03, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/NotANilfgaardianSpy on I just met the most friendly person on this very site (for more context ask me in the comments)

I actually wanted to write something similar, but I didn’t want to start swearing July 03, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/DucksEnmasse on What a great way to die!

I see no problems with this. July 02, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/doodle_hoodie on I never noticed how sex obsessed the world was until I realized I was ace

Oh god same somebody else like this! Sorry bit excited although I’m also fine with butts mostly it’s just genitalia July 02, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/trashmushroom on I just met the most friendly person on this very site (for more context ask me in the comments)

Hate when people use the heart emojis after an insult.I don't care about the insult but if you put the heart emoji after I am going to yank you by your hair. July 02, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/-Solidwater on This is what I got…very accurate.

Maybe separate the types of attraction (for example, this one considered wanting to be physically close with someone as romantic) July 02, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/anonymousartist13 on This is what I got…very accurate.

I would say so too. I replied to a comment not too long again about creating a better quiz, but I get stuck making the questions. Have any suggestions? July 02, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/-Solidwater on This is what I got…very accurate.

I got 14.3% heterosexual, 0% homosexual because I daydreamed about hugging my comfort character- This is really flawed July 02, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/Swanson-silence on I never noticed how sex obsessed the world was until I realized I was ace

That sounds similar to me except in one key way. Let's start with the similarities: i've been in relationships with allo peoples before, also experience aesthetic attraction (in fact, it's really important to me). The difference is I have no idea if I am overall sex favorable, neutral, or adverse. I think that's mostly bc of gender. I'm a cis man so most women I meet expect me to be sexual, initiate and have a high drive. So I've been in a lot of situations feeling pressured to have sex when I didn't want to, and didn't have the language to articulate why that was. I wonder if that will be different in future relationships hmmmm July 02, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/-Solidwater on This is what I got…very accurate.

It also doesn't separate romantic and sexual attraction July 02, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/anonymousartist13 on This is what I got…very accurate.

True. I was thinking about making a quiz myself for aros and aces, but I got stuck on what questions to ask. Have any suggestions? July 02, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/Turbulent-Plan-9693 on This is what I got…very accurate.

this quiz is flawed because it only asks about the last two weeks July 02, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/Acidchrome on This is what I got…very accurate.

Thanks! I got the full ace too :) July 02, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/anonymousartist13 on This is what I got…very accurate.

https://www.idrlabs.com/sexual-orientation/test.php July 02, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/poptarthello on Am I too young to know?

Hahahahaha thank you. All comments are helpful. July 02, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/Acidchrome on This is what I got…very accurate.

Nice! Would you give any link where you did this? July 02, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/ilovedogs033 on Am I too young to know?

I’m also 15, an introvert, and generally don’t like touch at all either and I ask myself the same question 24/7 lol so I don’t think I can help you much 😂 but just know you’re not alone :) July 02, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/Thornescape on Finally an Onlinetests approves my sexuality :D (it was funny though)

I'm glad that you liked the result and the test lucked out and got the answer somewhat correct. Personally, I despise that test. That isn't how the spectrums work. It's not a quadrant. It might not be a test, but I'm a huge fan of the " My Scales " graphic that breaks down the different aspects of the different sexual, gender, and attraction spectrums. People just put dots on the graphic where they feel they fall, and it's a nice overview of the separate spectrums. I think that a self-evaluation with proper spectrums matters more than this silly test that doesn't even know how the different spectrums relate to one another. July 02, 2021 at 11:33PM

/u/Rikazriio on I never noticed how sex obsessed the world was until I realized I was ace

And in media. Like I read a lot and they all think that sex is like the ultimate form of love and that if your partner doesn't want to have sex then they don't love you. Or if your partner doesn't want to have sex then there is an issue in your relationship. It makes it really hard to connect and relate to the characters 😔 July 02, 2021 at 11:33PM

/u/Sgt_Hastagaspacho on Why are screenshots of aphobia allowed in this subreddit?

Thank you. Honestly getting sick of seeing all the acephobia posts. I scroll past them, but knowing they're there in a place that's supposed to not bring light to the hate is just a bit taxing. I'm already struggling with myself and my relationship. I don't need to be reminded that there are people out there that don't understand what it's like. I know it's important to be aware, but really what's the point of an ace sub posting acephobia content? July 02, 2021 at 11:29PM

/u/poptarthello on Am I too young to know?

Thank you for being so informing. July 02, 2021 at 11:23PM

/u/pmgreham on So I guess I finally found out my sexuality :D Seems sorta confusing, so I added a little explaination too.

So…you’re a bisexual with a low sex drive. July 02, 2021 at 11:20PM

/u/anonymousartist13 on What are your opinion on this alternative design for an ace flag? Not a fan of the new colours

Replaced the red and white with purple and black, then we’ll see… July 02, 2021 at 11:20PM