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/u/AdministrativeAd2905 on I'm so confused

Thank you so much I really appreciate it March 11, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/Aquela_Entidade on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

No you aren't, because you don't diferentiate trans and cis woman treating them with diferent eyes. Second, the "super" identity was born because of a stawman argument. They say that the LGBTQA+ comunity says "if you are not atracted to trans woman or trans man, you are not (insert allosexual orientation here)", and this is a lie, what the LGBTQA+ comunity says "if you are (insert allosexual orientation here) being atracted to a trans(gender that you are atracted to) does not make you less(the same allosexual atraction)" Oh, now i noticed that you said "male, female OR trans", and that's why some people might be calling you transphobic, because you are refering to trans people, in this sentence, like they are something diferent from man and woman. It's not wrong being or not atracted to a transgender, it's transphobic when you are not atracted BECAUSE they are trans. March 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/TheSeaOfTime on Am I still ace if I have a fetish that gives me erections

I’m an ace with a fetish too. Don’t worry, you belong March 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/anxiouscakedragon on Accidentally flirty?

I haven't ever flirted with anyone, so I don't know how. If I did it would be uncomfortable and cringy, probably. March 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Throwawace5 on Am I still ace if I have a fetish that gives me erections

I have gotten erections a few times when seeing some of the chubbier girls around my school but I never feel anything sexual nor have i ever once dreamt of sex or wanted to with any of them. They could just give me an erection due to my fetish March 11, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/NoHeresyHere on "oh you're ace? You didn't look like you were boring"

Imagine looking at all the art, beauty and genius of what mankind is capable of creating, all the variety of music, writing, painting, all the capacity for physical skills and prowess, the sheer bottomless depths of self-expression a human is capable of producing...and saying someone is boring because they don't partake in one very specific activity. Think about it. Think about what a disservice it is to everything humans can say and do that someone could consider you boring because you don't have sex. As if all the limitless variety of human creativity and expression are just...totally irrelevant. As if all the ways humans can find and make meaning of their lives and the world around them amount to nothing. As if, out of everything you can say and do in this world, your passion and love for life are dependent purely on one activity. Someone who doesn't have sex isn't boring, just the same as someone who has sex isn't necessarily interesting. There's so muc...

/u/PowerStorm55 on All or Nothing

The artist and op had nothing to do with it though. March 11, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/Parselnyuu on y

As a person who just realized they're bi and aego, message approved. March 11, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/ThatRandomChick6 on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

This is my take on this preference is natural but the label is unnecessary and its inherently a transphobic label you're extra in the clear imo because you aren't attracted to any sex but its not selective exclusion (also transsexual is a medical and outdated term the proper term would be trans guy gal nb etc. or transgender guy gal nb etc.) March 11, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/romanator25 on All or Nothing

I would absolutely watch that March 11, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/anxiouscakedragon on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

Then am I transphobic (idc if I am) if I only like cis males? March 11, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/thelastsara_ on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

seriously, people explaining why this is wrong keep getting downvoted come help out March 11, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/playr_4 on All or Nothing

I identify as an asexual pansexual, or A-sexy Pan-demonium. Just, spit balling here, but throw that in as a third reccuring character? March 11, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/anxiouscakedragon on romantic attraction poll for my fellow asexuals

Heteromantic. March 11, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/languidnights on Pathologizing asexuality?

I was lucky to have good insurance. If I was paying out of pocket, it certainly would have. March 11, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/ThatRandomChick6 on romantic attraction poll for my fellow asexuals

Homoromantic technically but I go under lesbian March 11, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/Sandcat789 on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

If you are equally (un)attracted to everyone, then you literally can't be excluding them. I take issue with the diagram having aces with attraction lines to trans folks, there should be '??' Towards everyone, because some aces are demi, or sex favorable, or sex indifferent, or sex repulsed, so if they're insisting on lines of attraction for aces they should be all inclusive or non-existent, also where's the NB representation? March 11, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/Sillhouette_Six on All or Nothing

Why does the asexual look so much like me? I actually own that shirt except without the white letters March 11, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/TheWarLoad on Am I still ace if I have a fetish that gives me erections

All being ace means is that you feel little to no sexual attraction. Consider if this is a thing you've experienced with a person irl (not porn or online) if you get aroused by porn but not actual people you meet in your life, you are asexual. March 11, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/ThatRandomChick6 on Am I still ace if I have a fetish that gives me erections

Yeah definitely arousal has little to do with be ace March 11, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/who_am_I_why_am_I_ on Hello Ace community! I would like your opinion on this post. As an Asexual person, I'm not sexually attracted towards anyone. Male, female or trans. But I'm being painted as a transphobe for saying so. Am I really transphobic for not being attracted to transsexuals as an Asexual person?

How do you report subreddits? March 11, 2021 at 11:37PM

/u/Cuntillious on All or Nothing

I’m panromantic asexual and this is my last two brain cells March 11, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/Thatssomegoodschist on Which characters do you consider asexual or on the spectrum?

The 11th and 13th Doctors, maybe some of the others March 11, 2021 at 11:34PM