And how important is it that someone you're dating has similar beliefs to you? Recently had an argument with someone about this. I typically find both politics and religion to be one of those areas that will differ based on how much the matter to someone. With friends, I absolutely don't mind surrounding myself with people with different beliefs. But with dating, for me, it's a deal breaker if the guy doesn't have mostly similar beliefs. Submitted March 08, 2020 at 12:18AM And how important is it that someone you're dating has similar beliefs to you?Recently had an argument with someone about this.I typically find both politics and religion to be one of those areas that will differ based on how much the matter to someone. With friends, I absolutely don't mind surrounding myself with people with different beliefs.But with dating, for me, it's a deal breaker if the guy doesn't have mostly similar beliefs.

My wife says cumming on her and not in her is disrespectful how can I change that? Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:01PM My wife says cumming on her and not in her is disrespectful how can I change that?

*Doesn't have to be specifically from a man, but from a partner who may not express themself as openly as women tend to do. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:01PM *Doesn't have to be specifically from a man, but from a partner who may not express themself as openly as women tend to do.

Please please please people ask for consent before sending pictures of you nude. And respect when people may decline. I had been texting with a woman I met through Bumble recently. Conversation was flowing easily and smooth. I asked her if she'd like to go out next weekend for a drink and she countered the offer with "how about you just come over tonight?". I was flattered by the proposal, but not too keen on going to a random womans house who I've never met in person before. I told her I'd rather wait until next weekend after we got a chance to talk more in person. She then proceeds to send me 3 nude pictures and says "does this change your mind?". Well, yes it did. I no longer have any desire to meet with her because she didnt ask before sending those kinds of pictures, which honestly made me feel disrespected and creeped out. I called her out on doing it too, saying how gross and creepy that was and then telling her off. So please, at least ask an...

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On mobile, so expect typos and sorry for formatting issues ahead of time. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year and we’ve been sexually active through out our relationship. However, it’s just been plain vanilla. No other positions but missionary and on her stomach. I always take the time to take care of her before hand, going between her legs and “getting her warmed up”. However, it’s becoming more of a chore. I REALLY hate that I am saying that because I do love her and am planning on proposing to her but not before this issue is talked about. I’ve tried asking her what she likes and she ALWAYS answers that she doesn’t know. I’m having to read her body language and reactions to everything I do. I find it hard/difficult to believe that someone knows 3 days before she gets sick or something but doesn’t know what feels good? To add, not once has she touched me. Not even offered a blow job, nothing. I make so much of it about her but I’ve never felt her hand on me. And...

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Simply put I'm not the kind of guy who likes to sleep with girls that I'm not romantically invested in, but its been a while since I've had sex and since things were going well with this girl I matched with on tinder I asked her if she wanted to meet up for sex and she agreed, I also made sure she knew I wanted nothing more than just sex. I wasn't bothered at this point and if anything was looking forward to having sex with her, until she messaged me asking me to meet up earlier and I got really anxious suddenly and despite me not really having much to do I declined and asked her to just meet up on the day we agreed to. Since then I've been coming in and out of states of anxiety over this which may be because of the fact I have been having really bad anxiety lately but also self confidence issues but its never bothered me like this before. I'm not really sure what it is, I know she wants it, I want it too even though I'm not that attracted to her, I don...

So name calling or degrading a girl, esp if in solid relationship, during sex... I cant quite get used to thinking being called a dirty whore or slut despite the hot sex as a good thing. I know it turns most guys on and reading posts some girls love it but... Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:08PM So name calling or degrading a girl, esp if in solid relationship, during sex... I cant quite get used to thinking being called a dirty whore or slut despite the hot sex as a good thing. I know it turns most guys on and reading posts some girls love it but...

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So I (F18) started having sex 4 months ago for the first time with my first and current boyfriend(19). The sex wasn't that good at the beginning because we were both inexperienced but the last three times we've had sex it was just amazing, I can only describe it as fireworks running through my body. Those last times we both came at the same time and after we were finished and he was still inside of me I started laughing uncontrollably, at the beginning my bf was very confused and so was I because it was the first time that it occurred but now every time I have such an intense orgasm I can stop laughing my ass off. He finds it funny and kinda weird but I'm glad he doesn't think that I'm making fun of him or something like that Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:10PM So I (F18) started having sex 4 months ago for the first time with my first and current boyfriend(19). The sex wasn't that good at the beginning because we were both inexperienced but the last thre...

So I’m (25m) and I have two very good friends and I’ve been single for over a year sexless after my divorce. I was dating and married to the same woman for almost 9 years. They are both lady’s in there 30’s and I’m very attracted to the older of the two (38f). Now we have never done anything but kiss, but on a drunken night the (30f) and I had done the deed in the morning with the condition I never tell (38f). Now these two are a couple and I don’t want to come between them but, the (38f) has been telling me how dead there sex life is and how she’s always tempted to just fuck my brains out. I’m torn I want to be a good friend to both but on the other hand I have a lust building to just launch into it blind and with out a care. I just don’t know what I could do to help those two sexually with out turning it into a sticky situation for all 3 of us. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:12PM So I’m (25m) and I have two very good friends and I’ve been single for over a year sexless after m...

Does anyone know how to fight condom shyness? I can be hard as diamond but ill turn into a soft noodle in an instant when i have to put one on. I dont have anything against it a few mm seperating my dick with my partner is no big deal. I wouldnt want to do it withoit anyways because of dear of kids. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:19PM Does anyone know how to fight condom shyness? I can be hard as diamond but ill turn into a soft noodle in an instant when i have to put one on. I dont have anything against it a few mm seperating my dick with my partner is no big deal. I wouldnt want to do it withoit anyways because of dear of kids.

Im looking for a website/app to find people to sext? All recommendations are welcome. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:25PM Im looking for a website/app to find people to sext? All recommendations are welcome.

Hello (24m) here and was just wondering for mostly girls how long do you feel like fire play should last? Also anyone can chime in but what acts ultimately define foreplay and why is it so desirable? More sexually inexperienced that’s why I ask. Thank You. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:27PM Hello (24m) here and was just wondering for mostly girls how long do you feel like fire play should last? Also anyone can chime in but what acts ultimately define foreplay and why is it so desirable? More sexually inexperienced that’s why I ask. Thank You.

I’ve (M22) been wanting to ask my girlfriend (F20) of a little over eight months about mutual masturbation for quite a few months now. I brought it up once in the VERY early stages of our relationship—like, we had just started having sex, and my dumbass wasn’t thinking and brought it up during sex which I know now is something you should never do, and she said she would think about it but we never spoke about it again. We’ve only been able to make each other come a few times before, and we have a mutual agreement that an orgasm is not the goal, the goal is to just have fun and be intimate with each other. So if it happens it happens, but if it doesn’t we don’t beat ourselves up about it (as much) as we used to. I masturbate, and I’m not exactly sure if she does, because we just don’t really talk about it. Occasionally the conversation about masturbation will come up with friends or whatever, but we’ve never had a full conversation about it ourselves. Sometimes when I’m horny she’ll ...

A week or so ago, I gave my BF a blowjob and he had such an intense orgasm that he was speechless and twitching and out of breath for quite a while. He got weirdly contemplative afterwards and said he wished he could do that for me. A lack of oral (him being the giver) has been a point of argument for our entire 3 year relationship so to avoid another argument I told him he makes me feel that good in other ways, which is true. Even so it really gets under my skin for unhealthy amounts of time to think about comments like this coming from him. I got good at giving blowjobs because I practiced a damn lot. With any new partner I take time to really connect with his body and feel out what techniques they love most since people like different things. He always talks about how badly he wants to be this good for me but does nothing to get better at it. I've playfully and seriously mentioned throughout the past 3 years how you get good at something by practicing a lot and he will agree...

So when I was younger, I used to value sex like it was some sort of artefact from Indiana jones or something. However I lost my V card at 17 and since then have slept with 4 different girls. Is that too high for a 19 year old? Is that more than the average? Also, there's a girl I was seeing in September/October last year who I cut ties with because she didn't reciprocate feelings for me and it was hella painful to stay just friends. I then slept with a girl in December to get over her, and now the girl I cut ties with shows interest and wants to give a relationship a chance. Is it just me or am I okay to feel weird about that. I love this girl, but would it be weird if she knew I slept with someone during our time apart? I wouldn't think so because she had a boyfriend herself during our time apart so I'd think it'd be ok but I want everyone else's opinion on the matter to see others insights. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:42PM So when I was younger, I u...

self esteem issues my whole life = im a virgin at 22. but ive been working on myself and my social skills and my confidence is through the roof. i met this girl in my class whos 19 and we've talked and Im preety sure she wants to have sex with me. im just concerned because she says she likes older guys and im assuming its because they are experienced in bed, but im not at all so im worried about disappointing her. should i just be upfront with her or try to wing it and hope im not too terrible?? also do you guys think its really a big deal to be a virgin at 22? i feel like its so taboo and she will just laugh at me or think there is something seriously wrong with me. Thanks in advance Submitted March 07, 2020 at 11:46PM self esteem issues my whole life = im a virgin at 22. but ive been working on myself and my social skills and my confidence is through the roof. i met this girl in my class whos 19 and we've talked and Im preety sure she wants to have sex with me. im just...

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Curious if any one on this sub reads posts to their spouse as a lead in to discussion. I did recently regarding ageing parents and their care. Submitted March 08, 2020 at 12:11AM Curious if any one on this sub reads posts to their spouse as a lead in to discussion.I did recently regarding ageing parents and their care.

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