I confused aesthetic attraction with sexual attraction all the time. I didnt understand anything about sexual attraction but I was like "oh I like to look at you so that must be me being sexually attracted to you". March 02, 2021 at 11:57PM

Tbf, even I, who is transmasc and severely allergic to cats, think that an asexual cat lady would be fun to be. Perhaps an asexual cat person. ...suddenly, FURRY March 02, 2021 at 11:55PM

I never really cared about the "V card." Seemed like a stupid concept that insecure little boys made up to talk up their "conquests." But I guess I'm not really on your list so don't count :P I'm neutral, but had sex years ago. Wasn't really that impressed. I have heard of the subset you're asking for, though. On one of the ace discord servers. March 02, 2021 at 11:53PM

u may possibly be grey sexual which means you feel sexual attraction rarely or demisexual sexual which mean you develop sexual attraction to the specific person once you know them well enough. March 02, 2021 at 11:50PM

Perhaps moderate to high, but it can fluctuate for time time.. My libido is driven by three desires: 1. To share physical intimacy with someone whom I've built/have a strong bond and deep admiration for (preferably, the feeling is mutual). Hasn't happened yet! lol To normalize the pain and suffering inflicted on my mind from sexual assault experienced in the past. Even though I don't desire sex much at all (besides to please a romantic partner/spouse), all this ptsd makes a part of me want to develop more healthy association to sex (preferably, without forcing myself to have sex with people just to get it out of my head). Lastly, to feel loved. Most of the time, it feels like if I'm not of use to others, they won't like or love as much. Now that I think about it though, my default level of libido is most likely medium (when I'm at my best). Only when I'm either very depressed or are about to start my monthlies, is it high. On the other hand, when ...

What the actual fuck? This isn't even about asexuals, everyone - and let me repeat: EVERYONE - is by default in the "you can't have sex with them" category. It is a very rare occasion if this changes. March 02, 2021 at 11:48PM

Yes, please share!!! ^ March 02, 2021 at 11:48PM

they're cute! March 02, 2021 at 11:47PM

Glad you like it! I’m planning on getting one too and putting a little paper crown on him :] March 02, 2021 at 11:47PM

I mean before I realised I was ace I thought they were the same. Still do confuse the two tho and I don’t really question my asexuality at least not anymore March 02, 2021 at 11:47PM

That's amazingggg!!! You're so talented! How?!?!?! March 02, 2021 at 11:46PM

Wow, I've rarely felt so "understood", what you're describing feels very similar to my experience! I've just turned 21 and have been with my bf for quite some time. I'm usually not really interested in having sex, but sometimes I don't really mind so we end up having sex on average about once a month. Even tho he is really supportive of me and says that he never wants me to do something I don't want to do I still feel kinda bad for making him be "stuck" in an exclusive relationship with very little sex. This is obviously mostly in my mind but sometimes I can't help but wonder how long he will stay with me before he wants more... On the other hand when my mind is not making up any lies I do have some thoughts on this topic. Because let's be honest, any sexual activity between you and your bf is only between you and your bf! So if you feel fine about it and the way you do it is not unhealthy for your mind or body, then who is to tell ...

"Oh, this is the part where the sex starts happening?" Eyes glaze over . March 02, 2021 at 11:45PM

Aw yos! It’s cake. Now that you posted this on the sub you Gotta make garlic bread next! March 02, 2021 at 11:45PM

I thought this was an actual piece of cake and now I'm vaguely upset. That said, this is super cute!! March 02, 2021 at 11:43PM

Yes. March 02, 2021 at 11:43PM

How cute !! March 02, 2021 at 11:43PM

I want to be a published author. I don't care if it's a best seller, I don't want to be famous. I just want to be published. March 02, 2021 at 11:39PM

I'm aroace and even l have fallen for boys hard lol March 02, 2021 at 11:27PM

I heard something awhile back from a bisexual individual before. She said that some people (allos) identify their arousal and sexuality as part of their identity. So, when someone they care about denies them sex, it feels like they're denying who they are as a human being. An interesting concept. Thought I'd throw it out there, ya know? Create some neutral conversation? March 02, 2021 at 11:23PM

Thank you. March 02, 2021 at 11:23PM

Thanks. but that can be complicated because swingers wear black rings on the non-middle finger. Oof, that can get confusing. Imagine the misunderstandings, lol. They're like the opposites of each other. March 02, 2021 at 11:22PM

H u n g e r March 02, 2021 at 11:20PM