Ok so this girl I talk to we planned out a date but she went from talking to me qlot to texting me like once a day maybe twice what should I do Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:43PM Ok so this girl I talk to we planned out a date but she went from talking to me qlot to texting me like once a day maybe twice what should I do

I met her in a party, texted her and talked about going about, . About a thing I told her if she needs help, she contact me. Then she said thanks you’re so kind. I don’t know what it means. Can I still make a good relationship with her or I look needy? Sorry for English. Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:46PM I met her in a party, texted her and talked about going about, . About a thing I told her if she needs help, she contact me. Then she said thanks you’re so kind. I don’t know what it means. Can I still make a good relationship with her or I look needy? Sorry for English.

So I (20F) dated this guy (22M) in the fall of 2019, my first semester of college. Almost two years ago. We were only exclusive/officially in a relationship for about a month and a half but I really liked him more than any of my ex’s. I believe he is my first real love. We pretty much just faded away around december 2019 and then reconnected at the start of 2020. He told me he didn’t want a relationship Bc he feels he’s too busy for one since he works almost full time and is also a full time college student so he feels he won’t have much time for a relationship. Since then, we’ve been fwb. We text everyday and meet up every now and then. When we see each other we kiss so passionately and sometimes even act like a couple. We’ve even made plans to go to amusement park together or out of state. Over time I’ve realized I still like him a lot and that he’s the first person I’ve truly fallen in love with. I had another relationship earlier this year but kept comparing him to my ex and it di...

I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:50PM I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go?

We only hung out when it was convenient after his work and he never shared his schedule. We only live about an hour away, but that distance seemed to be too far for him. Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:52PM We only hung out when it was convenient after his work and he never shared his schedule. We only live about an hour away, but that distance seemed to be too far for him.

I (22 m) live in a very homophobic country so meeting someone gay is almost near impossible and if you manage to find anyone they are just mostly looking for a hook up because its pretty much hopeless to look for love here or because of internalized homophobia , i started using anonymous internet chatting sites and look for people from country and found a guy after weeks of looking for someone that actually wants something real . We added each other on anonymous social media and talked for 2 weeks and we hung out together once , i really like this guy hes smart goodlooking has many similarities with me , he is everything i ever wished for , he said he has fell for me from the start , while i liked him the feelings didnt grow much more than that from my side , which is absolutely disgusting, i have always crushed over guys that are bad or straight basically guys that i can never be with , now when i have finally found someone that is virtually perfect and loves me i cant reciprocate th...

Thats it…. Thats the question I want real answers.. from men and women Please dont be mean🥺 Why? What the fuck makes me like men who makes me feel so small? What do i need to do to fix it? 32 (f) Submitted September 01, 2021 at 12:01AM Thats it…. Thats the questionI want real answers.. from men and womenPlease dont be mean🥺Why? What the fuck makes me like men who makes me feel so small? What do i need to do to fix it?32 (f)

This one is for the girls out there. What are some tips and tricks you do to improve your confidence in yourself? I’ve been going to the gym and have been making progress in getting the body I want so I’m hoping you guys have more mental advice. Submitted September 01, 2021 at 12:07AM This one is for the girls out there. What are some tips and tricks you do to improve your confidence in yourself? I’ve been going to the gym and have been making progress in getting the body I want so I’m hoping you guys have more mental advice.

I (21F) met my ex boyfriend (20M) a year ago in college. He was the type of guy who didn’t care much about school and thought frat parties were cooler. I have been the first girl to make him want to have a public relationship. In the beginning of our relationship there was a huge cheating incident. I wanted to be done with him, but he begged for me back. I didn’t struggle with forgiving him because it was a week or 2 into the relationship and we had not even began being intimate with each other. We were just good friends that kissed sometimes and with a label that wasn’t super public yet. After forgiving him, he gained my trust back. We spent so much time together and basically lived together in my small apartment. For the past 8 months our relationship was extremely public. I met his sister and stayed with them both for vacations. I also made him a part of my family. We were truly inseparable and had a lot of love for each other. Recently, he admitted to being unfaithful to me. He...

As soon as anyone realizes that I'm an inexperienced guy, they've always lost interest in getting to know me. Makes me feel pretty undesirable. I know I've just had bad luck meeting the right person though. I'd love to hear about guys who met someone who accepted them despite their lack of experience. Trying to hold on to hope and stay positive still. Submitted September 01, 2021 at 12:09AM As soon as anyone realizes that I'm an inexperienced guy, they've always lost interest in getting to know me. Makes me feel pretty undesirable.I know I've just had bad luck meeting the right person though.I'd love to hear about guys who met someone who accepted them despite their lack of experience.Trying to hold on to hope and stay positive still.

32F who is also an introvert so I feel weird that I have to ask this haha. 28M will tell me to call him which freaks me out so I text him and then he'll ask when I'm available. I was also confused about him telling me to call him because if a guy pursues me through call or text I feel like that's a green light he's into me. I actually didn't talk to him for a couple weeks because he said he was going through some things and needed time alone. Me being me took that as a rejection and never tried to follow up. We were both at our mutual friends cabin over the weekend and slowly warmed back up to eachother. He did not seem to enjoy me talking to a different guy and kept butting in and by the end of the night we were holding hands. He told me to call him if he doesn't see me soon so I texted him yesterday and we were chatting a little bit. He initially made the first moves on me and I told him casual for now (yes read between the lines). I've also asked if he...

I'm a 26 year old Male, and I have probably 5 bodies (including my current girlfriend). Every girl I've ever been with hasn't been able to make me cum, from head, to vaginal sex, to anything they try, after an hour of having sex, I'm forced to jerk myself off to completion. Is there something wrong with me, or something I can change about myself to make it possible? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:02PM I'm a 26 year old Male, and I have probably 5 bodies (including my current girlfriend). Every girl I've ever been with hasn't been able to make me cum, from head, to vaginal sex, to anything they try, after an hour of having sex, I'm forced to jerk myself off to completion. Is there something wrong with me, or something I can change about myself to make it possible?

I’ve (36F) been going to a reputable and upscale gloryhole in my city for about a month now with one of my closest friends. We’re both single and wanted to try something different. Anyway, my sister and her husband have been married 10 years and we’ve been on family vacations numerous times. He has a distinct birth mark just above his waistline off slightly to the left and I’ve seen it numerous times as it sits above his swim shorts. After I finished him and he retracted, I kept my gaze through the hole and ever so quickly caught a glimpse of his hips and saw what I saw. It wasn’t the brightest of conditions but I noticed a ring on his finger that looked identical to one my father gave him as a gift to wear on his right middle finger. I was shaken up right on the spot. I waited a little bit to play it safe and make sure I could leave the property and not potentially run into him. But I’m 95% sure it was him. I have virtually 0 way of confirming it and given my paranoia and overthi...

Hi I was wondering if you are able to talk to your therapist about sex related incidents that have happened to you? Because I’ve had a few incidents and every time afterwards when I bring it up to the person it happened I always get my feelings but I still let it happen. Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:07PM Hi I was wondering if you are able to talk to your therapist about sex related incidents that have happened to you? Because I’ve had a few incidents and every time afterwards when I bring it up to the person it happened I always get my feelings but I still let it happen.

I’m trying anal play (just fingers and/or toys) for the first time with my partner, and I’m trying to figure some easily available lubes. Is Vaseline a good anal lube? And what are some alternatives if not? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:13PM I’m trying anal play (just fingers and/or toys) for the first time with my partner, and I’m trying to figure some easily available lubes. Is Vaseline a good anal lube? And what are some alternatives if not?

Exactly what the title says. My girlfriend made a passing joke about the way I tasted referring to when she gives me oral. She told me I tasted salty and bitter. Then she asked what she tastes like, and in my honest opinion she just kinda tastes like sweat. Not like body odor, or anything gross, I should add that I clarified this. Just sweat. She was quite upset with me and when I kept asking her what the issue was she just kept telling me she shouldn't have to explain and to do some research. I understand that on the surface it could seem like I was saying it was like gross body odor, but that wasn't what I meant. Am I being awkward and unaware or is she perhaps insecure? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:23PM Exactly what the title says. My girlfriend made a passing joke about the way I tasted referring to when she gives me oral. She told me I tasted salty and bitter. Then she asked what she tastes like, and in my honest opinion she just kinda tastes like sweat. Not like...

All my sexual experiences have been one night stands, and each one it has taken me ages to finish, around 3 hours+. I do masterbate once every other day and it goes significantly quicker around 15-25 mins. I have told my mates about this and they have suggested that it could be due to lack of a connection with the other party. Have I potentially got this mystical thing called ‘death grip syndrome?’ Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:26PM All my sexual experiences have been one night stands, and each one it has taken me ages to finish, around 3 hours+. I do masterbate once every other day and it goes significantly quicker around 15-25 mins. I have told my mates about this and they have suggested that it could be due to lack of a connection with the other party. Have I potentially got this mystical thing called ‘death grip syndrome?’

I have never been in a relationship and never kissed anyone before. I'm also not in a rush to find someone to do all this with. I have just figured out I'm bisexual one year ago. So yes, I'm a confused person. When I tell people my age about being a virgin and all that, they look at me as if I just killed their mother in front of them. Usually they judge me for it harshly, see me as uptight and boring. Now, I want to specify that I don't do this out of religion or for saving myself for my husband or something like that (I'm an atheist). I just don't feel comfortable getting close to anynone in a sexual way, especially if I barely know them. Even more with men. The thought of having sex with a man disgusts me to no end most of times because of my father who completely destroyed my view on men and sex. He is a pervert in every bad meaning of the word, taught me that men sexualize and objectify women all the time. I know this isn't true, and I try to work on...

Ok where do i start we moved in with eachover in march and since we have been sleeping in the same bed he hasn't licked me out once and he saids it isnt the smell but i think hes lying about it i wash myself good all the time but i dont think he likes my natural smell Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:42PM Ok where do i start we moved in with eachover in march and since we have been sleeping in the same bed he hasn't licked me out once and he saids it isnt the smell but i think hes lying about it i wash myself good all the time but i dont think he likes my natural smell

I (24f) and my ex (31m) just broke up about three weeks ago and I suffered a miscarriage about a week after that. I still am in love with him even though he’s fallen out of love for me and is already talking and sleeping with someone else so I’m wondering if maybe he has the right idea? I think a part of me has been holding out because if I’m not any body else’s than I’m still his… I know it’s stupid which is why I’m here wondering if anyone thinks it’s helpful to get under somebody else to get over a person you loved and thought was the person you were going to marry? I’ve been trying to heal but I can’t seem to break the bond I have to him so would doing that help sever it so I don’t have to feel this anymore? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:43PM I (24f) and my ex (31m) just broke up about three weeks ago and I suffered a miscarriage about a week after that. I still am in love with him even though he’s fallen out of love for me and is already talking and sleeping with someone ...

To preface this my (27m) gf (24f) is repulsed by multiple sexual acts and it’s starting to eat away at me. I am unable to touch her vagina with me fingers or mouth since she doesn’t like the smell that it produces. I’ve suggested we both shower before sex to help if she is bothered by it and assured her she doesn’t smell. So for sex I pretty much am only able to do penetration with a condom with no foreplay. As for what she does for me is more of the same. She doesn’t reciprocate oral and is grossed out by the smell and feel of cum. Last night I finished from a handjob(her idea) and it went on both of us. She got mad at me and said it was disgusting before running to shower off. It was a small drop on her arm and some on the hand. In regards to my hygiene I shower often and clean well. Most of the time I shower before we have sex. I would like to know if there is any ideas how to fix this and try new things. Doing the same thing is really killing my attraction to her sexually and sh...

I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:49PM I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go?

As a result of major life changes - giving up alcohol, fixing my hormone levels, having a lot of good therapy, coming off longer term SSRIs, etc, I (M48) am experiencing really profound (and exciting) changes In my sexuality. Quite unexpectedly, I’m finding that not only do I have far kinkier interests than I was ever aware of, but I’m also finding that I can find huge peace in being a sub in the bedroom. That happened by accident when my wife called me her little bitch. The effect was a cross between a lightning bolt and a huge sense of utter safety that I could give up control and let this person be in charge. This is all very exciting and new, but my wife of 20 years is 52, menopausal and despite the above “accident”, very vanilla. I love her very much, we are tremendously committed and we communicate well, including around these new developments. She is quite adamant that her bodily changes coupled with her own sexual preferences mean that exploration of my new self is not going...