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/u/ITinMN on what a dilemma

No February 23, 2023 at 01:41AM

If a girl compliments a guy is there a good chance she’s into him ?

From what I hear, it’s not common for guys to get compliments from girls often Submitted February 23, 2023 at 01:12AM From what I hear, it’s not common for guys to get compliments from girls often

A few dates in, she seems super interested but takes forever to text back

So we met on a dating app a while ago we texted/FaceTimed for a while but started going on dates recently. We just had our 6th date a few days ago and it was the best one yet things escalated and she seemed super excited about it, made sure to text me right after to tell me how much fun she had, when we hung out she started talking about things we can do together in the summer, how she can take time off of work to hang, etc. Basically everything is going really well except lately she’s being weird w texting. She puts effort into the texts, isn’t dry but will sometimes take HOURS to respond but I’ll see that she posted during those few hours….I would normally take this as her not being interested but everything besides the texting points to her being super interested. Not sure how to take it. Thoughts? Submitted February 23, 2023 at 01:12AM So we met on a dating app a while ago we texted/FaceTimed for a while but started going on dates recently. We just had our 6th date a few day...

/u/NomiMaki on tired of hearing "x can't be asexual because he loves y!"

I'd suggest searching the term "queer platonic relationship" (QPR for short) as a starter February 23, 2023 at 12:42AM

we had the “what are we” talk, he tells me “I like you, but it’s just not practical right now because I don’t have anything to offer”

long story short, he(38M) messaged me(28F) last year. He asked me on several dates and talked to me for 3 months before I agreed to see him. I was going through a break up and was extremely cautious about doing anything with another man. we ended up hanging out a lot and sleeping together. we ended up being each other’s only sexual partner throughout this year, talking day and night, all day every day, this whole time. something happened that made me realize I might have actual feelings, so I brought “us” up into conversation. he said he wasn’t in a place to have relationship expectations put on him and has way too many things on his plate. I’m at an absolute loss on what to think. I wasn’t expecting to jump into relationship waters either, as I am busy too, but his answer bothered me. Why approach me and talk to me for almost a year? I ended up getting upset and cut him off. I said some things I didn’t mean, and I messaged him days later after having time to think and apologized for ...

Boyfriend (27M) and I (30F) long distance

Boyfriend and I of over a year have been doing long distance. Things are great when we’re together but he says we’re “not right for each other” when we’re apart. We don’t fight often but when we do, it hurts. He says it’s not an easy “responsibility” to be “required” to talk to me every day. Which, we hardly talk at all most days and then other days we’ll be on the phone for an hour. But I feel like that’s part of long distance, letting each other know they’re on your mind even far away and genuinely wanting to know about their days. Our recent fight was because he went on a bender for 3 days - no communication and he doesn’t understand why I would be upset … mind you he canceled seeing me the weekend before because he was too busy with a class - which is still unfinished so he just chose not to see me. Am I in the wrong for wanting communication? And for wanting it not to be a difficult “responsibility”? He’s on his phone with his brother and cousin and friends whenever we are to...