Hey! Obviously a throwaway account. I slowly start to like the idea of getting pegged but I don't know how to tell my Girlfriend. I should note that she already played with my ass before (fingers and tongue) and also tells me almost everyday how sexy my butt is. she also loves to grab my ass and massage it. Sometime she jokes around about butt stuff and I play along but we just laugh it off. The same when i start to joke around about it. I think she would be pretty open to do it but i dont know how to approach it. As i said we sometimes joke around about butt stuff and once we joked around about pegging and she askes me "can i?" as i already said we just laugh it off and change the subject. Any tips? Submitted November 13, 2021 at 01:05AM Hey! Obviously a throwaway account.I slowly start to like the idea of getting pegged but I don't know how to tell my Girlfriend.I should note that she already played with my ass before (fingers and tongue) and also tells ...

I'm sick of seeing my friends, who are good people and deserving of love, suffer depression and loneliness because of this. Hypergamy has completely ruined relationships/dating for most men, who have to struggle endlessly to make himself seem worthy, and for most women, who are in a rat race for the top-tier men. I'm not going to pretend that female hypergamy is somehow OK because it's 'natural' and saying otherwise somehow makes me sexist. it causes so much harm to society, it's about time it gets called out and something is done to stop it. Submitted November 13, 2021 at 12:06AM I'm sick of seeing my friends, who are good people and deserving of love, suffer depression and loneliness because of this.Hypergamy has completely ruined relationships/dating for most men, who have to struggle endlessly to make himself seem worthy, and for most women, who are in a rat race for the top-tier men.I'm not going to pretend that female hypergamy is somehow ...

So I was watching Love is Blind Brazil, and this one contestant said how people are so shallow these days and a majority don’t want depth of a true relationship etc etc. In my experience though, the same people who claim others are like that happen to be the best example of shallowness. People who are not serious keep saying how others are not serious. My question is for these people - why do you do that? Submitted November 13, 2021 at 12:07AM So I was watching Love is Blind Brazil, and this one contestant said how people are so shallow these days and a majority don’t want depth of a true relationship etc etc.In my experience though, the same people who claim others are like that happen to be the best example of shallowness. People who are not serious keep saying how others are not serious.My question is for these people - why do you do that?

So I’m in college (21F), and I just starting seeing this guy (22M). With him it’s been sort of a slow burn. The more time I spend with him the more I like him. Today was our third date and we went on a hike then talked for hours at a restaurant. I kinda hoped he’d kiss me but the mood never seemed right. I’d like to kiss him the next time we hang out but I’m so shy and overthink. I’m just a little concerned he’s gonna think I just want to be friends, which would be nice but not really what I want. What do I do to show him I’m open to physical contact? I don’t want to be too obvious but I do want him to know I’m interested. Submitted November 13, 2021 at 12:07AM So I’m in college (21F), and I just starting seeing this guy (22M). With him it’s been sort of a slow burn. The more time I spend with him the more I like him. Today was our third date and we went on a hike then talked for hours at a restaurant. I kinda hoped he’d kiss me but the mood never seemed right. I’d like to kiss ...

But treats me better after I get attention. (Short lived) Is this not rewarding a perceived negative event? Any men wanna share some insight? Submitted November 13, 2021 at 12:09AM But treats me better after I get attention. (Short lived)Is this not rewarding a perceived negative event?Any men wanna share some insight?

I'm a 29 year old (well, 30 next week) lesbian who yet again hit "no more profiles in your area" on four dating apps with no matches. I've had three dates in the past three years. Yes, partially due to covid, but I was swiping on apps for a lot of that. What I can't tell is if maybe I'm being too picky on apps as I do get liked by plenty of women, just no one I'm interested in. I did have a two month thing with a woman earlier this year who hit all of my boxes but was incredibly boring and could not hold a conversation about anything more in depth than what we did that day and I just couldn't stay interested in her. I am looking for a woman ages 26-33 who is not married or partnered, monogamous, doesn't smoke cigarettes, whose profile doesn't make weed the center of their life, not obese, not a single mom, and doesn't have a pit bull. I'm not really into either super femme or super butch women. I'm attracted to women in between bu...

I get tired of breathing anymore, in my 30s can barely walk thanks to my service in my 20s not to mention what happened to America? Everything gets so heavy anymore. Hard to meet someone with a mindset like mine. I feel alone not that anyone reading this cares just feels good to say it somewhere I guess. November 12, 2021 at 11:49PM

Hum, I don't remember their mascot, I just imagined one of their products. Edit: added " " to "dragon" in my previous post to make the situation clearer. November 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

Yes, it’s wrong Though I am going to (sex) therapy, it’s because I want to at least be able to engage with the topic with people. I know I have trauma and I want to get over it, but that has nothing to do with my sexuality November 12, 2021 at 11:44PM

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As a former female, pads (FUCK PERIODS) November 12, 2021 at 11:33PM

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Hello, I want to up my sex life for my girlfriend and I, but I just don’t know how. She wants to be ‘degraded’ in bed but I have no idea what that means. She wants me to talk dirty but I have no clue what to say at all and doesn’t want me to ask her about it. If anyone could give a few pointers so I could begin to learn I’d appreciate it a lot. Thanks Submitted November 12, 2021 at 11:50PM Hello, I want to up my sex life for my girlfriend and I, but I just don’t know how. She wants to be ‘degraded’ in bed but I have no idea what that means. She wants me to talk dirty but I have no clue what to say at all and doesn’t want me to ask her about it. If anyone could give a few pointers so I could begin to learn I’d appreciate it a lot. Thanks

So I can’t get hard after having a few drinks out on a date. The whole trying to shove a marshmallow in a piggy bank situation. What do you guys do on first second dates when they want to end the night with sex? 1) tell them the problem 2) try your luck and hope it works 3) go in purely to satisfy them with your mouth and fingers Now I know the best thing to do is just not drink but I have the best success with dates in general taking girls to a bar it loosens you both up and helps with getting to know each other. I’m autistic so I find this is the best game plan for me and would get a lot of anxiety trying a whole new game plan. Submitted November 12, 2021 at 11:55PM So I can’t get hard after having a few drinks out on a date. The whole trying to shove a marshmallow in a piggy bank situation. What do you guys do on first second dates when they want to end the night with sex?1) tell them the problem 2) try your luck and hope it works 3) go in purely to satisfy them with your m...

My fuck buddy wants to do it I haven’t dint in years so it’s like being a virgin again any advice plz ? Submitted November 12, 2021 at 11:55PM My fuck buddy wants to do it I haven’t dint in years so it’s like being a virgin again any advice plz ?

Before I started licking my girlfriend's pussy she had asked if she can smoke a cigarette. She told me it helps her relax and keep focus. She smokes about 30 cigarettes daily. Question for smokers do you that thought while oral sex? Is it weird? Submitted November 12, 2021 at 11:56PM Before I started licking my girlfriend's pussy she had asked if she can smoke a cigarette. She told me it helps her relax and keep focus. She smokes about 30 cigarettes daily. Question for smokers do you that thought while oral sex? Is it weird?

Sorry if this is a dumb question, but I see a lot of people on the sub say they have lots of sex or don’t have sex at all anymore. Its confusing to me. Does that mean penetrative sex, oral sex, or touching? For example my partner and I don’t always have penetrative sex, but we have a lot of oral sex and sexual touching. I often feel guilty that we don’t have enough penetrative sex, especially since I see a lot of people say they have tons of sex. I feel like I do too, but I’m not allowed to think I do because it’s not penetrative. I just don’t know what category to put myself in. Also those who also say they aren’t having sex anymore what does that mean to them? I just wonder if I’m thinking about this all wrong. I just feel so much guilt and don’t want to feel alone in this. My bf assures me he is happy with us, but I still can’t get over not being good enough for him sexually. Submitted November 13, 2021 at 12:00AM Sorry if this is a dumb question, but I see a lot of people ...