Gonna try and wrap this up in a short story.. We dated for 2 and a half months. Early on for the first 2 months id say she was heavily pursuing me while I was unsure of it. I figured she was sexy so why not keep going but i was unsure of a relationship. She would tell me things like " you scare me.. I havent felt this way about someone since my first love" id leave something like a hoodie at her place and she would send me a pic wearing it saying she missed me and could smell me on it.. She was obssesed with me. I eventually dropped my gaurd and we moved way to quickly.. Spending practically everyday together but we would tell eachother how much we enjoyed it, couldnt get sick of eachother etc. We were head over heels for eachother. Something happened that led me to telling her i was creating a boundary and I felt uncomfortable with a certain situation. It bothered me for a couple of days and led to an argument. We ended up breaking up over it. A week later she reached out ...

where’s the credit January 26, 2022 at 11:32PM

What in the blazes? Okay yeah no that is rather toxic pattern of behaviour. Id suggest stepping away from the situation and if it persists maybe bring it up with someone. January 26, 2022 at 11:29PM

Hello everyone, so recently I got into a fight with my girlfriend and I wanted to see what you guys would do if you were in my shoes. So my girlfriend is friends with a girl named Anna. Her and Anna used to have a thing about three years ago and her exact words “we slept together once when we were drunk” (my girlfriend is Bi). I’ve expressed to my girlfriend that I don’t care if they hangout but I would feel really uncomfortable if she spent the night at her house. So for that reason, I would prefer if she didn’t. Monday she said she was going to her house to spend time with her. Which I was like cool whatever. However, later in the night she said that she was going to spend the night. She knows how I feel about that and said not to be upset. I obviously got upset and she was arguing that her and Anna had sex three years so it didn’t mean anything. So I’m like so if I were to hangout with some I spelt with it would be cool right? Since it happened 3 years ago. She wasn’t happy about t...

I'm a woman but reading what you read, parts of it felt very familiar in both what I experience personally and what I've experienced through men who have low sex drives or just aren't sex focused (haven't really known any asexual men personally) I've noticed how hard it is for men to feel comfortable not being super sex focused and it makes me really sad. I try to support those who share those emotions with me but I still see them struggling with it. I really wish sex could be less of a focus so people could feel more comfortable being themselves. Even as a woman I've come across so many people who just don't understand it and contradict what you try to tell them. I can relate to the just pretending to be hetero, I actually ended up doing that in the end after it was just too exhausting identifying as ace. Gone full circle back here and still reluctant to identify that way and definitely not comfortable telling people that's how I feel because even pe...

There are most likely more, but people don’t realise they are asexual as they are either sex-neutral or sex-favourable January 26, 2022 at 11:25PM