So I (18F) matched with this guy (20M) on bumble 3 weeks ago. We’ve been talking nonstop every day and today was our first date. We went out for dinner and then went exploring on some trails in the woods. Dinner lasted 2 hours and the final hour was spent walking around. Honestly I had the best time ever, until my period decided to start while we were in the middle of the trail. I asked if we could turn back because my cramps were really bad and it hurt to walk. On the walk back to his car I had to stop walking and he offered to go get his car. (He knew why I couldn’t walk) I was mortified and super embarrassed but he was a complete gentleman about it. He dropped me off at home and left. I really really like this guy but I’m so scared that I fucked it up. Submitted July 18, 2022 at 01:14AM So I (18F) matched with this guy (20M) on bumble 3 weeks ago. We’ve been talking nonstop every day and today was our first date.We went out for dinner and then went exploring on some tra...

I was a tutor for my university a few years ago, and when my working hour was ending, another class would Begin. So it was natural that a few students showed up earlier(since almost nobody went to the tutoring, I didn't pay it any mind). There was a girl that occasionally appeared for her class, and we would talk when no one was there for the tutoring. One day we were talking and it was almost the time for her class to star and she asked me to follow her and went to somewhere with no one around. She looked me in the eyes and I just kept chatting about anything. Then I looked at my clock and said: "Oh, your class is starting, you should hurry. Bye" and gave her a kiss in the cheek(custom where I leave, even if you are not very close to someone). She didn't appear after that, and I kinda feel bad about it, but I was just talking to her like I would with anyone, didn't desire anything else. That's what came to my mind after reading your question. July 1...

Posting from throwaway acc. So, I’ve never really thought of myself as having a type when it comes to dating (or even friendships). It’s more of a personality match for me. I don’t believe in limiting myself to physical beauty only. But now I think that I have a type. I think I like asian men, I really find them attractive. I’ve been with a few, I do see myself checking them out more. And we’re a lot more culturally aligned which is important for me. It’s a weird feeling for me lol. Also, even though I’ve dated a few, they aren’t particularly attracted to me, I am brownish (but not Indian - which is not a biggie, but just saying so you have an idea). Being a person of colour myself, I wouldn’t want to fetishized. There was one guy I was with, he was very nice and everything (we ended things because of scheduling issues lol), but when we first met, he did mention that he liked me because “I don’t mind him being short.” (Height is absolutely not a problem for me, height isn’t why I...

So last night I (m21) invited a girl (f20) I'm into to a rave - we've been talking for the last couple of weeks and I wanted to spend some time with her. The party was just for our friends, so everyone knew each other. She came over and we had a great time together: joking, laughing, sipping wine, and sometimes having some kind of deep talk. I felt an emotional connection and was attracted to her. My friends also knew I was into her. We have been talking all night until my friend who organized the rave asked me to help him with his audio equipment. I agreed and stepped away for literally five minutes. ​ When I was done I turned around to go back to her and saw her making out with a buddy of one of my close friends. My mood was instantly ruined but I tried to enjoy the music at least for the next hours. I only exchanged a few words with her for the rest of the party and went home in the morning when the rave was over. I think she could tell I was into her. Did she get my si...

I am using a throwaway account just in case. Here's the situation: I am currently enrolled in a six week study abroad trip in England with a bunch of people from my school. I did not know anyone when I first got here, but on the first day I met this really cute girl. She was the first person amongst a sea of strangers I had a real conversation with. I tried to ask her out and she said that she had a boyfriend. A bit embarrassing, but it was all cool. We continued to talk. Two weeks later, we're spending A LOT of time together. If I was her boyfriend, I would be very concerned about the amount of time we hang out one-on-one. We study for hours each day, eat at least one meal together a day (usually just the two of us), and text frequently. She has dropped subtle hints that she likes me: I'm glad I met you, you have a great vocabulary, I'm so glad you care about school as much as I do, etc. I'm sure she knows that I like her, but I'm a bit concerned about how ...

Last night my boyfriend found his ex wife’s addrsss on his daughters medical prescription. My boyfriend and his ex wife live in different states and share custody of the kids . He doesn’t know where she lives so he proceeded to google her address that was on the prescription . Then he tells me he wish he had a better relationship with her that they could coparent as a family . That when they divorced she was dating men and bringing them around his kids and that he would confront them face to face to tell them to stay away . This isn’t the first time he’s talked about his ex drunk . He’s done it a few times usually bringing up the divorce and his mistakes and so on and forth . He doesn’t bring it up when sober . We usually talk about us and our plans . It’s starting to bother me now because his friends have told him in front of me he needs to quit that and I’m hurt by it. Should I walk away ? Thank for any advice . Submitted July 17, 2022 at 09:41PM Last night my boyfriend found ...

I’ve (23F) had a crush on this guy (26M) for a little while, and we’ve been hanging out and sleeping together for a few months, but it hasn’t been much more serious than that. He also recently got out of a relationship. Well, long story short, he pulled my aunt aside during a festival we were all at, and asked about me and how I feel. She told him that I had real feelings for him. He came over to me and when I asked him what he and my aunt were talking about, he mentioned what she said about feelings I have. I quite literally ran in the other direction away from him, very childish I know but I was scared of some kind of rejection, and when he ran after me he actually fell and broke his leg. We met back up and he mentioned his foot, but I thought he just twisted it a bit and didn’t pay enough attention. He ended up putting me in a Uber before we could talk more, and I’ve barely heard from him since. I’ve sent a few texts, one about my feelings which he said he’d “reply to later” but s...