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how many dates before sex?

if it happens too early will that reduce the chance of a relationship as a result? Submitted November 08, 2023 at 12:12AM if it happens too early will that reduce the chance of a relationship as a result?

Distractions

Is it wrong to talk to other guys when I am no longer with the one I love? I have no feelings for them, they’re all just nice people. I feel guilty but I’m trying to distract myself. No matter how many guys I talk to… it doesn’t work. It helps keep my mind off him for a bit but my ex is the first person and last person I think about. I’m heart broken and don’t know what to do. Submitted November 08, 2023 at 12:14AM Is it wrong to talk to other guys when I am no longer with the one I love? I have no feelings for them, they’re all just nice people. I feel guilty but I’m trying to distract myself. No matter how many guys I talk to… it doesn’t work. It helps keep my mind off him for a bit but my ex is the first person and last person I think about. I’m heart broken and don’t know what to do.

He thinks I’m cheating on him because of past trauma with ex gfs..

I’ve been dating this guy, who is a year and a half younger than me, for almost 6 months but recently made it oficial. I know & he knows that he is carrying baggage from previous relationships & is paranoid about me cheating on him because he’s done it in the past to ex gfs and they have done it to him too. I’ve never ever cheated on anyone or have a bad track records but because of the amount of looks and attention I get from males has him insecure and afraid that I’m going to leave him for someone “better”. The reason why I’m even writing this is because he recently was on Snapchat, this morning around 5am and said he got my contact as an option to add, mind you that I’ve deleted the app & have not been active on Snapchat for months, but later that morning when he looked me up again he couldn’t find me so he believes I blocked him. I explained to him that I don’t use that app and haven’t in months & recently downloaded instagram again and Snapchat was an option as w...

The only people who are interested in me are either way older, or in a relationship. What gives?

I (27 F) stopped with the dating apps a while ago because I wanted to shift my focus to work, health, and social life. When expanding my social life, I keep running into people who are older and in relationships. I’ve had one guy in his 50s, a 40 year old guy in a relationship, and a married guy in his 20s all confess they’ve had a crush on me at some point or another. I just don’t understand why single men in my age group aren’t stepping up to the plate instead? Is it because I have a low self-esteem and older/taken men see it as an opportunity? I’m so confused and stressed. Submitted November 08, 2023 at 12:16AM I (27 F) stopped with the dating apps a while ago because I wanted to shift my focus to work, health, and social life.When expanding my social life, I keep running into people who are older and in relationships.I’ve had one guy in his 50s, a 40 year old guy in a relationship, and a married guy in his 20s all confess they’ve had a crush on me at some point or anothe...