I (27 F) stopped with the dating apps a while ago because I wanted to shift my focus to work, health, and social life. When expanding my social life, I keep running into people who are older and in relationships. I’ve had one guy in his 50s, a 40 year old guy in a relationship, and a married guy in his 20s all confess they’ve had a crush on me at some point or another. I just don’t understand why single men in my age group aren’t stepping up to the plate instead? Is it because I have a low self-esteem and older/taken men see it as an opportunity? I’m so confused and stressed. Submitted November 08, 2023 at 12:16AM I (27 F) stopped with the dating apps a while ago because I wanted to shift my focus to work, health, and social life.When expanding my social life, I keep running into people who are older and in relationships.I’ve had one guy in his 50s, a 40 year old guy in a relationship, and a married guy in his 20s all confess they’ve had a crush on me at some point or anothe...