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Past relationship analysis I guess

Hi all, Not sure this belongs here, so let me know if there is a better place for this. I’m (F33) trying to understand if there is something I did wrong in my last relationship with a man who was younger than me (M27). We met when I was 31 and he was 25. This is a very long story, so not sure how to make it concise but not leave anything important out. We started dating 2 years ago, we met at work (I know, it’s not a good idea, but it happened). It was a very intense relationship in a sense that we fell in love very quickly, had so much in common and really felt like we were meant for each other. Spent almost every day with each other. We kind of worried that the age difference might be an issue but went ahead with it anyway, because we loved each other. It was a little more complicated because he came from a religious family, while he wasn’t religious. He hid a lot of things from his parents, like the fact that he drinks and also is dating me. I thought this would be temporary.

My (27F) bf (29M) listens to loud af play through and game review videos, and I'm trying really hard to be okay with it

I'm going to get shredded in the comments for being a crazy chick, but it's driving me insane. Bf watches all these gaming channels on YouTube, turns his videos up full volume, and will watch the videos while we're watching TV. Or making dinner. Or on a walk. I get really set off by loud noises (I always have since I was little, can't stand yelling, fireworks, lawn tools, etc). I have expressed this to him, that these loud videos with sound effects bother me, especially when it's loud enough that I can hear them across the house. I've asked him just to turn the volume down and maybe limit the times he watches them (like maybe not while we're watching TV). He just gives me this look when I walk in the room and shuts them off entirely, and very passive-aggressively says "Oh, I won't watch them, I know you hate them." How do I handle this? Am I being a jerk here? Tldr; bf watches loud videos and it sets me off. I'm trying to handle it bette

My (24F) old phone was misplaced and I think my (29m) boyfriend has it.

We recently moved last month and it was last minute so everything was thrown in boxes. I hadn’t gotten around to looking for my old IPhone 6s Plus yet because I have been unpacking and organizing the essentials. I’m browsing Facebook on my laptop when a pop up for a log in code comes up prompting me to look at my “signed in devices” the old IPhone was one of them I freaked out and signed it out immediately before looking at the IP. Then I went to my Gmail accounts and saw activity from today as well and saw the IP address. Findmyiphone isn’t active but my Apple ID is signed into this phone. It had a passcode last I checked(which probably would’ve been four months ago) we recently had a baby so I’ve been focused on her and loosing my things more recently. I traced the IP address about 3 miles from where my boyfriend works. I asked him if he had it, he says no. Am I wrong to think he still has it? He is the one who cleaned and went through the garage recently. My mom and dad helped us m

Girls only want one thing, and it’s fucking tyrants

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/u/exhicmxdwc on YoUr ArE NoT gEtTiNg KiLlEd

Or it means you have to die in order to deserve respect. July 27, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/exhicmxdwc on YoUr ArE NoT gEtTiNg KiLlEd

The jury is still out on the reason though. July 27, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/flowerycoward on If aphobia is getting you down:

Glad I could make someone’s day a little better :) July 27, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/flowerycoward on If aphobia is getting you down:

Haha when I walked into the room the first thing I said was “THEY HAVE THE ACE FLAG??” I was so excited honestly July 27, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/Tomorrow_Is_Today1 on I've now found that someone trying to explain why sex is good to me is like someone trying to explain colors to a blind person.

This is it! This is the analogy! July 27, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/SweetpeaTheNerd on YoUr ArE NoT gEtTiNg KiLlEd

If this is the same post as I read, a lot of the top comments said that the guy asking questions being rude and dismissive was the asshole Made me feel a bit better :) July 27, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/Rin_the_wizard on Just because I love cuddling and cooing at my cat doesn't mean I want to do that with a human

Agreed! July 27, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/Tomorrow_Is_Today1 on If aphobia is getting you down:

That's amazing! Thanks so much for posting July 27, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/ColorCoatDrawing on Preach it!

oh hey its my 2 favorite subreddits July 27, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/LissetteKate on If aphobia is getting you down:

Guess who also supports us? Neil Gaiman! (Sorry I don’t have the screenshot.) July 26, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/Rin_the_wizard on See ya later, ace pin

I really want to put a few pins on my bag but also don't want to answer questions about them.... July 26, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/pirkules on Made my day :')

Thanks, actually needed that July 26, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/car0003 on can i be both demisexual and greysexual?

NO! Its not allowed! You must choose one! Jk, you can be anything that helps identify you. July 26, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/car0003 on I finally got around to it, I actually look like a boy!

Oh haha, yeah didn't know about it. Cool I'll check it out July 26, 2019 at 11:55PM

/u/paulinia47 on Asexual Bingo

Then there's that another set of people who just tends to ask weirdly invasive questions.... July 26, 2019 at 11:54PM

/u/operationmorfin on If I were to go on national radio to discuss asexuality

Acephobia does exist, libido and sexual attraction are different things, ace people are not robots who are loveless or losers. That romantic and sexual attraction are different things. Breaking common steotypes. July 26, 2019 at 11:54PM

/u/LissetteKate on I’m new here

Well, that is some incel bullshit. Also: hi! 🍰🍰🍰 July 26, 2019 at 11:53PM