My (24F) old phone was misplaced and I think my (29m) boyfriend has it.

We recently moved last month and it was last minute so everything was thrown in boxes. I hadn’t gotten around to looking for my old IPhone 6s Plus yet because I have been unpacking and organizing the essentials. I’m browsing Facebook on my laptop when a pop up for a log in code comes up prompting me to look at my “signed in devices” the old IPhone was one of them I freaked out and signed it out immediately before looking at the IP. Then I went to my Gmail accounts and saw activity from today as well and saw the IP address. Findmyiphone isn’t active but my Apple ID is signed into this phone. It had a passcode last I checked(which probably would’ve been four months ago) we recently had a baby so I’ve been focused on her and loosing my things more recently. I traced the IP address about 3 miles from where my boyfriend works. I asked him if he had it, he says no. Am I wrong to think he still has it? He is the one who cleaned and went through the garage recently. My mom and dad helped us move and they don’t even know how to use phones nor are their houses near where the IP was. We live about 40 miles away from where this IP is and it’s different than our home one. I also should add this person has been logging in since July 8th and hasn’t hacked my accounts or anything which leads me to believe it is my boyfriend. Am I just going crazy? Also any other tips on narrowing down where it could be?

Tl;dr misplaced old IPhone, it was recently used and IP address was near boyfriends work. He denied having it. Now what?



Submitted July 27, 2019 at 12:10AM

We recently moved last month and it was last minute so everything was thrown in boxes. I hadn’t gotten around to looking for my old IPhone 6s Plus yet because I have been unpacking and organizing the essentials. I’m browsing Facebook on my laptop when a pop up for a log in code comes up prompting me to look at my “signed in devices” the old IPhone was one of them I freaked out and signed it out immediately before looking at the IP. Then I went to my Gmail accounts and saw activity from today as well and saw the IP address. Findmyiphone isn’t active but my Apple ID is signed into this phone. It had a passcode last I checked(which probably would’ve been four months ago) we recently had a baby so I’ve been focused on her and loosing my things more recently. I traced the IP address about 3 miles from where my boyfriend works. I asked him if he had it, he says no. Am I wrong to think he still has it? He is the one who cleaned and went through the garage recently. My mom and dad helped us move and they don’t even know how to use phones nor are their houses near where the IP was. We live about 40 miles away from where this IP is and it’s different than our home one. I also should add this person has been logging in since July 8th and hasn’t hacked my accounts or anything which leads me to believe it is my boyfriend. Am I just going crazy? Also any other tips on narrowing down where it could be?Tl;dr misplaced old IPhone, it was recently used and IP address was near boyfriends work. He denied having it. Now what?
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