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Do I remain close friends or do I give her a bit of distance?

I've been friends with this girl for a couple of years now. I've always had a crush on her and she was always in and out of relationships so I never bothered making a move. We had a date while she was in a relationship after that started seeing each other more often as friends. A couple months after the date I found out she was single and decided to make a move on her. We hung out, watched a few movies but nothing really happened between us. Eventually I was kinda forward about me wanting more for from her and she was receptive. We spent more time together and eventually share a kiss. A week or so after that I find out she had a boyfriend, signs were a bit obvious I chose to ignore them. I confront her about it and it turns out to be true. She said if she told be about it earlier she knows I'd drift away(which I definitely would have) and she didn't feel like dating me at the moment because she wasn't ready to loose me if the relationship ended. Yes I was heartb

/u/xCattato on so that the allos will finally shut up

I find the act of masturbation to be repulsive. But, I'm perfectly fine with having sex. May 14, 2022 at 12:14AM

/u/imTired889 on possibly asexual with intrusive thoughts;

To be honest, I feel very scared when I feel like this. It just started happening and I started to get these intrusive thoughts involving being aroace saying that I'm lying to myself, and that I really do like people sexually and romantically, and every time I look at people at the mall I don't even like they say ''That persons hot and sexy right'' and having sex with them, it just makes it so much worse that I get head aches, and my stomach feel weird every time I think about it now I feel so stressed out to go to the mall, and I can't even watch my favorite Youtuber without it saying something gross. I felt so happy being myself, I want it to stop and go away. It's just unfair. May 14, 2022 at 12:12AM

Is this a major red flag or ?

Please all jokes aside, i met up this girl on tinder, who looks real innocent and nerdy, she had told me that she was not just looking for sex and would like to get to know each other and see where it goes. We went on a coffee date and a walk, had a real good vibe,she seemed cute and intellectual and had a nice a sence of humor and a little shy.. now for our second date went for dinner at my place, and we ended up having sex, and she gave my the craziest most proffoesional dt bj ever😅 said that there is nothing more she likes than sucking dick… afrer a while she told me she used to sugar date older men she was 18-20, we went then for a coffee afterwards and she tried sucki** me under the table at the café ( i didn’t let her).. aaand she has a bunch of videos playing with dildos and cucumber..and immediatly started sending me nudes i didn’t ask for ( like an hour after she left . all of this realy surprised cause she was incredibly shy to strt with, and as any other man would be excit

I need some advice. And please don’t be mean I need some actually advice.

So I met this girl on a online dating site yesterday. And we’ve been talkin constantly ever since. But she’s deaf. So her speech isn’t the greatest. We have a lot in common, I thinks shes really pretty and I’ve never felt like this about someone. But I just heard her speak for the first time. And it really caught me off guard. The thing is thats I honestly don’t care at all about her being deaf. That’s not her fault. But I’m worried about what other people will think. And when I say other people I mean my family. Ik that I’m not supposed to care about what other people think. But it still concerns me . And I being a asshole or am I being responsible. Please be blunt af with me what should I do. Submitted May 14, 2022 at 12:10AM So I met this girl on a online dating site yesterday. And we’ve been talkin constantly ever since. But she’s deaf. So her speech isn’t the greatest. We have a lot in common, I thinks shes really pretty and I’ve never felt like this about someone. But I ju

/u/TheWritingZiowl167 on What idiot reported the bloody ace sub for 'arousing content'?

That...that cake do be looking good May 13, 2022 at 11:32PM