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/u/AdvantageWorth8049 on My Teen Son is Asexual

Absolutely! September 04, 2022 at 12:11AM

Am I overthinking him?

I’m a girl who’s been seeing a guy for around 3 weeks now so it’s still quite new, and everything has been going great to be honest, we’ve been meeting 2-3 times per week since we met, the connection is there, he really seems like a genuine guy and he’s always made time to see me (even if we don’t end up sleeping together some nights) The only thing is I get the impression that he’s not a great texter, he basically texts like my dad 😅 and favors meeting in real life, generally we mainly just text to confirm next dates (which is supposed to be good) I know we all have our own texting habits and that is totally fine, just that I’m not really used to that (when I met him for the first time I was surprised how nice he is in real life haha) And now I’ve gone away on vacation to see my family for two weeks, he had promised to wait for me until I come back and told me not to worry, but I worry that if he doesn’t text much even while I’m away, if I text first all the time it might get anno...

Will a girl show her ass crack on purpose?

I was over at her desk/computer and she was showing me something on her screen. Meaning I was standing over her shoulder when I noticed that her ass crack was very visible. Obviously visible. I dont think she was wearing any underwear either and I guess she was wearing low waisted jeans/pants and a short shirt/jacket which is why it showed when she sat down. I found this really sexy but I dont want to assume it was intentional. Is revealing yourself in this manner a thing? It really caught me off guard and I can't stop thinking about it. I don't think it matters but it just made me curious. Has the same effect regardless. Submitted September 03, 2022 at 11:43PM I was over at her desk/computer and she was showing me something on her screen. Meaning I was standing over her shoulder when I noticed that her ass crack was very visible. Obviously visible. I dont think she was wearing any underwear either and I guess she was wearing low waisted jeans/pants and a short shirt/j...

She send me heart emoji in goodnight message is this a sign? or nah?

so she send me this before she sleep "g night🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻" never before saw that emoji added in goodnight message, is this a sign or Im just hoping to much? *edit: she sent me selfie picture to me like twice already and food picture Submitted September 03, 2022 at 11:50PM so she send me this before she sleep "g night🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻" never before saw that emoji added in goodnight message, is this a sign or Im just hoping to much?*edit: she sent me selfie picture to me like twice already and food picture

How to tell ONS I want "real dates"?

I (24) am solo traveling & made out with a guy (25) after 4h of great conversation (no sex yet because we slept in a dorm). He said it was the best night ever & surprisingly asked twice to see me again. Now I want to have a real date since not only the sex was good but also we have a lot in common. So I implied we could meet again if we both "contain" ourselves a little. But he turned it sexual again ("I'm gonna need to book a private room for us next time") What would you do? My ideas are a) Ignore his texts b) "We clearly want other things, goodbye" c) "I really want to date in daylight first with no sexual expectations. Otherwise I dont want to meet" d) Just meet him and see how he reacts when you decline sex. e)... Submitted September 03, 2022 at 11:01PM I (24) am solo traveling & made out with a guy (25) after 4h of great conversation (no sex yet because we slept in a dorm).He said it was the best night ever ...

How to contact someone i'm interested in i met through work.

I'm trying to gather some opinions and suggestions on this scenario.. So i deliver things to people for a living, i go inside their houses and set them up. Recently i was at a home with mother and daughter. The daughter and i got along well and were chatting quite a bit. She was definitely around my age and i was totally into her. Of course i don't get too personal with her and ask her out or anything along those lines because i'm at work, plus her mom was right there and i didn't want to make things awkward. But upon leaving i started to regret not asking for a way to keep in touch with her. So this is where it gets tricky. Afterwards i found her instagram profile, but obviously i only knew what her name was through work.. So my question is, is there anyway i could now contact her through instagram and let her know i'm interested in her, or is this absolutely off-limits and will always come off as creepy, because i feel like this will always come off as creepy? ...

Childhood best friend that you dated but realized you were better off as friends: how did that work out after getting in a new relationship?

Title pretty much says it all. Hopefully this isn’t too niche of a question. I guess I want to know if it’s possible to truly not have anymore attraction or feeling for them after being in this situation. Submitted September 04, 2022 at 12:05AM Title pretty much says it all. Hopefully this isn’t too niche of a question. I guess I want to know if it’s possible to truly not have anymore attraction or feeling for them after being in this situation.

Dealing with extremely delayed response

I (25M) recently went on a 1st date with a girl (25F) who I'd been texting for about a week. The date went decently, and after a few more days of texting I decide to ask her out on a 2nd date. She completely stopped responding. Until roughly 48 hours later, where she agreed to go on the 2nd date. No explanation as to why she took so long to get back, normally she was a fast texter. Is this girl even worth pursuing? Seems like she has low interest, and my best guess is that my maybe her first option fell through and now she's following through with me. I've already written off this girl as long-tern material, but wouldn't mind something casual. Would like some insight from yall. Thanks! Submitted September 04, 2022 at 12:13AM I (25M) recently went on a 1st date with a girl (25F) who I'd been texting for about a week. The date went decently, and after a few more days of texting I decide to ask her out on a 2nd date. She completely stopped responding.Until ro...