Hi!! I totally get the way you feel! I had the luck to find out about my asexuality last year and it broke me at first. I was still in highschool that year, "the big final year" and the sole idea of the afterprom scared me to death. I was raised in a religious family too, so my parents didn't want me to go to the afterprom, wich was almost a relief. No one would ask me to do...stuff... anyway, i like meeting people that can relate to my sexuality, so hi! Welcome to this big (but kinda small) community! Have a piece of virtual cake on me🍰 September 23, 2020 at 11:59PM

Hi!! I totally get the way you feel! I had the luck to find out about my asexuality last year and it broke me at first. I was still in highschool that year, "the big final year" and the sole idea of the afterprom scared me to death. I was raised in a religious family too, so my parents didn't want me to go to the afterprom, wich was almost a relief. No one would ask me to do...stuff... anyway, i like meeting people that can relate to my sexuality, so hi! Welcome to this big (but kinda small) community! Have a piece of virtual cake on me🍰 September 23, 2020 at 11:59PM

Add another arm for "people with abusive parents" September 23, 2020 at 11:54PM

Welp, now i need one September 23, 2020 at 11:52PM

Thank you, I wasn't quite sure lmao September 23, 2020 at 11:46PM

It's so isolating, though. I wish more people were like me ;-; September 23, 2020 at 11:45PM

Ah yes, how people think that saying "dont take it personally" , "don't take it the wrong way" or "im not trying to attack you" pardons all their hate speech September 23, 2020 at 11:44PM

This has been an all time high with me September 23, 2020 at 11:41PM

Happy to help 🥰. September 23, 2020 at 11:39PM

Thanks!! September 23, 2020 at 11:38PM

Being in the ace umbrella is a double edged sword. Aphobia, even among the LGBTQ+ community Matters of the flesh do not matter, all that exists is choccy milk, cake, and garlic bread September 23, 2020 at 11:34PM

And they consider the 3rd valid only if the have a homosexual realtionship or homosexual sex. September 23, 2020 at 11:34PM

It's ok, some aces need to stop levitating every once in a while, that doesn't make them any less valid! September 23, 2020 at 11:33PM

Definitely. Threatening them just helps one of their arguements September 23, 2020 at 11:30PM

Slightly. While finding the person aesthetically attractive has an effect, I also tend to fall for parts of the personality more. Tends to be the main reason all my crushes are fictional, all of the guys in my town are jerks. September 23, 2020 at 11:28PM

I ordered it off of Etsy. black dragon ring September 23, 2020 at 11:25PM

Yes, thank you. September 23, 2020 at 11:22PM

I doing some weird thing where im usually hovering but sometimes I just fall onto one leg or both for like a week then hop back up and keep levitating for like 2 months. Sigh. Libido buildup is annyoing. September 23, 2020 at 11:20PM

Having a sex drive is an autonomous bodily process, you can't control it. Men can get erections out of nowhere, even without someone attractive present. Whether you like or hate sex in general is an opinion and can be different to that. They may also just be complaining about how the world is obsessed with sex at times. September 23, 2020 at 11:17PM

In the game Among Us (which is the style this is drawn in), there are crewmates and imposters. The imposters try to kill off the crew without being found out. Because Aro has a knife and Ace has a mouth, they resemble the Imposters from the game. But, since there has been a lot of people trying to exclude Aro and Ace people from the LGBT+ community, making them specifically Imposters seemed like a subtle exclusionist (people who exclude certain sexualties/identities from the LGBT+ community) jab. The artist didn't seem to intend it that way, but its easy to see why some would think it was intentional. Hope that explains everything :) September 23, 2020 at 11:16PM

We actually have wings. September 23, 2020 at 11:16PM

i love this!! where is it from? September 23, 2020 at 11:15PM

I (30F) met someone (32M) and it was great. We were texting pretty regularly, and then met up. After we met, he texted me. It all seemed to be moving along nicely. Then, the texts started to slow down. I told him I want to see him again, and he told me he was busy. His career is in fact busy, so I don’t doubt it. Later on, I laid it all out on the line, asking if he isn’t into it. He said he was, but he’s truly busy. He then proceeds to tell me all the reasons he is busy. I said text me when you aren’t busy, and he said he would. I haven’t said anything else after, and neither has he. Should I count on hearing from him when he isn’t busy? Or count this as a loss? What would you do in my shoes? Thanks Reddit! Submitted September 23, 2020 at 11:47PM I (30F) met someone (32M) and it was great. We were texting pretty regularly, and then met up. After we met, he texted me. It all seemed to be moving along nicely. Then, the texts started to slow down. I told him I want to see him aga...