Was your experience good as it said to be? Or there's any myths regarding dating in japan. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 05:14PM Was your experience good as it said to be? Or there's any myths regarding dating in japan.

I'd tell you a story about my first tattoo, but I'm afraid it would dragon too long. May 05, 2019 at 07:22AM

Omg that is so pretty I want one May 05, 2019 at 07:15AM

I've been seeing a guy for two months and I honestly only saw him as a potential FB. I made it clear to him that I was only looking for casual dating and fun early on but he didn't respond back with his intention. On our dates, he was romantic and seemed to genuinely like me although at the beginning, his texts were a little sexy but at one point he stopped the sexual texts (not sure why the change) and text "normal" things. Bottom line, since we actually started seeing each other in a dating capacity, he was respectful and not pushy or anything. Finally we slept together, had a great time. We texted some more after that day but then I felt insecure because somewhere I felt the sex was great but was not passionate enough, plus I had my period so my hormones were all over the place. So I did the stupid thing of saying while I want absolutely no commitment, I wanted some emotional involvement too and asked him how he felt about me. He gave a very brutally honest answe...

I'm not saying the guys I've dated before are not good or whatever, it just ends up that they don't want to stay or commit. I practically only leave the house to go to work so I'm a little discouraged in finding another date. What I'm trying to say is, is there somewhere I can go or an app that is more serious than Tinder that I could try? Submitted May 04, 2019 at 06:24PM I'm not saying the guys I've dated before are not good or whatever, it just ends up that they don't want to stay or commit. I practically only leave the house to go to work so I'm a little discouraged in finding another date. What I'm trying to say is, is there somewhere I can go or an app that is more serious than Tinder that I could try?

Interesting conversation last night. ​ Background - I went on a date. We were both smart and attractive but neither of us felt anything for the other...so I said it, he agreed and I left. ​ Then..... I went to another bar and started talking with a guy who was in a 3 year relationship but wanted to cheat (he was waiting to get his gf to a place where she'd agree to let him cheat). I asked him what if opening that door ruins the relationship and hypothetically he never finds anyone that loves him again. He said he'd always find someone. He said he could be single, date a new girl every month and be happy. I said it didn't sound like he loved her. He said he did. He said they have been talking about marriage, she wanted to get married and he'd probably marry her but he'd always want other women (and he pressuring her to have three-ways or give him a "hall pass", etc). ​ I asked him if he'd considered himself shallow. He was taken back, considered...

So I'm fat (losing weight though, I run twice a week), I'm not that good looking, maybe in a 5,5 to a 6,5 range, and I've never had a steady relationship. I can get dates, and get second dates (and usually if there's a second I can also get a third) but then after the third date it just ends... They just don't feel anything for me. Anyone got any tips on what I should do to improve my chances? Submitted May 04, 2019 at 06:50PM So I'm fat (losing weight though, I run twice a week), I'm not that good looking, maybe in a 5,5 to a 6,5 range, and I've never had a steady relationship. I can get dates, and get second dates (and usually if there's a second I can also get a third) but then after the third date it just ends... They just don't feel anything for me.Anyone got any tips on what I should do to improve my chances?

I have no idea how to meet people right now, I work a ton and I feel like all the dating apps I’m getting the wrong type of attention. I just feel like it’s so hard to actually meet a normal person lol Submitted May 04, 2019 at 06:51PM I have no idea how to meet people right now, I work a ton and I feel like all the dating apps I’m getting the wrong type of attention. I just feel like it’s so hard to actually meet a normal person lol

Hi I was wondering if it's normal for someone to ask you for your number right away? I guess I thought the 'protocol' is, to meet the guy in person first - to try and make sure he's not a psychopath stalker - that once he has your number, he'll be able to hack through everything and keep an eye on you forever. ​ Lols I know I sound ridicks. I clearly am a noob in both dating using an app, and just dating in general -_- Submitted May 04, 2019 at 07:05PM Hi I was wondering if it's normal for someone to ask you for your number right away?I guess I thought the 'protocol' is, to meet the guy in person first - to try and make sure he's not a psychopath stalker - that once he has your number, he'll be able to hack through everything and keep an eye on you forever.​Lols I know I sound ridicks. I clearly am a noob in both dating using an app, and just dating in general -_-

How do I know she’s genuine? So my ex of over a year texted me today after I told her to not text me unless she wants to work on us. She texted me “ I have 2 weeks of school left I hope you still want to give me a chance after I’m done with school. We texted back small talk she tells me she means it and we have a date set up for next Saturday but in the text I can tell somethings off. When we were dating she would text me all day or respond within mins but now when she texts it’s one workers and texts goes hours to a day for a reply. Should I ask her why or just let it go and try to avoid talking until our date ? Some context She broke up with me over a year ago because of ldr and me being way too needy in the end. For months I begged and pleaded Until eventually she blocked me everywhere besides phone. Recently she has been reaching out via text but every time I tried to set a date she would cancel or just ghost so I asked her where do I stand why do you keep reaching out but then...

Hi all. I'm genuinely asking this because I'm not quite sure anymore how people get into relationships and meet potential dates. Bars and clubs are a complete no-no for me. Have had a few drunk kisses on the lips but generally alcohol renders me completely incompetent with women, and even if I get a number they tend to ghost after a few days. Online dating is a complete no-no. Tried Tinder, Bumble, POF and OkC and never got a single response or match. Tried upgrading to Tinder Gold to find that the amount of people who had liked me was a literal zero. I was using them all for around 9 months and by the end of it my self esteem was critically low so deleted for the sake of my own sanity. Meeting women at work is a no-no for the simple reason that my profession is almost entirely male-dominated, so that route is blocked. I know the common answer is ''meet them at hobbies''. But my hobby is the gym, and the general consensus seems to be that creepy to approac...

And how did the relationship went from there? Did it work out? Submitted May 04, 2019 at 07:39PM And how did the relationship went from there? Did it work out?

I met a guy on Tinder, first guy I have ever met online to in person. we hit it off so awesomely that it’s been two weeks since we’ve hung out again and I’ve probably cried out three times. Thankfully he does not know about that lol. He’s a very dreamy guy. Part of me doesn’t think I deserve him and that I am too emotional. I’m a Pisces, he’s a Capricorn. I even did a Tarot spread on the potential of us two. For some reason I’m always giving up on us in its entirety every time a minor inconvenience pops up. I guess I need to remind myself I have soooo much time and if he doesn’t text me now, he’ll text me later. This may be my hardest lesson on patience. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 08:13PM I met a guy on Tinder, first guy I have ever met online to in person. we hit it off so awesomely that it’s been two weeks since we’ve hung out again and I’ve probably cried out three times. Thankfully he does not know about that lol. He’s a very dreamy guy. Part of me doesn’t think I deserve him...

Back in november i broke up with my gf and ever since i felt quiet bad. So today, after a pretty bad day mentally I decided to get myself a pizza from my local bar (5€, cheap as fuck for the quality you get). As im eating said pizza 2 girls/woman enter and just I saw the one i thought she is pretty cute. So i waited literally 40min that her friend would go to the toilette so I could talk to her. So as her friend went to the toilette I finally decided to give her my number, I went to her and said ''I thought you are pretty cute and *give her my number on a paper* if you want you can call me to get a drink if you want''. She told me that she has a boyfriend, so I said ok and that I still wish her and her friend a nice evening. Even though I kinda wasted my time waiting for that opportunity I still feel quite happy that I finally got to talk to a random girl. Which is quite funny since Im a train attendant and Im used to dont care what my company or my costumer think if I...

I’m not sure if it’s the lack of confidence but I never feel like I can carry my own weight in a conversation with women. I feel like I’m too boring for anyone to want to talk to me. I screw up in basically all aspects but this is something I feel like is a major issue. Even when I get past my nervousness I just never seem to find the right words to say. I’m 26 and it sucks to say that dating makes absolutely no sense to me. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 08:18PM I’m not sure if it’s the lack of confidence but I never feel like I can carry my own weight in a conversation with women. I feel like I’m too boring for anyone to want to talk to me. I screw up in basically all aspects but this is something I feel like is a major issue. Even when I get past my nervousness I just never seem to find the right words to say. I’m 26 and it sucks to say that dating makes absolutely no sense to me.

A girl reached out to me on Match in January. She messaged me first, asked me if I wanted to text very quickly after that. We talked almost every day, left each other audio messages in texts, even did video. … But we never met. I pushed for it, but it became impossible because of her schedule. She’s a full time student and worked almost every day of the week on top of that. She was also moving in to a new place. Everything that could have gone wrong went wrong in terms of meeting. We stopped talking in March after coming to a mutual agreement that she didn’t have time for anything, and maybe we could revisit things in the future depending on how things are. Her semester is basically over with now, but I’ve been going back and forth as to whether I should try reaching out to her again and restarting things. I felt like we had really good conversations, and she was one of the few people I really connected with while trying online dating. At the same time I’m not sure if it’d be weird ...

IDK if this really fits, but I want to vent. It also is my first post here ​ So I am in high school and in my friend group, they are starting to get girlfriends. ( I go to an all guys private school and it can be frustrating meeting people) Some of my friends are trying to get me to go out with this girl. I refuse saying that I am not interested. I say this because I am "talking" to another girl. They finally wear me down enough that I get her Snapchat. They keep bugging me to ask her out (even though I continue to refuse). The worst part about this is the girl that I like friend zoned me. Along with the fact that I am getting shut down by another girl (IDK why she just doesn't answer my questions), I am just stuck some help could be amazing. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 09:12PM IDK if this really fits, but I want to vent.It also is my first post here​So I am in high school and in my friend group, they are starting to get girlfriends. ( I go to an all guys private ...

I’ve been on a few very short dates with a wonderful girl who I really like. The first 2 or 3 I’d text her right after the date and we’d spend the next day or 2 setting up another, responding every few hours at most, and she seemed as enthusiastic as I was. Then suddenly after a date she didn’t respond for a few days. She apologized, acted kind of interested in seeing eachother again, then proceeded to go another few days with no response. I figured she just wasn’t into me anymore. Then she randomly asks to get food the day of, and I of course say yes. She seemed a little down, but otherwise the same as the first few dates. She paid the bill in full. I gave her a probably terrible kiss (a first for us) and we parted ways. She said to text her when I got home. I texted, thanked her and brought up another date idea we briefly talked about in person and no response now for another 2 days and ongoing. Is she just not that into me, or should I be patient and give her space? Normally I...

I met this wonderful gal and I thought she was smokin’. Our first date or as I refer to it as the super bowl was a classic success.  I made sure she talked the most and I made a little mistake of asking her if I could give her a kiss goodbye.  When I did go for the kiss she pulled me back in again to say “Wait come back kiss me some more!” And I know I only fucked up when she only wanted to do a coffee morning fist date and you say you can’t seduce a girl at mornings. Setting up the second date was the most frustrating thing in the world as she was clearly playing games with me. But it was my fault because even though she made contact with me shortly a day later after the 1st date I forgot the rule of setting up the date when she contacts me. So when I did ask her 3 days later I got no response. I waited about a week and added her on snapchat. I asked her out again where she gave me the bullshit sandwich “Well maybe” and I said “okay if ya figure out your schedule reach out...

I've been using Tinder for a month and had 4 dates set up so far. However, every guy so far has stood me up. First guy: I matched with a guy and we set up a date for the following week. I was extremely happy and so I kept texting him every day. However, I was always the one initiating the conversation. Come the day before we were supposed to meet, I reconfirmed if he was still down for the date. He didn't respond until the next day an hour before the date, and said that he couldn't make it bc of homework. He probably got annoyed from the daily texts, I guess? Second guy: We talked for a few days and eventually we set up a date for the following week. This time, I learned my lesson and didn't text him that much. Maybe like every other day. Come the day of the date, I reconfirmed if he was still available but he never ended up responding. Third guy: Same usual things. This time I didn't text at all until the day of the date to reconfirm if he was still available. ...

Hi guys! My friends are getting tired of me talking about this so I need somewhere else to turn. There is a guy at my school (I’m in my 20s we are in grad school) that I have a MAJOR crush on for nearly 2 year and I thought he did to. It was possible he did and one time and I wasn’t in to it and we just went back and forth but either way, I know he isn’t into it now because he talked about his recent online dating struggles to his guy friends in front of me. I was disappointed and broken hearted and first but now I’m back to being super into him. Anyway, I know he is on CMB. I’ve never been on any dating sites, never been on a date. (Come from a religious background, homeschooled, and lived at home in college.) Am I crazy to sort of want to get on CMB to hope I match with him and at the same time be paranoid the entire time I’m filling out my profile thinking of what he would think of it? Should I just move on from him or should I go big and try, if so, how? Thanks!! Submitted May...

Ok so I been dating this really amazing man for a while now... I found out that the client I have (I'm a CNA for home health) is my guys uncle. My client got real mean with me and said things like ... Ooh what now you gonna treat me different n push me to the side n not want to be seen with me cause I'm disabled ..n my nephew isnt..(been with this man 5 years n he never mentioned this nephew . I do things for him im not suppose to ..good things out of the kindness of my heart .. maybe I been to kind) any who..he is really jealous n I told him he had no right to tell me who I can date or who I hang out with.. I have threatened him with I will quit..and I'm at that point...he goes on to say things to make me not like his nephew...It goes in 1 ear n out other... he is very jealous .. he is 61 years old ..he says well you dont do things with me like you do him..I say cause you and I are NOT dating..we r good friends..he goes on to say..well I had you first ..I had to stop in m...

I went for a drink with a guy and we got on really well. He started patting my head and nudging my shoulder. I'm wondering what that means? Submitted May 04, 2019 at 09:47PM I went for a drink with a guy and we got on really well. He started patting my head and nudging my shoulder. I'm wondering what that means?

Ah interesting, didn't see their post! Thanks for sharing. And thank you, I appreciate that. Have a nice day as well :) May 05, 2019 at 07:15AM

Nah, I honestly don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything. I’ve never been interested in any of it and don’t expect to be interested in it in the future either. May 05, 2019 at 07:13AM

In high school my friends would talk about fantasies and stuff but I just never had them about anyone. One time I forced myself to fantasize about someone but it was just weird and I didn’t find it enjoyable at all. May 05, 2019 at 07:13AM

I think 2 different types of attraction can come into play when people use the word “hot” to describe someone. With sexual attraction, when someone says someone else is “hot” then I think they mean they’d like to have sex with them. Maybe only hypothetically, but the sexual attraction is there. (I’m ace, so I can’t relate to or really understand this sentiment, either. Someone please correct me if I got this wrong.) The second type of attraction is aesthetic attraction. To me, this means that someone is pleasing to the eyes and objectively attractive. I think plenty of people are “hot” in this way, but I have no desire to sleep with them (even hypothetically). But I do think they’re nice to look at and can understand why allo people would want to sleep with them. May 05, 2019 at 07:12AM

As a super non-ace person, the best metaphor that I’ve used for a half-decent explanation was thirst. If I see a “cup of water” (sexy person/image etc) I become thirsty, and then I want to have a drink (sex/masturbate etc). I also might get hungry (romantic/sensual) and want to eat, but aces just don’t get the thirsty part. I don’t know if I’ve just done a shit explanation so please let me know if I’ve said something insensitive or stupid. May 05, 2019 at 07:12AM

Don't you know that sexuality is about libido and not sexual attraction? /s Who you're attracted to and what turns you on aren't always the same thing. How does this person explain straight women who watch lesbian porn? May 05, 2019 at 07:09AM

If you don’t force yourself to have sex with people when you’d prefer not to then you’re pathetic /s May 05, 2019 at 07:07AM

Content I'd like from r/unpopularopinion : "String cheese should be bitten into" "RC is the best cola" "showers should be taken in the early evening". Content I get from r/unpopularopinion : "women are sluts, gay people are gross, asexuals are fake, and I don't like brown people" May 05, 2019 at 07:06AM

Plus it's about sexual attraction, not sexual arousal or libido. You can be 0% attracted to anyone and still get turned on. May 05, 2019 at 07:00AM

So I started using dating apps and I was wondering other people's experience and/or from the perspective of women what is the best way to start a conversation after getting matched. I've been just saying "hey, nice to meet you!", But more often than not, I don't really get a response, so I was hoping for some advice. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 10:04PM So I started using dating apps and I was wondering other people's experience and/or from the perspective of women what is the best way to start a conversation after getting matched. I've been just saying "hey, nice to meet you!", But more often than not, I don't really get a response, so I was hoping for some advice.

I suppose I should elaborate on what I mean by alone. I mean it in the context of both: Romantically In terms of the support available to me/you Before I start I'd like to add that this is a personal opinion of mine so feel free to disagree. In terms of 1. I'd say I fit into the category of feeling alone romantically. My main friend group consists of four guys and they're all either actively dating or currently in a relationship. I feel like the odd one out since in the last year I've only had one date (my first ever). I feel that at over 21 years of age I should have more to show for it (at least that's what my NT friends think). I wish I knew how to start properly dating and building positive relationships with women. I'm stuck in terms of university since my course is male dominated and there are very few clubs running which would overlap with women's interests. I don't/cant cope with clubbing so I'm pretty much stuck in that regard. I...

I don't have a successful dating life. Every time I try to connect with someone... I simply can not connect. She is "not ready" and all that kind of stuff... Etc etc etc. All I want in my life is to have a relationship with a woman... To love. Be loved. Have someone by your side. I work with this girl... We kind connect nice. Today I said to her "we should go out together" she replied positively. In the moment I was happy... But then after the hours went by... I started to feel some regret.. Dating is just tiresome. Woman are very exhausting. Should I open myself again... Try everything again.. Going out... Get to know... Etc etc etc... And then "just friends" kind of stuff. Is it worth it all the trouble try to find someone to have a relationship with. I'm afraid to fall in the trap again... Last one was some months ago. Maybe just over thinking.. But it got me thinking. Is it worth the trouble, money, mess... Thinking about her, what to text...

this would allow the transgender chasers to just chase transgenders. or alternatively the transgenders should list themselves as male not female so they can attract the gays n bisexuals. these are better options than posing as females when theyre really just gay men in a dress. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 10:40PM this would allow the transgender chasers to just chase transgenders.or alternatively the transgenders should list themselves as male not female so they can attract the gays n bisexuals.these are better options than posing as females when theyre really just gay men in a dress.

I’m 28F, got married way too young and then had a long term relationship immediately after my marriage crumbled. I feel like I’ve missed the boat on how to date in your 20’s. although I’d like to think I’m reasonably decent looking(?) I am generally an awkward closed off person until I warm up. I tried tinder/bumble and had some moderate success but where I live the single-pool is very small and it’s all the same people day-in day-out on those apps and in general the online scene just doesn’t interest me. Where do you meet people in the real world? I go out alone very often but I feel like I’m just not going to the right places or just doing something wrong to not be meeting people. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 10:52PM I’m 28F, got married way too young and then had a long term relationship immediately after my marriage crumbled. I feel like I’ve missed the boat on how to date in your 20’s. although I’d like to think I’m reasonably decent looking(?) I am generally an awkward clos...

Online doesn't work and the bars have girls who smoke...How is one supposed to find love these days? ​ Edit: So I used to go to the bars and I definitely ran into attractive women but they tended to be smokers and so I stopped talking to them. I got tired of disappointment so I focused on work and school so I stopped going out and used online dating but that too has left me disappointed. Idk what to do now. Submitted May 04, 2019 at 10:58PM Online doesn't work and the bars have girls who smoke...How is one supposed to find love these days?​Edit: So I used to go to the bars and I definitely ran into attractive women but they tended to be smokers and so I stopped talking to them. I got tired of disappointment so I focused on work and school so I stopped going out and used online dating but that too has left me disappointed. Idk what to do now.

I feel so hopeless trying to enter the dating scene but it's something I want badly. I'm a 20 year old female and I never really been in a relationship/had a boyfriend ever. I was very shy and introverted in my teens and a time where my anxiety was starting to appear so that made talking to guys challenging for me. Since graduating high school I thought I'd meet someone at my new job or college because my sisters and a cousin my age did and well...nothing. I'm still shy so the idea of going to parties/clubs/bars isn't my scene and I feel like I won't find someone there compatible with my personality or interests and want the same thing I do. I won't lie and I'm not trying to sound conceited, but I am an attractive woman. Never been approached by a guy (except school dances) but some stares here and there. I've gained a lot of confidence this year alone and realized I wasn't ugly after all lol. I joined tinder a couple months ago (didn't w...

I know it's stupid. I genuinely don't know what that means? How would you all take it? Submitted May 05, 2019 at 12:02AM I know it's stupid. I genuinely don't know what that means? How would you all take it?

My ex broke up with me after 7 months. We were good friends before that and actually dated when we met 2 years ago, but I broke it off. She was head over heels for me and it hurt her a lot I stopped liking her back then, even disliked her for a while but we reconnected last summer and I fell in love. I voiced this and she told me she had moved on and only saw me as a friend. Said she had 0 feelings for me, and was seeing someone else now But, a month later, after her and that guy fizzled out, she confessed her love for me and we started our relationship. She broke up a month ago bc she feels she fell out of love, or her love got “worn out” As well, she still flirts with me/kisses my face and accidentally said she loves me (said it was out of habit). Also has said how it’s so hard not to kiss me on the lips bc it’ll mean we’re back together. The same was I fell out with her, then fell back in love with her, is it possibly for her to do the same? Nothing is set in stone, imo Sub...

Long story short, the last guy I was with died three years ago in a freak accident. It took me a long time to get to the point where I was ready to date again. When it comes to dating now, people always ask about past relationships. People kind of freak out when I say it's been three years since my last relationship, especially when it comes with so much emotional baggage. Help, how do I go about dating casually without scaring people away? Submitted May 05, 2019 at 12:08AM Long story short, the last guy I was with died three years ago in a freak accident. It took me a long time to get to the point where I was ready to date again. When it comes to dating now, people always ask about past relationships. People kind of freak out when I say it's been three years since my last relationship, especially when it comes with so much emotional baggage. Help, how do I go about dating casually without scaring people away?

I have been talking to this girl for the last 3 weeks and I asked her if she wanna go out and she said yes but the last week we would talk and then she would randomly stop answering my texts I really don’t know what to do.Im a teen Submitted May 05, 2019 at 12:11AM I have been talking to this girl for the last 3 weeks and I asked her if she wanna go out and she said yes but the last week we would talk and then she would randomly stop answering my texts I really don’t know what to do.Im a teen

I’ve never dated, never been in a relationship, never done anything related to dating. My question is, do you guys think it’s too late for me? Submitted May 05, 2019 at 12:37AM I’ve never dated, never been in a relationship, never done anything related to dating. My question is, do you guys think it’s too late for me?

Alright, I experienced a shyness to typical communication for a long time, growing up, a conversation with anyone unfamiliar was terrifying. The past three years, I learned to not get anxious and honestly, I’ll talk to anyone. Two weekends ago, I was in a wedding and I was having a fucking blast. Drinking some beers, smoked little pot before, it was an excellent blend. Eventually, worked my way up to asking the DJ’s granddaughter for her number and so forth. I texted her a few times, we chatted, she seems cool and all. However, I never got an extended conversation and she never started a chat. We chatted today, she tells me to hit you her up anytime, I offer to chill, she says anytime! Then it’s like before... no reply back!!! My question, should I give up or keep going for it? I’m confused on the signals or maybe I’m just over-thinking. Most likely, over-thinking, but I need advice Submitted May 05, 2019 at 12:37AM Alright, I experienced a shyness to typical communication for...

So, I’ve been dating someone who I’ve known for about a year, we’ve only been seriously dating for a few weeks now. She’s amazing, we compliment each other in many ways and I’m on the fringe of loving her which which I don’t say or take lightly. She’s always been someone who handles all issues herself, she doesn’t have a very open or supportive family sadly but she’s a deeply caring person. A few years ago she was raped at gunpoint which is something she never told anyone for a year and a half (because she really had no one there for her) and she’s been going to therapy which thankfully has helped her a great deal (therapy is great, if you feel like you need it, please go). Like I said, I care greatly for this girl but I want to be able to be there for her, she’s opened up and told me things she hasn’t told anyone else and I know she cares about me a great deal. The last few times we’ve gone to sleep together, (we normally cuddle as we fall asleep) she’ll wake up and tense her bod...

So I asked a girl to hang out with me at the mall. We spent a few hours walking, and then we sat down and talked a bit. But then what should I talk about with her? Not every single conversation can be an in-depth life story or some shit. I’m just so awkward there’s these moments of silence where we are both just sitting there with nothing to say. Also what should I do when I hang out with her, it would be kind of weird if I asked her out on specific activities every single time. What do people do when you hang out at the mall, if you’re not looking to buy stuff or eat? I really need help Submitted May 05, 2019 at 12:41AM So I asked a girl to hang out with me at the mall. We spent a few hours walking, and then we sat down and talked a bit. But then what should I talk about with her? Not every single conversation can be an in-depth life story or some shit. I’m just so awkward there’s these moments of silence where we are both just sitting there with nothing to say.Also what shoul...

I’m about to finish up my first year of uni, and while i sort of had a gf for like 1-2 months, nothing really came about it, and that was that. I’m approaching 19 now, and not having any relationship experience is starting to get embarrassing and making me question myself, and I might not be doing something right. I’ve had girls interested in me in the past, but usually they’re not my type or I just wasn’t intrested in them. The hardest part is just initiating conversation or just the ice breaker, because I don’t usually like for them to think that I’m trying to get at them. I think I’m realizing that I just need to be more direct with things and just straightforward. I just don’t hit on that many girls because there either has to be a sign that they might like me, or something like that. And what is evening “hitting” on a girl, I just usually just have a conversation like I normally would, but I just posture up and am try to be more “smooth” and jokey. I’m going to be taking a math...

I keep falling for women who don’t want me. It hurts more every time and idk what to do with myself. Anyone have any advice on suppressing emotions? Submitted May 05, 2019 at 01:37AM I keep falling for women who don’t want me. It hurts more every time and idk what to do with myself. Anyone have any advice on suppressing emotions?

I’m 23F I met a 29M. We still have yet to go on an official date yet unfortunately but should be getting together finally next week. We talk a lot. Texts, phone calls, snapchats, FaceTime. I think we talk an adequate amount, to some we probably talk too much. If I know he’s out with his friends or at work, I don’t blow up his phone. I don’t need to. The past couple of phone calls he told me he’s okay with me calling him whenever I feel like it even if he’s out with friends or right when he’s done work. He said he’s fine with me double or even triple texting him. I explained to him that I’m not the kind of girl who needs constant reassurance or attention. Nor do I need to know what he’s doing constantly, I’m fine that he’s out with friends at a bar or whatever he’s doing. The only time I’d do this is if he gave me a reason to be up his ass checking in constantly. This isn’t the first time we’ve had this conversation.. is this his way of telling me to put in more effort when it co...

I'm a pretty shy guy and sometimes I just want to go up to a girl and get her number. But I never know what to say. What do I say and if I can get a girls perspective also that would be great Submitted May 05, 2019 at 02:09AM I'm a pretty shy guy and sometimes I just want to go up to a girl and get her number. But I never know what to say. What do I say and if I can get a girls perspective also that would be great

I'm male, I've been texting two women off tinder and between the two I get maybe three replies to a conversation per day. The conversations flow naturally though it takes hours to get a simple text back. Submitted May 05, 2019 at 02:10AM I'm male, I've been texting two women off tinder and between the two I get maybe three replies to a conversation per day. The conversations flow naturally though it takes hours to get a simple text back.

Let's say you meet a sweet and talkative guy at a hotel stay. He's a song writer, actor, and singer. He makes about 300K a month and he recently signed a new deal that gave him 1 million dollars. He also has a 750 credit score. But he's only 5'5 and he can be quite needly at times. I feel like most girls would turn a guy like this down because he's too short and he dropped out of school. Submitted May 05, 2019 at 02:15AM Let's say you meet a sweet and talkative guy at a hotel stay. He's a song writer, actor, and singer. He makes about 300K a month and he recently signed a new deal that gave him 1 million dollars. He also has a 750 credit score. But he's only 5'5 and he can be quite needly at times.I feel like most girls would turn a guy like this down because he's too short and he dropped out of school.

Whats up yall. My friends have told me that I should write this story down and lately I have come to honestly believe the title of this post. So this here is for Dan, Maria, Gina and Olivia. Full disclaimer, I am not a great writer. So fully expect grammatical errors. I'm literally doing this because I got tired of telling people the same story and now I can just give them a link to follow so they can read it on their own... If I don't know you and you somehow stumble upon this, I'll give you some background info I guess. I'm just a guy who is constantly in his feelings and is still in the process of figuring out how to deal with those feelings in a way to is healthy. Honestly, I really think that's all people really need to know. So here we go. (names are changed, but other than that I'm pretty much explaining everything) Ya'll, NYC is trash. And I used to think that it was trash because of my long commute into the city, or because the train always sme...