How do you meet people?

I’m 28F, got married way too young and then had a long term relationship immediately after my marriage crumbled. I feel like I’ve missed the boat on how to date in your 20’s. although I’d like to think I’m reasonably decent looking(?) I am generally an awkward closed off person until I warm up.

I tried tinder/bumble and had some moderate success but where I live the single-pool is very small and it’s all the same people day-in day-out on those apps and in general the online scene just doesn’t interest me.

Where do you meet people in the real world? I go out alone very often but I feel like I’m just not going to the right places or just doing something wrong to not be meeting people.

Submitted May 04, 2019 at 10:52PM

I’m 28F, got married way too young and then had a long term relationship immediately after my marriage crumbled. I feel like I’ve missed the boat on how to date in your 20’s. although I’d like to think I’m reasonably decent looking(?) I am generally an awkward closed off person until I warm up.I tried tinder/bumble and had some moderate success but where I live the single-pool is very small and it’s all the same people day-in day-out on those apps and in general the online scene just doesn’t interest me.Where do you meet people in the real world? I go out alone very often but I feel like I’m just not going to the right places or just doing something wrong to not be meeting people.