Should I try again with her?

A girl reached out to me on Match in January. She messaged me first, asked me if I wanted to text very quickly after that. We talked almost every day, left each other audio messages in texts, even did video.

… But we never met. I pushed for it, but it became impossible because of her schedule. She’s a full time student and worked almost every day of the week on top of that. She was also moving in to a new place. Everything that could have gone wrong went wrong in terms of meeting.

We stopped talking in March after coming to a mutual agreement that she didn’t have time for anything, and maybe we could revisit things in the future depending on how things are. Her semester is basically over with now, but I’ve been going back and forth as to whether I should try reaching out to her again and restarting things. I felt like we had really good conversations, and she was one of the few people I really connected with while trying online dating. At the same time I’m not sure if it’d be weird to just text her out of the blue since I technically don’t know her and we never even met, trying to restart this out of nowhere, and I’m not even sure what I would say.

Anyway just curious what some people might think about my situation and if anyone has any advice or opinions. Thank you!

Submitted May 04, 2019 at 08:47PM

A girl reached out to me on Match in January. She messaged me first, asked me if I wanted to text very quickly after that. We talked almost every day, left each other audio messages in texts, even did video.… But we never met. I pushed for it, but it became impossible because of her schedule. She’s a full time student and worked almost every day of the week on top of that. She was also moving in to a new place. Everything that could have gone wrong went wrong in terms of meeting.We stopped talking in March after coming to a mutual agreement that she didn’t have time for anything, and maybe we could revisit things in the future depending on how things are. Her semester is basically over with now, but I’ve been going back and forth as to whether I should try reaching out to her again and restarting things. I felt like we had really good conversations, and she was one of the few people I really connected with while trying online dating. At the same time I’m not sure if it’d be weird to just text her out of the blue since I technically don’t know her and we never even met, trying to restart this out of nowhere, and I’m not even sure what I would say.Anyway just curious what some people might think about my situation and if anyone has any advice or opinions. Thank you!