Who is he to say...

Ok so I been dating this really amazing man for a while now... I found out that the client I have (I'm a CNA for home health) is my guys uncle. My client got real mean with me and said things like ... Ooh what now you gonna treat me different n push me to the side n not want to be seen with me cause I'm disabled ..n my nephew isnt..(been with this man 5 years n he never mentioned this nephew . I do things for him im not suppose to ..good things out of the kindness of my heart .. maybe I been to kind) any who..he is really jealous n I told him he had no right to tell me who I can date or who I hang out with.. I have threatened him with I will quit..and I'm at that point...he goes on to say things to make me not like his nephew...It goes in 1 ear n out other... he is very jealous .. he is 61 years old ..he says well you dont do things with me like you do him..I say cause you and I are NOT dating..we r good friends..he goes on to say..well I had you first ..I had to stop in my tracks n say had me first... what the F you mean by that... he didn't reply... I said we r not boyfriend /girlfriend n we never be that... not cause you are disabled...because I'm not into like that .. I care about you in a way different way... he starts crying... n saying things like its cause I'm in a chair n cant walk n I'm ugly..what does he have that I dont..im not good enough ect..he has not come out n said it..but I think he is in love with me... or maybe them words are his way of saying it..I have told his nephew and he says well I'm a grown man n you are a grown woman what we do is our bizz...n you do what you feel you need to.. he also goes on to say... I want you.. but ther are other CNAs .. so do what you feel is best.. I been racking my brain.. if yall were in my shoes what would you do.. I pretty much know what I'm gonna do . Just curious to what yall think...



Submitted May 04, 2019 at 09:43PM

Ok so I been dating this really amazing man for a while now... I found out that the client I have (I'm a CNA for home health) is my guys uncle. My client got real mean with me and said things like ... Ooh what now you gonna treat me different n push me to the side n not want to be seen with me cause I'm disabled ..n my nephew isnt..(been with this man 5 years n he never mentioned this nephew . I do things for him im not suppose to ..good things out of the kindness of my heart .. maybe I been to kind) any who..he is really jealous n I told him he had no right to tell me who I can date or who I hang out with.. I have threatened him with I will quit..and I'm at that point...he goes on to say things to make me not like his nephew...It goes in 1 ear n out other... he is very jealous .. he is 61 years old ..he says well you dont do things with me like you do him..I say cause you and I are NOT dating..we r good friends..he goes on to say..well I had you first ..I had to stop in my tracks n say had me first... what the F you mean by that... he didn't reply... I said we r not boyfriend /girlfriend n we never be that... not cause you are disabled...because I'm not into like that .. I care about you in a way different way... he starts crying... n saying things like its cause I'm in a chair n cant walk n I'm ugly..what does he have that I dont..im not good enough ect..he has not come out n said it..but I think he is in love with me... or maybe them words are his way of saying it..I have told his nephew and he says well I'm a grown man n you are a grown woman what we do is our bizz...n you do what you feel you need to.. he also goes on to say... I want you.. but ther are other CNAs .. so do what you feel is best.. I been racking my brain.. if yall were in my shoes what would you do.. I pretty much know what I'm gonna do . Just curious to what yall think...
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