Thanks for coming to my Ted talk March 01, 2022 at 12:27AM

In this case, I do think it was a misinterpretation — because I would do something that I intended as romantic, and they would misinterpret it as friendly, because they were seeing things through an allo lens. They did act interested, interested enough to go on 5 dates. However, it is true that in the end we were not compatible. It’s just frustrating, which was the point of my vent. I feel like saying I need to look somewhere else for love is supremely unhelpful. March 01, 2022 at 12:23AM

I'm aego, but I can't get into anything visual at all, because nudity, and also a lot of sexual things seem kind of funny/ridiculous to me as visuals and it pulls me out of it. March 01, 2022 at 12:18AM

I'm fine with people being naked in movies, but it looks funny to me, which I think is not the intent. March 01, 2022 at 12:16AM

I mean, you’re sexually attracted to people so it would just depend on who you’re attracted to. As for the sex not being important, I don’t think there’s a word for that, at least that I know of. It’s most likely just a preference thing. March 01, 2022 at 12:16AM

My immediate reaction for clothes on a first date is usually something like jeans. But it’s kind of uncomfortable when the date is something like watching a movie, so my question is is it’s a bad idea to wear casual sweatpants or something like that on a first date? For context, I have nice sweatpants and I usually wear them from day to day anyway, so jeans are kind of “dressing up” for me Submitted March 01, 2022 at 12:11AM My immediate reaction for clothes on a first date is usually something like jeans. But it’s kind of uncomfortable when the date is something like watching a movie, so my question is is it’s a bad idea to wear casual sweatpants or something like that on a first date? For context, I have nice sweatpants and I usually wear them from day to day anyway, so jeans are kind of “dressing up” for me

You know you're ace if you do not experience sexual attraction. This isn't something that (in a non-ace person) is only felt towards a partner. Allosexual people will feel attraction towards strangers as well, so if you don't then that could be a sign. As for having previously felt attraction, take a look at the ace microlabel erassexual. https://lgbta.miraheze.org/wiki/Erassexual February 28, 2022 at 11:07PM