Hi guys, I guess this is not an usual topic here, but I have this sort of a problem. I can't really ask a girl out unless I get to know her a little bit better. Sometimes I would even wait to get to know a girl so well that I even develop strong feelings for her and then I usually get really hurt. It's not that I fear rejection that much. I've been rejected couple of times and I was okay with it since I made a move early on when there were no strong feelings involved. So, I don't think that's a problem. If you wonder why I think this is a problem, here is why I think it is. With this approach I don't take a shot that often. Maybe twice a year. This resulted in me being 23 years old with no relationship experience. I either wait for to long and end up in friendzone with ambivalent girls who are flirty but keep saying saying they see me as a friend only. Or I don't try at all cause physical appearance is rarely enough for me to make a move. For example, I...

GF has a ex fwb in her friend group that’s in her hometown. They have messed around a few times the past few years prior to us dating and the most recent time was a week before we started going out . We’ve been dating for a year and a half so far and she was extremely open about this situation and they don’t hang out one on one and they aren’t close and are barely friends . I went through her messages once and I saw their chat log and they don’t really text more than a 5-7 times a year and it’s been mainly stuff related to their friend group. She initiates the text convo a few times but it was short and really nothing suspicious. Last month, i saw that he dmed her on instagram and shared a post with her and while she was scrolling through her phone i saw that she texted him a few days ago. Is it fair for me to set a boundary for her to not text him or interact with him outside the group given that the contact with him seems limited ? Submitted January 11, 2023 at 01:15AM GF has ...

Same deal over here. Found out after we got married that I'm ace, and my wife was a sexaholic. Not a great combo. January 11, 2023 at 12:43AM

You can want to go for a car ride without wanting to f* the car. January 11, 2023 at 12:42AM

I, male, cannot do that. Only once in my life I was able to kiss a new girl for the first time while being totally sober. Usually I need at the very least a couple of beers. And it's a problem, because no girl I dated has EVER kissed me first. It even happened that 2 girls i was dating, during my life, asked me via text to kiss them during the next date. Other than this, nothing ever happens if I don't do something. It seems the "right moment" is never there. Should I ask them, at the end of a date, if I can kiss them? I really don't know... Usually we're both a bit tipsy, she would get close and I would go for it. But when sober? It always feels awkward to me maybe... but if I don't kiss them they lose interest in 1 to 2 dates and it drives me crazy. I need more dates for this, but I feel like (I am pretty sure actually) I would still struggle with it. Submitted January 11, 2023 at 12:11AM I, male, cannot do that. Only once in my life I was ab...

So I am dating an older guy. He is 43 I am 35. I am not super experienced in sex but I love having sex with him. He is more dominant and I am more submissive. Do guys prefer women who know a lot and want to get on top? I do t know what the fuck I'm doing on top lol I've always been on bottom and I'm scared that he will think im insecure or he will see I dont know what the fuck I'm doing on top. Lol I'm willing to try but what are men's thoughts on this? Do they care about women getting on top or do most just want to pleasure a woman with whatever position is most comfortable for her ? Submitted January 11, 2023 at 12:11AM So I am dating an older guy. He is 43 I am 35. I am not super experienced in sex but I love having sex with him. He is more dominant and I am more submissive. Do guys prefer women who know a lot and want to get on top? I do t know what the fuck I'm doing on top lol I've always been on bottom and I'm scared that he will think ...