I guess I can understand that, but for me it's the worst feeling in the world. Because it's not me they desire, it's my body. June 08, 2021 at 12:02AM

“So you’ve never kissed anyone? Ever?” Me I’m high school, college, and at any work event: shifty eyes June 08, 2021 at 12:02AM

op is asexual, they just have a libido. asexuals can have libidos. it is actually common for aces that are sex adverse/repulsed to be frustrated by their libido June 08, 2021 at 12:00AM

This is so clever. Love it. June 08, 2021 at 12:00AM

Yeah actually it is also really too much unrealistic and in general too fake and misogenistics, i feel bad for them some of those things must really hurt yaiks June 08, 2021 at 12:00AM

Yeah, or just the middle line to something like "they're horny" June 07, 2021 at 11:57PM

Maybe you're aromantic and aego ..? June 07, 2021 at 11:50PM

If this ends up being a reference to Amphibia which I haven’t made it through the second season yet, I won’t be cross but I’ll definitely look back at this comment and think to myself, “Huh…not as shocked as I would have been if I didn’t read that comment 😒” June 07, 2021 at 11:49PM

My weird reputation of being an "dense anime protagonist" because I could never tell if a girl was flirting with me until a day after. The worst one being when I was on a somewhat depressing rant about my brother being just a better version of me (I'm over it now but thank you for the concern ), being better at sport, school as well as being more attractive to which a girl replied "wow he must be really attractive then." to which I just replied yeah and walked off. My friends ripped on me for that one for years. June 07, 2021 at 11:49PM

Would be more coherent if you changed sex to "Netflix and chill" and made the punchline that they really do mean Netflix. June 07, 2021 at 11:48PM

Yeah so im really not perfectly informed about asexuality in general. But i thaught this could be a good place to ask. Thanks alot for your help I think I can get over it and just ask because thats the only thing that will answer my questions 100%. Thank youuu :) June 07, 2021 at 11:46PM

Why are you so adamant on being ace? I ask because I don’t understand the thought process behind it. It’s might be like asking why someone is gay though and I don’t wanna be rude June 07, 2021 at 11:45PM

Thanks for the responses everyone! I’ll do my best to keep distracted and hopefully things’ll start looking up sooner rather than later! June 07, 2021 at 11:44PM

I had the exact same experience in college though I had a female doctor and she was much kinder about it. Mostly, I think because she knew I was uncomfortable with the whole thing and because she didn’t want my “first time” to be with surgical steel or something. Honestly I was too grateful to avoid the exam to think any further of it. June 07, 2021 at 11:43PM

So she didnt specifically say that shes a sexual thats just how it seemed to me(I just thaught that it would go into a direction like this). But im not suuuper informed in this area. yeah your right. Thats gonna be hard but i think I trust/like her enough to do that. Thank you :) June 07, 2021 at 11:42PM

My current girlfriend I had known for 4 years before we started dating and honestly, she's very pretty but if it wasn't for those 4 years of building a foundation of our relationship through actual emotional bonds, we probably wouldn't have ended up together. For the first question, she's very kind and supportive of me being ace and very curious on how my perspective on things are. For the second question, it comes up when it comes up I suppose? I never felt the need to put it out there in the middle of the conversation but too be fair she was with me during my self-discovery so it wasn't exactly like I was hiding it either. June 07, 2021 at 11:41PM

Just wait until Deadendia comes to Netflix! June 07, 2021 at 11:40PM

asexuality means not feeling sexual attraction, some asexuals are actually fine with sex, some even desire it, but they just dont feel sexual attraction. your girlfriend may or may not be asexual, but you cant just base that assessment on if she wants to have sex or not. but anyway, you do have to just straight up ask what she is comfortable with. you can also let her know that when you are cuddling or kissing, she can let you know when it is not comfortable for her, it is always nice to be reminded of these things especially as a young couple. you can say something like “hey i know you said you dont want to have sex, and that is fine with me, but to make sure you are always comfortable what boundaries do you have?” but if you feel like it is too awkward to do, you should probably consider your maturity level and if you are ready for a serious relationship like this. June 07, 2021 at 11:38PM

Totally get that! I have my clear cut answer in theory because I don't experience sexual attraction and I also happen to have no interest in sex. But every time I see a pretty girl my brain just goes "gay gay gay gay gay" lmao. Like.... Do you have to be so pretty I have things I would rather do than stare at your face for the rest of my life.... Really the only thing I want in a relationship is a close friend but we regularly say "I love you" and occasionally cuddle. But I am incredibly hot all the time (warm, not sexy) so right now touching another person seems completely awful to me lmao I... Am not sure if this comment has any relevance to you, I kind of just started typing and this is what I came up with? But yeah. Romantic attraction is incredibly confusing to me too. June 07, 2021 at 11:37PM

Wanna talk about a character that got stabbed? June 07, 2021 at 11:37PM

No problem, kiddo. Good luck June 07, 2021 at 11:37PM

I think birth control can have different effects on different people, so using it to help periods might not always work, so that makes sense. But his reaction was still one hundred percent wrong. But still…I was on birth control before becoming sexually active because I wanted to be protected when it happened (not after). Besides. She could have wanted to be protected in case of r* e or whatever, as well. So I still think it was *extremely unprofessional to ask why she wanted birth control if she wasn’t sexually active. June 07, 2021 at 11:37PM

It’s like being invincible but also having a bunch of people constantly trying to assassinate you. You just get to watch them aim their weapons (or, ahem, “weapons”) at you only to have no effect, demonstrating your status as a true god among mortals June 07, 2021 at 11:37PM