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Should I 25M detach from her 26F? How to do it?

I have been dating this girl for 4 months now and we both are not dating other people, also we talked about not hooking up with anyone else...However I still feel a lot insecure when she is going out. She is gorgeous and likes to drink...this make me think of her vulnerable during parties....I am feeling jealous right now because she will attend a birthday party tomorow dawn, she didn't invite me...actually we both don't know each other friends (I don't have many and they don't hang out anymore, so I am lonely now). I looking for something to do tomorrow, even alone...have a few drinks and check other women just to remember there are more out there... What is funny she finds me a nice, good dude, not jealous. I really am, she just don't know it. We had some talks about us, and for now she doesn't want to label us because it takes a long time for her to feel for someone. I realized this because I am the one being kinda romantic while she is colder...it is weird

The problem with ghosting

I have a problem. Every time I get a match and say hello to them, they never respond. Like why swipe right if you’re not even gonna talk to me? I get that people probably have like hundreds of other matches that are mostly desperate men and women looking to hook up but you need to consider the nice people. And before you call me out for being a niceguy, I have a female friend with the exact same problem with shallow guys just swiping for looks. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 02:01AM I have a problem. Every time I get a match and say hello to them, they never respond. Like why swipe right if you’re not even gonna talk to me? I get that people probably have like hundreds of other matches that are mostly desperate men and women looking to hook up but you need to consider the nice people. And before you call me out for being a niceguy, I have a female friend with the exact same problem with shallow guys just swiping for looks.

She(F21) is really into me(M24), I'm not, and I'm just a horny, lonely virgin. Help?

I've been trying to ignore this girl I'm not interested in for a few weeks. I'm not really looking into anything at the moment, she is not my type either. I just moved out to this new small town, and my circle of friends is pretty much non existent. It's cold, I'm lonely and horny. She is touchy, flirty, friendly and a female. So far, I haven't shown any feedback to her advances. I'm honestly not interested in having a relationship with her whatsoever. But damn it, my johnny is itchy and my balls can just take so much nudging. I don't want to just use her to satisfy my sexual needs. I've tried my hardest in my past relationships to not include sex. But since I just moved out by myself, I'm really, really lonely and shes is just there giving me all the green light looking like a fresh baked cookies. I'm so sexually frustrated.. masturbating doesn't really help anymore. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 02:43AM I've been trying to

Is it okay to reach out to a guy (24M) who has no interest in me (24F) and ask for a one-night stand?

I'm conflicted about the situation I'm in. I met a guy on OKC and after flirty messages decided to go to the movies on our first date. However, the date was a deal-breaker for both of us since we didn't speak all that much. It was obvious that he had no interest in me after our date. The one thing that stood out to me was during the showing of the movie. It was dark and he started to caress me and I to him, it was only time throughout the entire date where we were physical with one another. So I knew the chance was there, but I was conflicted in giving in or not. We never kissed as well. I asked him out again, but at that point, he was just stringing me along. I cannot stop thinking if maybe I should have been the one to ask him if he wanted a one-night stand with me. Is it too late for me to ask him? Do I even have a chance to this one-night stand if the guy has 0 interest in me? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 02:44AM I'm conflicted about the situation I'm i

App Dating, When Do You Exchange Numbers?

So I have recently started dating via the apps (Hinge) and as a general rule I'm not giving out my phone number until meeting in person. Thus far I've been on two separate dates both of which I thought went okay, but not amazing. The first one he didn't ask for my phone number but like I said it went okay so after a couple days I messaged him and sent him my number like here you go if you're interested...he was not. Now the second guy, again went okay but he didn't ask for my number. It has been almost week should I bother sending him my number or just assume that if we don't exchange after meeting in person that he's not interested? What has been the experience of other app daters? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 02:48AM So I have recently started dating via the apps (Hinge) and as a general rule I'm not giving out my phone number until meeting in person. Thus far I've been on two separate dates both of which I thought went okay, but not amazing.

How does he get women?

Not sounding jealous, but I have a question. I have an older brother that brags about getting women a lot and somehow still able to get dates with women. Tell you the truth he’s obese and out of shape and barely has his shit together. How does someone like him still manages to get women? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 02:49AM Not sounding jealous, but I have a question. I have an older brother that brags about getting women a lot and somehow still able to get dates with women. Tell you the truth he’s obese and out of shape and barely has his shit together. How does someone like him still manages to get women?

Don't Know if I should give up

Well, after 3 long term relationships, many dates that went to nowhere. Being ghosted, manipulated, and led on, I don't know if I have it in me to keep trying. For context I'm a 5'5 Asian male. It's hard not to feel this way when everyone around you is pairing off and old exes getting engaged and living their lives. It's been a long road. I'm young still in my twenties, but I'm not the partying type to go to bars and clubs. I honestly didn't even really plan to be single either, but maybe that's just how God wants my life to turn out. I don't drink, am relatively stable both economically and in a good place mentally. I am writing this post after having been stood up at the coffee shop, again. At some point I don't know why I keep trying but I keep telling myself one day it'll happen for me. Am I bitter? Possibly. I've been cheated on, and you'd be bitter too if you have been cheated on before. Do I take a break? I've done

Advice on Approaching this Girl

So I see this girl sometimes. Saw her today after quite a while and she looked a bit different so I didnt recognize her at first. I saw her on the first day at orientation and was very attracted to her. Now, I notice quick glances from her towards me. I've tried making eye contact but have never done so maybe I'm just tripping. I'm hoping I can have just one class with her next semester so I can sit next to her. Any ideas? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 03:19AM So I see this girl sometimes. Saw her today after quite a while and she looked a bit different so I didnt recognize her at first. I saw her on the first day at orientation and was very attracted to her. Now, I notice quick glances from her towards me. I've tried making eye contact but have never done so maybe I'm just tripping. I'm hoping I can have just one class with her next semester so I can sit next to her. Any ideas?

Why do people always say confidence is the most important thing even though it’s not always true?

People always say “be confident” or “love yourself” because no one wants to be with someone who is always complaining about themselves and being negative, and that makes total sense. But there are plenty of people who have zero confidence and are super insecure, but never project it at all, and so others have no idea. So it’s not like their lack of confidence is what’s preventing them from finding someone, because no one can even tell. There are also people with plenty of confidence and self love, maybe they’re even social with lots of friends, but still no one wants them. Is there any reason other than rules one and two? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 03:23AM People always say “be confident” or “love yourself” because no one wants to be with someone who is always complaining about themselves and being negative, and that makes total sense.But there are plenty of people who have zero confidence and are super insecure, but never project it at all, and so others have no idea. So it’

How bad really is drunk dialing/texting?

I drunk dialed this guy I’ve been talking to since Thanksgiving 🥺 (it’s moving really slow, but we’ve been physical, talk daily and I really like him). He didn’t answer which is good but I can’t remember if I might have snap-chatted him anything else particularly embarrassing also. He’s been snap-chatting me since though, but only once a day. How bad does this really seem? If a guy was that turned off by an accidental drunk-dial, would he really still make the effort to snap even if it was minimal? SOS. Do I apologize? Should I even bring it up? Please advise 😭 Submitted April 30, 2019 at 03:36AM I drunk dialed this guy I’ve been talking to since Thanksgiving 🥺 (it’s moving really slow, but we’ve been physical, talk daily and I really like him). He didn’t answer which is good but I can’t remember if I might have snap-chatted him anything else particularly embarrassing also. He’s been snap-chatting me since though, but only once a day. How bad does this really seem? If a guy w

How can I make dating more fun?

I've been dating again for around 8 months and I'm not really connecting with many people. I talk to several women each week but I just can't seem to get into them. I'd like to find a girl with a decent job, similar interests, mutual attraction and that lives relatively close to me.. I've found only found a few women matching that description, and it didn't work out for various reasons; one was off , one lived an hour away, another's profile pic looked nothing like her (3/4yo photo?), another was married and supposedly getting a divorce... a few cute older women but I'm not sure I'm ready for the 38+ crowd (I'm 31). What can I do to make dating more fun? I don't really want to take a break, I just want things to be more enjoyable. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 03:41AM I've been dating again for around 8 months and I'm not really connecting with many people. I talk to several women each week but I just can't seem to get into t

Experienced lots of ghosting, now having a meltdown every time I wait for a text...am I being ghosted?

This isn’t normal and it scares me. It’s miserable. I [23F] matched with and started talking to this guy [23M] 10 days ago. When I say we talked absolutely nonstop for the entire week until we met, I’m not exaggerating. it was almost exhausting. I liked talking to him obviously but it was a lot. It was fun though. he never took more than like 15 minutes to reply essentially EVER, throughout work and school and all that. Texting all day long. Average of four minutes to reply basically. Most days we talked on the phone for actual hours. Always texted good morning and goodnight, literally. In a cutesy, tongue in cheek way, but we did. We met this past weekend and it was amazing. We just clicked...I hadn’t met anyone for a long time because being so disappointed was so emotionally draining. So this was very welcome and surprising. I figured that since he was so responsive and straightforward I might not get burned for once. You know, he’s not flaky, replies, is ‘secure’ instead of avoid

I made a pre-date social media boo-boo and I think I fucked up my chances.

On Friday I met a guy at the gym, a very social gym, and we hit it off right away. He was friendly, hella funny, flirty and would definitely make excuses to be touchy. He was attached to my hip for the rest of the night and we had a great time. At the end of the night he asks if I am single (I am), and if he could have my number (yes he could). We have a pretty good conversation after that, some small talk, some good discussion, until he has to leave. He asks me what I was up to this weekend (pretty busy, but free Saturday night) and he said we should go for coffee and he would text me (sounds good). He leaves, I say “see you tomorrow” and I’m a bundle of excitement. This never happens. Saturday rolls around, and he texts me in the morning. We exchange a few texts, I allude to hanging out that night and things are fine. Now as soon as I added his number in my phone, Snapchat suggested I add him as a friend. I didn’t, but his username had his last name in it (something he hadn’t told

Can I tell a girl I’m not attracted to her without hurting her feelings?

or is there an easier way of getting the message across? she’s really cool and we share some interest but there’s no attraction. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 04:20AM or is there an easier way of getting the message across? she’s really cool and we share some interest but there’s no attraction.

Confusion about the whole dating process (21M)

Hi guys, sorry for the stupid questions but I'm completely clueless/confused about the whole dating process/procedure/thingy and I've just got some questions I hoping someone can answer for me 😊 I'm looking to find someone to long term date/life time partner (gender's unimportant) How do I meet people? Besides online dating I have no idea, i work full time, live by myself and not terribly close to any bars or social spots that I'm aware (you guys might no some good places though) so by the time I get home, cook dinner, feed the animals etc, it's almost 8pm so I'm hard pressed to find somewhere to meet someone on weekdays. What's an acceptable place to ask someone out to? What's an acceptable time for a date to go for? And how do I close one off when it does go for too long or gets stale/awkward? What do I talk about besides the generic small talk ie what do you do, how was your day etc If they do agree to a second date is there anything I have

This sucks... Awesome title I know

Im super introverted and im really private about any sexual feelings to the point that people think im gay which sucks cause im not. Anyways, I'm usually not that interested in women that I see (basically avoid them) unless they show interest. About 2 yrs ago in college I accidentally (or maybe I subconsciously meant to do this) told a girl that getting food with her was good and she said "this was good?". At the time I thought she was gunna punch me in the face tbh. Anyways, then she invited me over another day and said her boyfriend cheated on her. I tried to keep calm but basically was freaking out on the inside. I was happy someone I like is interested in me but I was way to anxious to behave properly and I left after six hours. I could tell she was dissapointed and so was I. I figured I would collect my thoughts later and basically proceeded to make it obvious that I liked her (which scared the shit out of me) but she was pretty done with it at that point. Later I c

Should I get back with my Ex-Girlfriend?

Hi everyone! So I broke up with my ex girlfriend a year ago and mainly because I moved out to another country (I’m an international student) I usually visit my country twice a year during summer and winter breaks.. the long distance wasn’t a good thing for our relationship and things didn’t go well for us. When I first met her we were both 17, a little young and immature. But now, as we are about to graduate from college (I know it’s besides the point lol) I think we’ve grown up a lot and are taking life more seriously than before (Also, we were together for 3 years). I feel like I never lost the feelings I had/have towards her even after the break up.. I’ve also talked and dated some girls for short periods of time after the break up but It just didn’t work out for various reasons (different cultures, mentality.. etc). I’ve also been getting rejected from all my crushes lately (Damn it!) which made me feel miserable and lonely af..I’ve been feeling down but I’m trying my best to lift

Broke up with girlfriend, what should i do now?

I recently broke up with my girlfriend and now i wonder "what should i do next?", should i try to find someone new or wait until someone finds me? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:21AM I recently broke up with my girlfriend and now i wonder "what should i do next?", should i try to find someone new or wait until someone finds me?

need help on approaching this girl at the gym

about me, i'm a M, 26. and i see this pretty girl at the gym almost every other day. but the problem is that we've seen each other for a month now but we are not even is "hi" terms - so to say. Also, i have spotted her talking to a guy (at the gym), who is tall, has a great built and seems to get along with her very well (he helps her with her workouts). Now i'm not even that tall, and neither am I muscularly built like him (i'm kinda skinny) so that has made me very conscious of my self and my chances of getting to know her. Do i stand I chance ? and if i should make a move, how do I do it ? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:24AM about me, i'm a M, 26. and i see this pretty girl at the gym almost every other day. but the problem is that we've seen each other for a month now but we are not even is "hi" terms - so to say.Also, i have spotted her talking to a guy (at the gym), who is tall, has a great built and seems to get along with her

List of demands...

Women who put these in their profile stop it. You aren't shopping. We aren't products. And it means a left swipe. List things about yourself. Not what you want. It's very off putting. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:36AM Women who put these in their profile stop it. You aren't shopping. We aren't products. And it means a left swipe. List things about yourself. Not what you want. It's very off putting.

Op set this one up I bet

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some kid from my instagram; he always posts things like this

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Nice Guy I know put this as their Whatsapp status.

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Went out twice, one of which he dragged me to a casino where his family plays and introduced me.

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Big. Fuckin. Oof.

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Surely being an asshole helped him a lot

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Nice guy slides into my DMs after finding out my Long-term boyfriend and I broke up

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Just a 42 Year Old Tinder Niceguy

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Question regarding unprotected oral-sex

I'm 18 and I gave unprotected oral-sex to my ex-girlfriend 2-3 months ago and I've had a sore throat since. I went to my local Planned Parenthood and got tested for everything, and I'm absolutely clean of everything! I even went to my doctor and he said, I should just be taking tylenol and it'll help with the discomfort, I don't show any symptoms of anything. I'm looking for permanent solutions l What can I do to help my throat?? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:08AM I'm 18 and I gave unprotected oral-sex to my ex-girlfriend 2-3 months ago and I've had a sore throat since. I went to my local Planned Parenthood and got tested for everything, and I'm absolutely clean of everything! I even went to my doctor and he said, I should just be taking tylenol and it'll help with the discomfort, I don't show any symptoms of anything. I'm looking for permanent solutions l What can I do to help my throat??

Help me discover my fantasies. Am I an exhibitionist?

I've never considered myself an exhibitionist because I'm not really comfortable being watched during sex, maybe because of some confidence issues. I don't think my body is attractive. And in another hand I'm relatively conservative so it makes me nervous If someone watches me and (especially) my partner naked. But nevertheless, knowing that someone is there who knows I am doing stuff, for example hearing us, makes me horny. Sometimes I have fantasies about a close friend hearing us, or knowing we are doing it. Even talking to others (Total Strangers, since I'm very conservative in this regard) about our sex life makes me horny. Is it Exhibitionism? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:29AM I've never considered myself an exhibitionist because I'm not really comfortable being watched during sex, maybe because of some confidence issues. I don't think my body is attractive. And in another hand I'm relatively conservative so it makes me nervous If so

Is Cymbalta giving me issues during sex?

Ever since I started taking it I don’t always finish, and even when I do it takes over an hour and I have to do it myself. I’ll get right to the edge and I can’t go over. Does Cymbalta affect this in women? I’m a 21-year-old cis female. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:30AM Ever since I started taking it I don’t always finish, and even when I do it takes over an hour and I have to do it myself. I’ll get right to the edge and I can’t go over. Does Cymbalta affect this in women? I’m a 21-year-old cis female.

How do you learn to masturbate differently AS A FEMALE

If anyone here had only been able to orgasm a specific way, and successfully changed that, how did you accomplish that? I have already tried to find answers for this online, but everything I find is specifically for males. Alas, to my own dismay, I do not own a penis. I masturbate a specific way that is hard to incorporate into sex, and need advice on how to change that. I can only masturbate by crossing my legs and squeezing them together. Masturbating any other way is rarely pleasurable and never brings me to orgasm. I have been masturbating this way since before I even knew what masturbation was, and although I have tried to learn to do it other ways, I have been completely unsuccessful. I have tried using my fingers, humping objects without crossing my legs, touching other parts of my body etc, I’ve even tried to see if anal play was the answer. None of it even came close to how squeezing my legs together feels. I know that it is possible to change how I masturbate/orgasm, but

Concerned - Can't Keep Hard On & lack of sex appeal

So, I'm an 18M college freshmen and a month or so ago, I had my first kiss, BJ, and lost my virginity. Since, then I've had many more of such experiences, but the same problem has persisted. A little background before I illustrate the problem: Growing up, I knew I was always straight (I did, and still do get a hard on for females when I find them attractive, and I do often feel attracted to females aesthetically. Problem is, and I'm being dead serious here (I'm honestly in just as much shock as you are), I've never had an actual, strong desire to masturbate, and as a result, I have never truly masturbated (I've forcefully tried a few times, but couldn't keep a hard on for more than a few minutes, and have never been able to finish). I really don't understand what I feel, but It seems as though I'm attracted to girls aesthetically, but not sexually, if that makes any sense. I guess sex just grosses me out still? Idk. When I see a hot girl, the kind

Initiating ass eating

A while ago my gf asked me to play with her ass, she loves it. Since then butt play and anal sex (for her) have been a semi regular part of sex. I love going down on my gf, and the thought of licking her ass is really starting to turn me on. I haven't mentioned to her yet. Also I've started to think about asking her to initiate ass play with me. Advice on broaching the subject? Advice on dos and donts to avoid some of the most obvious concerns? Thanks Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:54AM A while ago my gf asked me to play with her ass, she loves it. Since then butt play and anal sex (for her) have been a semi regular part of sex.I love going down on my gf, and the thought of licking her ass is really starting to turn me on. I haven't mentioned to her yet.Also I've started to think about asking her to initiate ass play with me.Advice on broaching the subject? Advice on dos and donts to avoid some of the most obvious concerns?Thanks

we do girls like rimming?

ive been noticing in alot of porn(like blacked.com,etc) lately that rimming for guys is becoming more of a thing. Do girls like it and is it really pleasurable for guys? im a straight male but I thinking abt exploring trying new sexual things with chicks. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:56AM ive been noticing in alot of porn(like blacked.com,etc) lately that rimming for guys is becoming more of a thing. Do girls like it and is it really pleasurable for guys?im a straight male but I thinking abt exploring trying new sexual things with chicks.

How do I convince girlfriend to do threesome?

She wanted to do it before with one of her friends who was already in a relationship. How do I convince her to want to do that with me? Thanks. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:00AM She wanted to do it before with one of her friends who was already in a relationship. How do I convince her to want to do that with me? Thanks.

Can girls cum more than once?

It never crossed my mind. If so how many? And while we're at it. When girls cum do they release any liquid? The 2 girls I've been with don't seem to release anything. But I've seen this one pron video where the girl releases something that looks like semen. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:02AM It never crossed my mind. If so how many? And while we're at it. When girls cum do they release any liquid? The 2 girls I've been with don't seem to release anything. But I've seen this one pron video where the girl releases something that looks like semen.

Any tips on how to finish faster? (Male)

In my experiences I have never finished with someone unless i jerk myself off. I get hard when I fool around with someone but never had them finish it. And to think my number one sex fear when I was 16 was finishing too fast Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:04AM In my experiences I have never finished with someone unless i jerk myself off. I get hard when I fool around with someone but never had them finish it. And to think my number one sex fear when I was 16 was finishing too fast

Declining sex drive as a male?

Hey all, simple conversation topic. Dudes out there who noticed their sex drives go down more than would normally be expected from age: did you ever figure out why? As a disclaimer: I know this subreddit is NOT a doctor, nor is it therapy. That's not what I'm seeking (got it covered) so don't worry. Back when I was 20-24, I was voraciously horny. I was often frustratingly not sexually active, but the desire to get off minimum once a day was very real, and in some cases was all I could think about. Come home from class or work with an urgent need to rub one out. I'm 27 now and... My sex drive feels like it's on a noticeable downward slope. I have some ideas about possible factors from reading around the web, but to fully explain my exact situation here would be boring and would bias the conversation. To keep it brief: I'm fairly fit, I have historically watched porn, I grew up Catholic, I have some depression issues, I do get performance anxiety and guilt aro

Voyeurism has always been a turn on

This topic has always turned me on. Whether it is watching or being watched. I think that is why sending and receiving naughty pictures has always turned me on. Now I am pretty subtle when I have tried it. When I jerk off at home I will always open a window or open my blinds. My neighbors would be the only ones that could see but I don't think they ever do. How far is too far? The watching is just a fantasy. I don't think I would go as far as trying to spy on my neighbors. But what about being watched? Should I continue and try to be more daring? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:25AM This topic has always turned me on. Whether it is watching or being watched. I think that is why sending and receiving naughty pictures has always turned me on. Now I am pretty subtle when I have tried it. When I jerk off at home I will always open a window or open my blinds. My neighbors would be the only ones that could see but I don't think they ever do. How far is too far? The watching

I've started bleeding after sex

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 2/3 months and recently I've started bleeding after sex. We both lost our virginity to each other but I never bleed the first time. I don't know if it's something we're doing(position, needing lube, being to rough, ect.) Or my body being weird. Is there things to do to prevent bleeding? Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:27AM My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 2/3 months and recently I've started bleeding after sex. We both lost our virginity to each other but I never bleed the first time. I don't know if it's something we're doing(position, needing lube, being to rough, ect.) Or my body being weird. Is there things to do to prevent bleeding?

How do I make my girlfriend squirt?

So to put it simply, I know my girlfriend squirts sometimes when she uses her vibrator and has done it with partners in the past (although she says it's not her best orgasm). How do I go about achieving this? As far as I'm aware she has the strongest orgasms I've ever seen when I'm with her already, is there anything I can try? I know it's not important to make her squirt, I'm just really interested to see it happen. :P Cheers. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:27AM So to put it simply, I know my girlfriend squirts sometimes when she uses her vibrator and has done it with partners in the past (although she says it's not her best orgasm). How do I go about achieving this? As far as I'm aware she has the strongest orgasms I've ever seen when I'm with her already, is there anything I can try?I know it's not important to make her squirt, I'm just really interested to see it happen. :PCheers.

Help Help 4 Billion women need your Help Desperately

The world population today stands at just under 8 billion people. It is also almost equally divided between men and women with men having a slight lead. That means that almost billion vaginas are walking the Earth today. In many, if most cases their owners know little about the care and feeding of vaginas. Most of the roughly four billion men really do not have a clue. Let's liken it to a fine car, like a Ferrari, the men know how to start the car and maybe warm it up but most of them do not know how to out of first gear and take advantage of the real performance that the vehicle is capable of. For maximum performance of this beautiful machine you need to become intimately familiar with its workings. Then and only then can you truly appreciate its maximum ability! Men and Women think very differently. I blundered through the first half of my life thinking like a man. Upon a self-examination I found that many of the problems that I had in marriage and later in relationships was tha

Netflix show: Bonding

Must watch!!!! If you’re in the mood to watch a funny show about letting your inner sex freak out, you need to binge this immediately! Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:43AM Must watch!!!!If you’re in the mood to watch a funny show about letting your inner sex freak out, you need to binge this immediately!

What is your kink and what do you like about it?

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Condom sizing troubles please help, thanks.

Recently I've been having a hard time finding a perfect condom and I don't want to order online. I am fairly average . About 170mm Length on a good day maybe more, maybe less and about 140mm circumference . Most condoms I buy I can just pick up a pack of trojans at the store and they fit well enough , but recently I've been having trouble finding a brand or size that fits best. Any suggestions ? It's usually girth that is the trouble, too tight usually, problem is I try my best to read the box but I can never find sizing on it, just the brand bragging about how thin it is and that it uses premium lube and whatever bullshit marketing they use. I'm just a simple man trying to find a perfect condom and no I've tried the online websites and don't love the system, it's nice to be able to drop by a store and stock up when need be. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 07:03AM Recently I've been having a hard time finding a perfect condom and I don't want

Something for my girl

I'm looking to get something sexy for my girl to wear but no idea where to look or what are some good things to get. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 07:05AM I'm looking to get something sexy for my girl to wear but no idea where to look or what are some good things to get.

Question about Pubes

Hi guys, so I haven’t asked my girlfriend about what her thoughts on pubes is like but in my opinion, I like it all natural. I know this might be a little weird to ask you guys to answer about but I want to hear genuine opinions. Anyway, I’m not sure if it’s the greatest thing to ask her if she can handle a lot of pubes, (it’s bushy for me) or if she ever sees my cock, that it’s just a surprise for her. Should I ask her? Also, is it better to trim or fully cut it all off. I have a hairy body and have never shaved or waxed anywhere on my body. Would it look weird to have no hair around my cock but hairy arms and legs? I just want to hear your guys’ opinions. Thanks. Submitted April 30, 2019 at 07:11AM Hi guys, so I haven’t asked my girlfriend about what her thoughts on pubes is like but in my opinion, I like it all natural. I know this might be a little weird to ask you guys to answer about but I want to hear genuine opinions. Anyway, I’m not sure if it’s the greatest thing to as

/u/Ludjinnado on Day 355 without sex

Mine isn't as high as I would like :( Hopefully I'll never have to reset the counter though! April 30, 2019 at 07:10AM

/u/Milena-Celeste on Hmmmm...

[sigh] There goes my good mood for tonight... +1 April 30, 2019 at 07:07AM

I DESERVE WOMEN...but also women are stupid.

http://bit.ly/2IP1koa Submitted April 28, 2019 at 11:13PM http://bit.ly/2IP1koa

Of course he had an anime profile picture

http://bit.ly/2PCb06a Submitted April 29, 2019 at 01:05PM http://bit.ly/2PCb06a

I spotted one

http://bit.ly/2Lgpfz0 Submitted April 29, 2019 at 04:10PM http://bit.ly/2Lgpfz0

Continuation of previous post, hits her up and berates her after she broke it off with him politely. (Sorry for low quality i had to edit this on my phone.)

http://bit.ly/2VEf2jG Submitted April 29, 2019 at 04:18PM http://bit.ly/2VEf2jG

Twitter with the 2 for 1 special

http://bit.ly/2LdX0B6 Submitted April 29, 2019 at 04:48PM http://bit.ly/2LdX0B6

Sorry if this doesn’t fit here, but it looked a hell of a lot like the “WHY DON’T YOU REPLY IMMEDIATELY BITCH” thing that a lot of NiceGuys say.

http://bit.ly/2VEeVVi Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:10PM http://bit.ly/2VEeVVi

I posted a screenshot here of a former friend of mine who still posts “nice guy” statuses, the guy who referred to others as “shitlords”. He posted another one today and I thought you’d all enjoy.

http://bit.ly/2Lgp9r8 Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:16PM http://bit.ly/2Lgp9r8

Oh I'm sure TWERKING is the root of all evil

http://bit.ly/2VyYqKm Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:29PM http://bit.ly/2VyYqKm

I'm sure they ignore all the nice guys

http://bit.ly/2LdWT8E Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:35PM http://bit.ly/2LdWT8E

From a post teaching women to leave abusive relationships

http://bit.ly/2VyYklY Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:58PM http://bit.ly/2VyYklY

Him: 'I have no interest in talking to disrespectful people' Also Him: calls me a bitch multiple times.

http://bit.ly/2LcTp64 Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:03PM http://bit.ly/2LcTp64

This guy in my school finds girls that will speak to him and almost immediately asks them out and then rants on his story when they say no

http://bit.ly/2Vy8bsm Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:13PM http://bit.ly/2Vy8bsm

Well endowed

http://bit.ly/2L9nHqj Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:32PM http://bit.ly/2L9nHqj

You should message me if you’re tired of dating fuck boys & want to have something real with something real with someone who will treat you like a queen

http://bit.ly/2VAgVho Submitted April 29, 2019 at 10:01PM http://bit.ly/2VAgVho

Saw this in the comments of an old AskHodgeTwins video titled: “Being Way To Nice To Your Girlfriend”

http://bit.ly/2Lejjq7 Submitted April 29, 2019 at 10:57PM http://bit.ly/2Lejjq7

Talked to a guy from my town I met on FB for a week. Politely declined giving him my number... this is what I get back. Also later found out he has a restraining order in his name from another girl

http://bit.ly/2VuO9Pr Submitted April 30, 2019 at 01:21AM http://bit.ly/2VuO9Pr

They still exist in college

http://bit.ly/2LgoSV8 Submitted April 30, 2019 at 02:46AM http://bit.ly/2LgoSV8

Nice

http://bit.ly/2VASnF9 Submitted April 30, 2019 at 03:54AM http://bit.ly/2VASnF9

Why don't women appreciate such chivalry

http://bit.ly/2L84tBw Submitted April 30, 2019 at 05:47AM http://bit.ly/2L84tBw

Would be blind date. I just copy and paste his comment about fat chicks when I am clearly underway at 5’5 and 135 at 40 years old

http://bit.ly/2VyvthK Submitted April 30, 2019 at 06:47AM http://bit.ly/2VyvthK

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/u/nocte_lupus on Hmmmm...

or exclusionists are like INTERNALISED HOMOPHOBIA April 30, 2019 at 06:59AM

/u/ThatCraftyDragon on We Post 4: Comebacks from Aces to Non-Aces

If sex is so important to you cut out the middle man and go fuck yourself. April 30, 2019 at 06:56AM

/u/HPGal3 on Hmmmm...

I didn’t used to know aphobia existed. I joined tumblr in high school, I was part of my school’s lgbtqa club, I went to events as a baby queer. I didn’t see a lot of ace representation, but I just figured it was a small group. And only about a year or two ago did I start seeing actual ace-exclusionary posts. First they came from obvious terf (trans-exclusionist) blogs, but then that rhetoric started seeping into other “activist” blogs, and people started proudly calling themselves “exclusionists”, as if that doesn’t directly descend from terfism. It’s easy to tell now when people mean aphobic and I’ve started seeing terrible post after terrible post. “Ace kids are just ugly and no one wants to fuck them” “aces don’t get to use the term corrective rape” “aces don’t need community resources” “aces actively oppress other acronym-members”. It’s disgusting and tumblr has become very unsafe for anyone who doesn’t neatly fall into gay or straight. April 30, 2019 at 06:45AM

/u/CarelessSignature on Day 355 without sex

Over 9 thousand. Damn I'm old. April 30, 2019 at 06:36AM

/u/vorellaraek on Does I count as asexual if I still like doing stuff to other people, but I hate it when they try to do stuff to me?

I think stone is somewhat lesbian exclusive, and I'd actually never heard of paper. But lith means stone, and lithsexual is the opposite of placiosexual. So there is an interesting piece of borrowed history there. April 30, 2019 at 06:31AM

/u/jansencheng on Hmmmm...

enjoying the company of 1 or more female friends Everybody else: Is this sexual attraction? April 30, 2019 at 06:28AM

/u/vorellaraek on We Post 4: Comebacks from Aces to Non-Aces

Might be more sarcastic than helpful, but I had fun with these. ​ -It's just a phase The moon has phases, does that mean tides aren't real? -You're too young Would you say that if I thought I was straight? -How do you know if you've never tried it Have you tried deep throating a cactus? (for less aggression, substute basically anything unlikely and unpleasant) -Do you masturbate? Do you? -I don't think it's possible/that's not a thing And yet here I am. -Were you abused No, but if that's your first assumption I have some concerns. Are you okay? April 30, 2019 at 06:25AM

/u/shadowinplainsight on This is definitely how I feel about being called a tease

Honestly, this fucking kills me. Next person to call me a tease gets decked. It's like, I'm sorry you think I was flirting with you? April 30, 2019 at 06:04AM

/u/Ethereal_Energy on This is definitely how I feel about being called a tease

It doesn't bother me as much as it used to, but it's still hard when it happens with someone you liked. But honestly I like teasing, so if they're into it too then we usually get along just fine. April 30, 2019 at 05:59AM

/u/exhicmxdwc on The maddest of lads

Is that an actual thing (not the video game part)? April 30, 2019 at 05:46AM

/u/exhicmxdwc on Day 355 without sex

6991 days. I'm only counting the adult days since it would be weird to count my childhood. April 30, 2019 at 05:43AM

/u/exhicmxdwc on This is definitely how I feel about being called a tease

Did they at least give you a tip? April 30, 2019 at 05:41AM

/u/galacticglorp on Watching fav actors/actresses topless and in sex scenes is uncomfortable

Not a fan of sex scenes generally. So weird to watch with other people! It used to be super uncommon or risque but it's lost a lot of taboo in the last 20 years. Maybe this is a weird suggestion, but Bonding on Netflix may be something you might find interesting to watch. It's about a grad student who moonlights as a Dom and her gay bff as her assistant. For the two of them it's a job and not a turn on at all other than maybe in a power trip way. The clients getting off on it is both super weird and totally normal and not particularly sexy at all while still being sex work. I do a lot of art and part of that is life drawing from nude models. It's totally a cultural thing to associate nudity with sex. If you start experiencing nudity in very not-sex related situations it becomes normal and not a thing to be weirded out by. I am friends with some of my models and run into others around town and it's just normal. No one is horrified when dogs or birds or horses walk

/u/Leyfonz on Why is it so hard for some people to accept ace/aro identities?

Wow thanks for the share! I love it gonna keep that for quicke explanations! April 30, 2019 at 05:17AM

/u/Kyler112 on "Well you're still young" and other annoying phrases you hear from allos.

I've heard a guy say "I can change that", which might be the worst thing I've heard anyone say ever April 30, 2019 at 05:11AM

/u/OclockChai on Anyone else feel especially lonely on/around their birthday?

Yeah I am not to sure why but my birthday always makes me feel a bit lonely even if I have something going on with my friends. The best remedy I have found is talking to a friend over the phone or on the computer and either just chat or play a game with them helps me get my mind off it especially if it's a friend I haven't talked to in a while. Also Merry Birthmas! April 30, 2019 at 04:46AM

/u/Unusual_Table on Can someone please explain the difference between a friendship and a nonsexual romantic relationship?

I'd assume anything rated lower than R would not involve sex. PG-13 might suggest sexual encounters but I'm really not a fan of the genre lol. April 30, 2019 at 04:42AM

/u/dicerollname163 on Can someone please explain the difference between a friendship and a nonsexual romantic relationship?

(Do you know of any good romance movies with the sex scene already taken out? Asking for a friend. (And that friend is myself.)) April 30, 2019 at 04:40AM

/u/oanbjfknabd on Watching fav actors/actresses topless and in sex scenes is uncomfortable

Yep yep yep. I get uncomfortable and also strangely disappointed. I also have a lot of anxiety and become probably visibly discomforted when watching those scenes with other people and then I worry about them noticing and thinking I like it if they see my face flushed or my out of normal response and I just perpetuate my anxiety, riiiip April 30, 2019 at 04:38AM

/u/TheBookishPurpleOne on This is definitely how I feel about being called a tease

Man, I've been called a tease for having polite conversation with a guy. I was working in a fast food place. Politeness was my goddamn job. April 30, 2019 at 04:36AM

/u/oanbjfknabd on Day 355 without sex

I learned how to make cookies. God help me, I'm gonna get the diabetus x.x April 30, 2019 at 04:36AM

/u/anonymousposter357 on Have any of you had/have wet dreams?

One time I had a dream where I masturbated and had an orgasm, but when I woke up I hadn't ejaculated. I think the term "wet dream" is misleading because it conflates nocturnal emissions with sexual dreams, but I don't think they're necessarily the same thing. April 30, 2019 at 04:35AM

/u/oanbjfknabd on Mmm Quiche.

Do people really put that much effort to engage in sex? April 30, 2019 at 04:35AM

/u/vorellaraek on How would society change if everyone was asexual?

Lower birth rate for sure, probably reproduction would be seen as some sort of duty to keep numbers up. Might have some interesting effects on relationships and childrearing. (Obviously sex favorable aces exist and are 100% valid, but they're 10% of aces by last survey - you need more than that to maintain population. April 30, 2019 at 04:24AM

/u/LinkedFerret69 on Have any of you had/have wet dreams?

I've heard stories of people having sexual fantasies while having wet dreams so I don't think its simply a dream but you wake up "cum" April 30, 2019 at 04:21AM

Because I’m nice

http://bit.ly/2IP1kEG Submitted April 28, 2019 at 10:07PM http://bit.ly/2IP1kEG

Nice guy slides into my DMs after finding out my Long-term boyfriend and I broke up

http://bit.ly/2IYtQ62 Submitted April 28, 2019 at 10:08PM http://bit.ly/2IYtQ62

Just a 42 Year Old Tinder Niceguy

http://bit.ly/2IMWWpJ Submitted April 28, 2019 at 10:14PM http://bit.ly/2IMWWpJ

Mums in the hospital and I’m worried, this is the response I got

http://bit.ly/2J2jt1m Submitted April 28, 2019 at 10:27PM http://bit.ly/2J2jt1m

Not sure if this is 100% fitting but it's along the right lines

http://bit.ly/2INFL7o Submitted April 28, 2019 at 10:50PM http://bit.ly/2INFL7o

Guy posted his convo on our WhatsApp group and was hoping we'll support him

http://bit.ly/2J2joe4 Submitted April 28, 2019 at 10:52PM http://bit.ly/2J2joe4

I DESERVE WOMEN...but also women are stupid.

http://bit.ly/2IP1koa Submitted April 28, 2019 at 11:13PM http://bit.ly/2IP1koa

Computer lady give big SMOOCH

http://bit.ly/2J2jna0 Submitted April 28, 2019 at 11:21PM http://bit.ly/2J2jna0

niceguys🤦🏻‍♂️

http://bit.ly/2IMtfFx Submitted April 28, 2019 at 11:55PM http://bit.ly/2IMtfFx

Figures. Even FOOD CANS only go for douchebag Chads, while throwing us nice guys into the friend zone.

http://bit.ly/2J2jl1S Submitted April 28, 2019 at 11:59PM http://bit.ly/2J2jl1S

Commanding dirty talk

So, my gf is a total bratty sub. She knows it, and she loves it, and so do I, cause I’m a dom, and we’re both immensely sexually compatible. Rough nasty sex is the best, and she’s got a kink for being dominated, as well as having a thing for public sex or just doing naughty things out in public. I like talking dirty to her, and she likes the dirty talk. She likes it when I tell her what to do. However, I’ve sort of run out of ideas of what exactly to say. Usually I say things like “who’s your pussy belong to, hows my dick taste/feel, choke on it” So I’m looking for more ideas on what to say, or to ask her, and since she’s got such a kink for doing things in public, I’m curious as to what I could ask her/say to her in public to get her going. Also if any of you have things you like to say or hear from your partner just in general during sex please let me know! The more the merrier. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:35AM So, my gf is a total bratty sub. She knows it, and she love

Female can’t cum during sex

I’ve had sex many time and I have tried many different positions but sex just either sometimes hurts or just doesn’t feel like anything. My current bf has made other girls cum during sex yet I just feel like something is wrong with me. All my friends can cum with sex and I just don’t know what to do. I suggested using sex toys but my bf was kind of eh and didn’t seem interested about it when I mentioned it. Is there something wrong with me? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:48AM I’ve had sex many time and I have tried many different positions but sex just either sometimes hurts or just doesn’t feel like anything. My current bf has made other girls cum during sex yet I just feel like something is wrong with me. All my friends can cum with sex and I just don’t know what to do. I suggested using sex toys but my bf was kind of eh and didn’t seem interested about it when I mentioned it. Is there something wrong with me?

Those who don’t like receiving oral, why is that?

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Any advice on trying out a throuple would be greatly appreciated.

My girlfriend and I have been together nearly a year. In this time we have known that she is bisexual but she had never tried anything with another girl. I've been fine with her doing it but she was waiting for a girl she was comfortable with and recently found that girl. Over the last few weeks her and her friend have been messing around. We all know each other but her friend and I not as well because they go to college together a few hours away. But now we have been getting to know each other better and it has become an idea in my girlfriends and my own head that this could possibly become a throuple. So I need to know how well these actually work out. I really like the idea and my girlfriend seems into it as well. I should probably add that we know her friend would be into it too because she's mentioned that she likes the idea of having both a girlfriend and boyfriend. Any advice or similar stories at all would be wonderful? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:04AM My gir

Any advice for a newbie at anal? I’m looking for starter tips!

Current human im seeing is into it but my past relationships are all vanilla. I liked what I’ve experienced but need tips? It was quite painful. I like a little pain though, just not that much. Help? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:10AM Current human im seeing is into it but my past relationships are all vanilla. I liked what I’ve experienced but need tips? It was quite painful. I like a little pain though, just not that much.Help?

Hooked up with a friend and want it to happen again but I'm scared to ask.

We got a bit drunk this weekend, talked about hooking up and then we actually did it. Now I want it to happen again but I'm super awkward. I have no idea if they liked it (i'm not a confident prrson, I feel like they weren't having as much fun as I did) and want it again or not, I don't know how to ask. How long after we hooked up is it okay to ask for more? I have never done this so I'm scared to come off as needy - we talked about not wanting a relationship, only sex. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:14AM We got a bit drunk this weekend, talked about hooking up and then we actually did it. Now I want it to happen again but I'm super awkward. I have no idea if they liked it (i'm not a confident prrson, I feel like they weren't having as much fun as I did) and want it again or not, I don't know how to ask.How long after we hooked up is it okay to ask for more? I have never done this so I'm scared to come off as needy - we talked about not w

Today is the first time I ever came without clitoral stimulation!

I just wanted to celebrate the news! I’m in my mid 20’s, and all my life I needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm. This includes masturbation and sex. But today, I played with myself and found the perfect angle with my dildo, and I was able to orgasm without touching my clit! I am so excited to have found this out about my body! Has any other woman experienced vaginal orgasms late in life as well? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:21AM I just wanted to celebrate the news! I’m in my mid 20’s, and all my life I needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm. This includes masturbation and sex. But today, I played with myself and found the perfect angle with my dildo, and I was able to orgasm without touching my clit! I am so excited to have found this out about my body!Has any other woman experienced vaginal orgasms late in life as well?

How can I have sex more?

My boyfriend has insane stamina. Couple that with the fact that he's having trouble ejaculating (separate situation we are working on) and we can pretty much go for hours multiple times a day. This is the first guy I've (20F) been with that actually takes the time to make sure everything feels great for me and that I have been so attracted to. My libido is off the wall for the first time in my life and I kind of want to take advantage of it. Except after having sex for about an hour my vagina starts to get kind of sore. We stop to relube if anything starts drying out. But still, if we do it multiple times in a day, in the next few days its really not happy to go again. I realise I can't really solve this issue completely, but is there some way i can minimise the pain? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:26AM My boyfriend has insane stamina. Couple that with the fact that he's having trouble ejaculating (separate situation we are working on) and we can pretty much go