Guy I’ve been seeing misled me about texting other girls and being ready for a relationship
So I’ve [22F] been seeing this guy [23M] for two months. Last week, we told each other we loved each other for the first time. Afterwards, I asked if I was his girlfriend and he told me I was. But the next date, I was next to him and he did that swipe up thing on your iPhone that clears the apps you’ve recently had open. I saw that the dating app Bumble was on the swipe up screen. The photo of the app made it look like he sent a message to a girl and she messaged back. I asked him if he was talking to other girls and he told me he had just deleted the app and that his swipe up sometimes shows a random screen from the app he’s been using. Then he went on his home screen to show me he didn’t still have Bumble on his phone. It was all a misunderstanding, he said. At first, I wasn’t too upset. But then I remembered the several times he had told me, unprompted, “you’re mine.” He started saying this on our third date. He asked me if I was seeing other guys and I said “no,” to which he resp