I've been best friends with this guy for 7+ years. I truly have the best time with him and we have an amazing friendship. My family loves him and they always make comments about wanting me to go for it. He gets along great with my nieces, my parents, my siblings and everyone. But I'm scared of going for it, things not working out, & then losing a really great friend. I value our friendship so much I don't want to risk it. Should I just go for it? If I do go for it, how do I go about that? We've only ever been strictly friends. It's not something that really gets brought up. But i feel like if he knew I was interested he would be too. Idk. Help. Submitted November 27, 2022 at 12:52AM I've been best friends with this guy for 7+ years. I truly have the best time with him and we have an amazing friendship. My family loves him and they always make comments about wanting me to go for it. He gets along great with my nieces, my parents, my siblings and ever...

My coworker recently asked for my phone number he is 22 and I am 21. I had thought he was attractive for a while so I was excited when he did. We texted normal for a couple of days and all of a sudden he seems disinterested he replied to my text with a like (the feature on iOS) and it was a message that warranted a response. I don’t understand why would he go through the trouble of asking for my number then acting uninterested? I will add that when we texted we took a while to respond to each other, the kind of thing u do to not seem too desperate when pursuing someone new. Submitted November 27, 2022 at 01:11AM My coworker recently asked for my phone number he is 22 and I am 21. I had thought he was attractive for a while so I was excited when he did. We texted normal for a couple of days and all of a sudden he seems disinterested he replied to my text with a like (the feature on iOS) and it was a message that warranted a response. I don’t understand why would he go through the...

I’ve been doing a lot of self reflecting this month and realized I cannot do casual sex. I end up always getting emotionally attached and develop these needs like getting upset if I don’t get a reply for awhile but see him being active on Instagram. For background: I 24F and 26M have been flirty talking for a few months. We were planning on meeting sometime this month to see each other again and hookup. Now I’m not one to shy away with talking about sex or dirty talking. I’m normally never ashamed of that either. But I’m trying to break my old habits with him because I want him to take me seriously. And I’m one to get attached too fast (I am working on it). I want to see him this month and I do want to have sex with him but only if I know he takes me more seriously. I’m trying to improve myself and create boundaries. But I feel like a hypocrite if I bring this up. I feel like I’ll be acting too serious. I haven’t seen him in two years and I do like him which is why I hope he does...

i just saw your post about some dude calling you “straight lite” and i hate that this needs to be said but you are fucking VALID. if you are aspec, you are aspec and nothing people say can stop that from being the truth. Have fun, be nice, and eat some garlic bread. November 27, 2022 at 12:32AM

Nice or fun shirt paired with pants, footwear of your choosing, and add some jewelry bling if you're into that! Makeup is NOT required, and neither are dresses. I've started doing the above for weddings. Also a suit is very acceptable! November 27, 2022 at 12:30AM

So i was at this party with a bunch of my friends, but there were a few people i didn't know. One of these people was this girl. We were all just having a good time and sat talking around the table, playing games etc, so i didn't really talk that much with her 1 on 1. But she seems very sweet and nice etc etc and theres just something about her i really liked. I kinda got the feeling she might be eyeing me too cuz i felt she was looking at me a lot. When i talked to her or she said something, or if anyone said something funny, i tried looking at her and smile (which sounds kinda weird, but i dont think it was), just to like laugh with her if that makes sense, to show i was interested in her i guess. But at the same time im very insecure and such so theres no chance i would like ask for her number or anything, especially since there wasnt a point there werent like 5 other friends around. Anyways, the party ended and she was headed home so was i, and i never got her number or a...