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/u/In_the_sun_swimming on My confirmation of belonging in the ace spectrum

I used to hit people with my hair when they tried to kiss me. Gotta miss having a ponytail. People trying to kiss without consent is seriously NOT COOL tho. May 01, 2023 at 12:51AM

The Dirty

I 23F moved to a new town about a year and half ago and have recently gotten involved with 33M haven’t gone past 2nd based because I am absolutely terrified about having to tell him about my HS (Hidradenitis suppurativa) it’s like acne that usually around the pubic area and under arms. I do not have bad flare up anymore just usually just mild ones. But unfortunately old flare up have cause a lot of scarring in both areas. I am no means a virgin back home I had regular boyfriends and few fuck buddys in between and this topic never came up with any of them. Should I just avoid the conversation all together and go with flow or tell him before hand? And why is it so terrifying now? Submitted May 01, 2023 at 01:03AM I 23F moved to a new town about a year and half ago and have recently gotten involved with 33M haven’t gone past 2nd based because I am absolutely terrified about having to tell him about my HS (Hidradenitis suppurativa) it’s like acne that usually around the pubic area a...

Girl I've been on and off with has now updated her dating profile

I (27M) had been seeing a girl (25F) since the beginning of the year. About a month and a half ago, we agreed to stop pursuing a romantic relationship as she was going through some pretty bad mental health issues - her job was giving her anxiety, she was having financial troubles and also had some family issues going on. She also mentioned that she was starting to feel signs of depression again (she had a bout with depression about a year ago when her dad passed away) and so we both agreed that pursuing a relationship was not the best and that we should just be friends. I was initially sad about the whole situation but I understood and decided to put romantic feelings aside and just be a friend and see what happens one way or the other. We kept conversations up pretty frequently after this all went down, but never really hung out in person. Part of this was due to conflicting work schedules, part was due to her just not feeling up to it. Throughout our conversations, I could definite...

34F, Single Mom of 2

I’m a divorced single mom of 2 and I live in a large city. Dating again has been difficult. Dating culture just isn’t what it was ten years ago when I last dated. Being divorced and having kids makes it even harder. It’s not like I didn’t know this but I guess it truly is more difficult for a woman in my situation—even with the rest of my life together. Is there even any hope for me? Submitted May 01, 2023 at 12:10AM I’m a divorced single mom of 2 and I live in a large city. Dating again has been difficult. Dating culture just isn’t what it was ten years ago when I last dated. Being divorced and having kids makes it even harder. It’s not like I didn’t know this but I guess it truly is more difficult for a woman in my situation—even with the rest of my life together. Is there even any hope for me?

I'm 27 years old and I am still single..

Hello! I am 27 years old (M). I am a teacher right now and I feel like I am enjoying my life. However, as am growing older, all of my friends around me are getting married and starting to have kids. I've started meeting Women through dating sites, meeting them through work and friends since the age of 22. However I always get rejected in the end, and always ask "What is wrong with me"? I've been told I'm too polite and they perfer someone who not "too nice". The longest relationship was a year and it was very toxic which was long distance. . I want to believe that I will find someone who I can love and respect them for who they are. And someone who will accept my personality.I 've been working on a self love journey and been enjoying my single life with traveling and workong on myself . However, I feel like giving up and feeling hopeless and feel defeated. People around me are also feeling bad for me that I am still single and exclude me from socia...

/u/JadedElk on Can you be an asexual and still get turned on?

Being turned on if just your body getting ready for sex. Allo people might get this because they see someone they're attracted to and wanna Be with. Or because Hormones are happening, or as a response to a sexual thing happening at them. Aces don't have the attraction, but we can have random (seeming) hormone fluctuations, or a hormone wash triggered as a reflex to a sex thing happening. April 30, 2023 at 10:56PM