Dont know why its prevelant in women, but it seems the vast majority of women expect u to read their mind on things or make assumptions off unstraightforwardness. For example A women can be angry at you, but will not tell you what you did, which ends up being something on her end and not yours. If a women is sad or upset, she wont tell you, she will just sit down there quietly which is a issue Also testing, a women will purposely do things to see if u "do this". Such as ghosting to see if ull cling to her, or like call some other girl pretty right in front of you to see if u would call her pretty. I dont understand why its harder for women to communicate. I can easily say my mind very quick and fast and when something troubles me, i say it right away. Submitted October 27, 2021 at 01:09AM Dont know why its prevelant in women, but it seems the vast majority of women expect u to read their mind on things or make assumptions off unstraightforwardness.For exampleA wo...

Hi. I (M22) am about to meet a girl on tinder for the first time . She seems to be a chill person over text and we are meeting at a coffee shop tomorrow morning . What are some tips you can provide to me since it's my first date meeting a girl from tinder ? Submitted October 27, 2021 at 01:09AM Hi. I (M22) am about to meet a girl on tinder for the first time . She seems to be a chill person over text and we are meeting at a coffee shop tomorrow morning . What are some tips you can provide to me since it's my first date meeting a girl from tinder ?

I have been trying to cold approach with much motivation. I approached bout 20 women till now this last month. Every single one of them rejected me or gave an excuse (have a bf or engaged or just flaked) I am not complaining about lays. I am not even able to get dates or phone numbers for that matter. I look pretty decent. Dress fine. Somewhere between athletic and dad bod, but not fat. Not super shy dude or anything. South Asian living in the US. One chick even asked for my number herself after I approached her and never replied when I texted her a few days later. Don't know what I can do better? 0 dates from 20 approaches doesn't help me go any longer. What really blows me is that none of these chicks are interested to get to know a foreigner! Motivation and tips needed. Submitted October 27, 2021 at 01:10AM I have been trying to cold approach with much motivation. I approached bout 20 women till now this last month. Every single one of them rejected me or gave a...

I ( 18f) have a bio class every Tu/Th and I sit next to this guy (19m) everyday and we’re lab partners. I’ve developed a big crush on him and I can’t tell if he likes me back. At first he was really quiet at the start of the semester but he’s really warmed up to me. We’re always laughing and joking around and we have the same sense of humor. And he always laughs at my dumb jokes that probably aren’t that funny. There’s another girl at our table and when he talks to her he doesn’t seem as engaged as when he talks to me. Sometimes when I reach over him and our arms touch he doesn’t move it. Are these good signs? Submitted October 27, 2021 at 01:15AM I ( 18f) have a bio class every Tu/Th and I sit next to this guy (19m) everyday and we’re lab partners. I’ve developed a big crush on him and I can’t tell if he likes me back. At first he was really quiet at the start of the semester but he’s really warmed up to me. We’re always laughing and joking around and we have the same sense of ...

Hello, thanks for reading my post. I hope you are having a great day. Effectively, as you read, the girl I am dating (not yet my girlfriend but on-wards to that) has been kissed, three days ago, by her old crush she could never have. Our love story is somewhat spectacular. We met on the internet, we instantly felt connected with one another due to the massive similarities and particularities we share in common. Something none of us had had in the past in our previous relationships. We both come from toxic relationships we left this year. It was 4 weeks ago when she, half-drunk, invited me to come over to her city (in which Ill live soon because of college), and I, half-drunk, accepted. It was something crazy because it was meeting, after having such an impressive connection, in real life for the first time. We met, everything went amazing. We spent an entire day together, day and night, 24 hours. We walked all over Buenos Aires and slept together. It was, in her words, her best we...

Lover. I hate when someone refers to their SO as that. Then when I say I’m a dog lover it seems sometimes strange (although obviously I know what I mean) I still avoid the word. Maybe I’m just weird. 🤔 October 27, 2021 at 12:50AM

Sounds lonely October 27, 2021 at 12:49AM

my computer is acer than me October 27, 2021 at 12:49AM

Kinda surprised that he/hims are outnumbered. I thought it would be equal. October 27, 2021 at 12:49AM

I didn't really know that was a thing tbh. Can you explain it/it's more? October 27, 2021 at 12:48AM

I don't know, I just feel like I'm doing something wrong, when in fact sex/sexual attraction is so natural. Anyway I could get over this? Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:11AM I don't know, I just feel like I'm doing something wrong, when in fact sex/sexual attraction is so natural.Anyway I could get over this?

I remember the "too much porn is unhealthy" thing, and I'm wondering if its the same case. When I'm feeling horny I just beat off to my partner (we're in LDR right now because of the pandemic, but we're doing fantastic). I do it maybe at least 4 or 5 times a week, often on the weekends We miss each other a lot, so when we she's busy and we can't do it through the phone or video call, I just whack off. I started to get concerned that maybe I was doing it too much lately. Is this an unhealthy practice, or am I overthinking it? lol Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:13AM I remember the "too much porn is unhealthy" thing, and I'm wondering if its the same case.When I'm feeling horny I just beat off to my partner (we're in LDR right now because of the pandemic, but we're doing fantastic). I do it maybe at least 4 or 5 times a week, often on the weekendsWe miss each other a lot, so when we she's busy and we can't do ...

29 year old guy here. Been married to my wife for about a year now and we decided that starting next month i wont be wearing condoms anymore and were going to try and get pregnant. Any one else soon to be or currently doing the same thing? And im kind of wondering the best way to do it when i cum inside. Like should i go as deep as i can when i do it? Maybe halfway deep so it has a place to pool? Is it best to stop thrusting and stay still while i cum? Maybe people who were recently successful can share what they did. Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:24AM 29 year old guy here. Been married to my wife for about a year now and we decided that starting next month i wont be wearing condoms anymore and were going to try and get pregnant. Any one else soon to be or currently doing the same thing? And im kind of wondering the best way to do it when i cum inside. Like should i go as deep as i can when i do it? Maybe halfway deep so it has a place to pool? Is it best to stop thrusting an...

So I(20m) am still a virgin, let’s get that out of the way. I’ve never done too well when it came to getting physically intimate with a partner, I’m usually pretty nervous when getting intimate. Well this past weekend while at my GF’s(20) apartment, were cuddling on the couch, I’m giving her a butt massage, and she says “explore up north of you want.” Now I didn’t shoot up there but I did take my time, this was the best experience I’ve had in a long time. Being able to feel my girlfriend’s breasts both clothed and unclothed was beyond amazing. They were softer than I anticipated, then we started to make out and she let me travel down and kiss and suck on them. It was best feeling of my life, but I want to make sure that I give her the best possible experiences too. What’s some suggestions for when we find ourselves in this position again and I want to give her the time of her life? Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:38AM So I(20m) am still a virgin, let’s get that out of the way. ...

I've been working on my self a lot like I started working out again fixed my sleep schedule, made a morning routine and a lot of other stuff and even found healthier porn eg: erties and some ASMR stuff love erties because they have interviews with the girls beforehand so its feel more real anyway but to the point im jerking off almost everyday now, and it feels good as before I did all this it was like every 3 days, and it was really unsatisfying most of the time could it just be the new porn or is it something else Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:49AM I've been working on my self a lot like I started working out again fixed my sleep schedule, made a morning routine and a lot of other stuff and even found healthier porn eg: erties and some ASMR stuff love erties because they have interviews with the girls beforehand so its feel more real anyway but to the point im jerking off almost everyday now, and it feels good as before I did all this it was like every 3 days, and i...

I’m trying to figure out what’s a good time to meet up when dating online , is it weird to meet up after a week or , do people usually talk for 2 weeks or more before meeting? I feel like I’d prefer to meet first week that way we can either see right away if we’re compatibile or not and save each other some time . But I’d like to get some other perspectives. Submitted October 26, 2021 at 11:56PM I’m trying to figure out what’s a good time to meet up when dating online , is it weird to meet up after a week or , do people usually talk for 2 weeks or more before meeting? I feel like I’d prefer to meet first week that way we can either see right away if we’re compatibile or not and save each other some time . But I’d like to get some other perspectives.

So, i have been talking to this guy for probably about 6 or 7 months. We are in what I would call a situationship, so we are not exclusive. Anyways in the past 3/4 months we have been talking everyday, sexting a bit and I have him over or hang out with him probably 2 or 3 times a month. We also work together and hang hang out with a group of coworkers occasionally. I would consider him a close friend. So my issue is this… every time we have gotten to having sex- he can never get hard. Often there is some drinking involved- which probably accounts for some of the lack of erections. We’re going on probably 6 times of him not being able to get hard- which has ultimately killed off some of my confidence. I have thought about him possibly being closeted- but why even try multiple times? it’s not like he’s bragging about his sexual escapades with me. he does take care of himself and like some stereotypically feminine things- but not to the point that I thought he was gay before we became i...

Long story short, it was a 6 months long connection. I developed feelings and he didn’t. He offered to remain friends and I broke off all contact to heal. That was the end of the story. Fast forward to today, he’s moved to my neighborhood-his building right infront of mine. I still haven’t healed and I get anxiety bouts at the thought of seeing him with someone else. Sometimes when I look out of the window I feel like I see his face in different couples. So I’ve put down the blinds to not lose my sanity. But this nagging feeling of not having being with him has resurfaced. He hasn’t initiated contact with me. It’s been a few weeks since he came around in the area. I hate that I’m wired like this. But I’m trying my best to face my fears It’s not getting better though Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:07AM Long story short, it was a 6 months long connection. I developed feelings and he didn’t. He offered to remain friends and I broke off all contact to heal. That was the end o...

So I'm just not sure what to do. I am in high school and I'm a guy. I am one of the people that are the quite kids, I do talk, I just usually only talk to people I know and when people talk to be, I don't just go starting conversations. There's a few girls that I see everyday that watch me either at lunch and/or breakfast that's usually in a group of girls. I'm not quite sure how to approach her. Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:09AM So I'm just not sure what to do. I am in high school and I'm a guy. I am one of the people that are the quite kids, I do talk, I just usually only talk to people I know and when people talk to be, I don't just go starting conversations. There's a few girls that I see everyday that watch me either at lunch and/or breakfast that's usually in a group of girls. I'm not quite sure how to approach her.

With being paranoid about her talking to other guys. Her line of work leads to some conversations with other men and she has some male friends. She is very attractive and I find myself being a little possessive and tonight I saw a strange text from a guy who said something about meeting up and I kinda got quiet and angry but I confronted her about it (first time) I asked her about it she assured me it was nothing so I asked to see the convo which she showed me no problem and I took it out of context but now I feel like I insulted her. Am I just sappers to trust? Submitted October 27, 2021 at 12:15AM With being paranoid about her talking to other guys. Her line of work leads to some conversations with other men and she has some male friends. She is very attractive and I find myself being a little possessive and tonight I saw a strange text from a guy who said something about meeting up and I kinda got quiet and angry but I confronted her about it (first time) I asked her about it...