Im 19m and There’s a girl i met at work not long ago and we had a few interactions but not many and I felt myself having a huge crush on her. Nothing really ever came of it though and I didn’t really know her that well but there was something about her which I just adored. She left my place of work not long ago and I never really had the chance to get close with her. She is still in contact with a lot of my work colleagues so I don’t know if our paths will ever cross again. But she is literally all I have thought about for about a month or so. I just keep thinking about her and it’s the what if that kills me. I sometimes just say her name randomly and i often dream about her. It’s gotten to the point where I feel genuine anger over this and I have extreme intrusive thoughts about it like her going off with some other person I could get in contact but if I do she’ll know that I’m interested and it will kill me right away because I can’t come off too over persistent. I don’t even really

Me (23 y.o M) matched with a 22 y.o F on Tinder. First date was great! We both got along, had very similar interest and planned to go out again the following weekend. We are both very busy throughout the week but we texted a decent amount. Second date, again everything was perfect, we went to a bar, had some drinks and then she stayed over at my place. We texted a lot more during the week and she kept complimenting me, saying how much she enjoys spending time with me. Early into the week, we planned to go out again that upcoming weekend on Friday night. Leading up to the days, we had been texting and snap chatting a good amount. Friday morning, I ask her what her plans are for the day and she said something along the lines of " work in the morning, going to get lunch with a friend, then spend the night with you". That is the last text I ever got from her. I followed up with a text saying something like "great! just let me know when you think I should pick you up".

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I was just thinking about this, thank you /pos May 22, 2022 at 12:28AM

I have a crush on this girl at my work, I’ve never talked to her before. When we see each other in passing I can’t help but feel she may feel the same. How should I start interacting with her in a way that is not so obvious. I feel like if I just randomly start talking to her, she will know exactly my intentions. I need more reassurance before I ask her out, that way if I’m totally off about my feelings, the work environment won’t be weird. Submitted May 22, 2022 at 12:16AM I have a crush on this girl at my work, I’ve never talked to her before. When we see each other in passing I can’t help but feel she may feel the same. How should I start interacting with her in a way that is not so obvious. I feel like if I just randomly start talking to her, she will know exactly my intentions. I need more reassurance before I ask her out, that way if I’m totally off about my feelings, the work environment won’t be weird.

I've had a couple involving it, but not really depicting it. Like, my brain may tell me stuff has happened, but there's no visuals or sensations corresponding to it. May 21, 2022 at 11:15PM