At least ace has a fuckton of star trek representation July 01, 2020 at 11:54PM

I wish you a good life, luck and an education. Goodbye to you too July 01, 2020 at 11:54PM

Awwww🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 July 01, 2020 at 11:53PM

Look, I’m gonna stop here. I’ve already said everything I had to say. Despite our disagreements I hope you’re out there living your best life, and if not then I hope you can find a way to get there. Goodbye and good luck! July 01, 2020 at 11:52PM

Glad you enjoyed 😂 July 01, 2020 at 11:49PM

... I've honestly never heard of an orientation like that. Not to be flippant, but I thought that was pretty normal for allos. To be fair even allosexual isn't really an identity anyone uses. It's probably why you're having issues finding anything. Allo is simply not asexual or aromantic depending on context. You might have more luck with the various LGBT boards if you're LGBTQ+ or maybe a relationship advice board if you're straight (honestly I'm guessing for the straight one). Closest I've ever heard of is demiromantic, but it doesn't require a sexual attraction but rather an emotional bond first before a romantic one can form. July 01, 2020 at 11:48PM

I mean... Sure, but regardless of WHY they are helping, they ARE helping the cause. I get it you might say it's not moral to do something for the wrong reasons, but if in a pragmatic sense, they further the cause let them be in the title if it matters so much to them! It's a deontology vs utalitarianism argument, I know, but politics are mostly utalitarian, so let them be anywhere in the initialism they want to be, as long as they're supporting its values. July 01, 2020 at 11:47PM

Same. Fantastic. July 01, 2020 at 11:46PM

YEP July 01, 2020 at 11:45PM

Feeling validated AND chuckling at “smashing genitals together” July 01, 2020 at 11:43PM

Because letting them in is harmful and defeats the purpose of even having the community in the first place. We can celebrate with them and even honour them, without having them as members. It's our community to feel safe, away from cis-hets, and even though allies are here for us, it's not their place to be included. It's insanely offensive to everyone to even suggest letting them in. I'm autistic, and I love it when people fight for me and my rights, when they stand up against assholes and try to educate people. That does not mean they're apart of the autism community July 01, 2020 at 11:42PM

I completely agree. I’ve been an ally basically all my life, and it wasn’t until recently that I discovered I was demisexual. The whole point of of being an ally is helping advance queer rights because it is simply the right thing to do. Erasing an entire sexuality and replacing it with ally defeats the entire purpose of raising awareness, providing support, and normalizing all types of sexuality and gender. July 01, 2020 at 11:42PM

I see your Purple-throated Woodstar and raise you the Black-chinned Hummingbird: https://ebird.org/species/bkchum July 01, 2020 at 11:41PM

A celebrity breathes and undergarments the world over drop in one echoing thud. July 01, 2020 at 11:40PM

Thank you! July 01, 2020 at 11:38PM

Done! July 01, 2020 at 11:37PM

Again, it’s not that I don’t understand. I do. I just don’t think it’s that big a deal to have allies as honorary members. You can think your thing and I can think my thing and both have the interests of the lgbt community at heart so does it even matter? July 01, 2020 at 11:36PM

Thank you so much for explaining! I'm trying to be as much of an ally as I can so I really appreciate the information! July 01, 2020 at 11:36PM

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