I've been looking for this kink name for way too long, and the only place I could think of is to come to Reddit. Is there a name for having a fetish for engaging in sexual intercourse under the influence? All I could find was the sleeping beauty syndrome and I've looked forever. Does any know of the name or if there even is a name for that? Submitted March 14, 2020 at 12:13AM I've been looking for this kink name for way too long, and the only place I could think of is to come to Reddit.Is there a name for having a fetish for engaging in sexual intercourse under the influence?All I could find was the sleeping beauty syndrome and I've looked forever. Does any know of the name or if there even is a name for that?

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Sorry if this looks a bit wacky but I’m on mobile. I am 14 and gender-fluid, my boyfriend (14M) has depression. It’s been a while since I’ve known as he told me before we started dating. He gets really uncomfortable when either of us brings it up, so I try really hard not to prod him. It’s to the point where I just know he has therapy Friday’s and not even the time it ends. He’s saying “I don’t want to talk about it” is usually my cue to leave the topic alone. From the start of this week, he was ignoring my texts and I had 2 messages from him, yesterday (He was also avoiding me all week in class). This is with me reaching out to him multiple times everyday. I expressed my concerns for him yesterday and I was responded with, “Sorry it's not your fault but I have been sad recently and I don't want to talk about it just give me some time.” I understand leaving the people you care about alone because you don’t want to lash out or say something you don’t mean. It’s not out of th...

As the title, my girlfriend has a male friend. They are old friends, known each other about 5 years from what I can gather. The guy seems a bit nerdy and I doubt she finds him attractive or anything. He lives about 30 minutes travel away and when he comes to visit my girlfriend and her friends, kind of rotates staying at their houses. My girlfriend has a spare bedroom in her apartment and lets him crash there if they have a night out. I typically don't go out with them, but she is always certain to make sure I feel invited. When this first happened, my girlfriend specifically asked if it was ok if he slept over, I said sure. I didn't really think much of it. She had never given me any reason not to trust her and this apparently was the norm before we dated. But the guy continues to kind of invite himself to sleep at her house, and while I have no 'concrete evidence' I wouldn't really be shocked if he was interested in her. I don't want to be jealous or contr...

(My apologies if this isnt appropriate in this sub) So basically ive been feeling depressed lately from constantly having to see her from school and my parents absolutely adoring her and all this other stuff, but ive noticed that ive been able to take her out from my mind is talking and trying to seek out other people to be with and stuff but honestly i dont know how to do that, if there are suggestions or something like help that can be given on trying to find people id appreciate it. (TL:DR) i need suggestions on finding and how to date new people pls Submitted March 13, 2020 at 11:59PM (My apologies if this isnt appropriate in this sub) So basically ive been feeling depressed lately from constantly having to see her from school and my parents absolutely adoring her and all this other stuff, but ive noticed that ive been able to take her out from my mind is talking and trying to seek out other people to be with and stuff but honestly i dont know how to do that, if there are s...

My girlfriend and I got together about a year ago. Through conversations we’ve had it’s become apparent that she’s not really interested in having kids. I always thought I would have a family, from a pretty young age. However through my twenties I had quite a few relationships which didn’t work out for one reason or another. My girlfriend is the first person who has brought the same amount of enthusiasm and love to the relationship that I’m bringing. I’ve fallen completely in love and am really happy. She’s a brilliant person and I feel really lucky to be with her. I’m in the relationship I have always hoped to be in. It feels like it would be crazy to throw all that away. However I’ve just always thought I would be a Dad and would build a home. I’m a really loving person and have always thought I would be a really good dad. I think there was a time some years ago that she would have been open to the idea, but kind of shelved that and came to peace with it after her last partner w...

I’m just frustrated and pretty hurt. This is something that happens pretty often but I don’t know how to bring it up without it turning into a fight. It feels like when I try to have a serious conversation with my boyfriend about something, not necessarily personal things but just to talk about something I found interesting or whatever, he just jokes around. I want to have an actual discussion about things and get to talk about what was interesting about it. He just turns it into a joke. This is honestly getting really frustrating now. He’s smart and he’ll go into detail about things he finds interesting. Yet when I want to talk about something I like, he won’t take me seriously. He just did this in response to something I saw in a TV show that I really liked and wanted to break down. It’s over text and I’m just ignoring it. I know if I say something about how that makes me feel, he will call me dramatic. He’s especially not going to take me seriously now because I’ve been (a little...

Hi everyone. So I (F23) have been dating this guy (M28) for around 2 months now. Not that long, but we met through online. I met him 2 months ago in person, we hit it off like crazy, and generally went straight into a relationship without saying it's one... aka, we haven't said we're boyfriend and girlfriend yet but we basically are. He lives 20 mins from me, has a great job and everything seemed fine. The only thing is.. he said he didn't use social media. But everything else was fine. We'd constantly text, send videos, facetime. Nothing weird or hidden. And I decide to search him again one night again. I find an instagram. It's private. It's definitely him. I google the instagram username and a bunch of other accounts come up on google that obviously follow him. I notice someone has the same surname as him and click. It's a girl. Her instagram is public. And on her instagram are thousands of photos of the two of them and everything else. Now, nowh...

I feel like I woke up in an 80s lifetime movie that was panned for being "too fucking stupid.. even for a Lifetime movie." I'm gonna do my best to make this as succinct and straight forward as possible, but I'm still collecting all the pieces myself so apologies if it's a bit long and rambling. I promise it's at least a weird ride. I've been friends/co-workers with "James" for over four years now. We weren't in the same department, so it was more of a casual friendship where we spent most of our time the same circles. A couple years ago, I transferred to the same department and we ended up frequently working in small groups or even one and one. About a year ago, James confessed he had feelings for me. I told him I wasn't really in a position to explore that- I was in the midst of ending an abusive relationship (one of those overly long, drawn-out painful endings) and I needed to see that through, and then have time to recover before I ...

I (17M) just watched horror movies with my friends and all of the boys were ironically cuddling/sitting close to the girls (all a different one) Except for me and the girl I really like (17F) , and when everyone went home they were talking about the "couples" that were a thing. So they started talking about the fact that I and this girl I like weren't doing the same as them, and that we would make a great couple. I obviously was curious what her reaction would be bit before she could respond they all went like: well, you guys don't match.. you are both way to nice/kind that is not a good thing.. Now I can't stop thinking about this, I know that she is way out of my league.. but I can't believe that because I am a nice/kind guy I can't date a nice/kind women... Is this a weird thing only my friends said, or is this a real thing? TL;DR is it an actual thing that people who are both nice/kind usually don't match? Submitted March 14, 2020 at 12:19A...

I (f26) am starting to get really tired of friendships that revolve my friends wants, needs, feelings, and emotions. I do tend to feel like I owe people more of my help, or that if I didn’t they wouldn’t be there. I’ll list a main example. Friend a: only reaches out to me to talk about themselves, things they bought, new love interests, or plans they have. If I scroll through our messages it’s just multiple days of this going back for months. When I start to talk about myself they lose interest in talking or leave me on seen. The last time we hungout they got black out drunk, ditched me midway through the night (unaware) and then asked me to help them search for their missing bag the next day without as much of a thank you, though they apologized. The friendship feels draining, and they seem largely unaware. I’ve had series of friendships like this and I don’t know why. I feel bad asserting myself more or like I’m not worthy of it, however I also wouldn’t call myself a pushover real...

So today I posted on my Instagram story and then she writes this. “You never pop up to me and im the one who keeps conctact, if you don’t wanna talk or something else then just let me know as I hate being the clown here.” To which I write “here we go again” and she writes “I’m writing how I feel” then I write “sorry but just because i haven’t messaged you in a day isn’t a big deal”. To which she says “a day? You haven’t talked to me in 2 weeks I’m the one who always makes contact to you and investing and trying and you with this friendship act like you don’t give a damn” I said “ you are overreacting why would there be a problem, and it hasn’t been 2 weeks” To which she says “Yes 2 I’m the one who tries to send something and be active and you’re being weird recently” Then I say “sorry I’m just really busy recently to the point where I don’t even speak to anyone as much and don’t take it personal there is no problem between us” To which she writes “never mind” Now what I don’t...

Don’t you feel like the time is running out? Like the more time you let pass thru you the harder will be for you to get someone? I mean that is obviously true and that is why the pressure is rising. I am a 25-year-old guy that until this day (and probably many to come) never had no someone to call girlfriend. To be honest I never actually tried and to be honest I think I never had more than 2 crushes. I was always the funny shy type of guy that only talks to anyone that first talks to me. The first step has always been my biggest trouble and because of that, to this current date, I don’t have a single girl that I can call friend. Only macho friends LUL. I mean of course they are not going to be the ones to first talk to me but, the thing is, I always am expecting the perfect opportunity for me to do it but that never arrives. So, in the end I am left with “friends” that are co-worker’s and barely any girls because I work in IT and if there are, they are taken. And that is why I am...

I'm not sure if my friends have all just been blowing smoke up my ass or if this guy is actually insane, but, regardless, this was overall a very weird interaction and my group chats got some good laughs out of it so I thought I would share... messages TLDR from my POV: We had been on one date and then about a week later we hooked up. Met a total of two times. I told him we weren't physically compatible in what I thought was the nicest way possible, he agreed but asked if I wanted to give it another shot, and I gently reiterated that I did not feel any chemistry and was not interested. Then he proceeded to tell me (in several paragraphs) that the real reason it didn't work was because I have bad breath, but if I wanted to try sleeping with him again he'd give me another chance after he watches me brush my teeth. I tell him thanks for the heads up, but no thanks to the offer. He keeps going... And going... And going. Writing and performing two songs about me in the ...

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Yeah yeah I know. "Don't dip your pen in the company ink." I may not even end up making a movie but I just wanted some advice. So I've (23M) been working at this job for 3 months and this girl (22F) started a month ago. We're on the same account, with the same job title, working on different projects. So we'll work together sometimes but not a lot. We're both also relatively knew to the town we're in. I've been here for over half a year and she just moved here a month ago for this job. But we both have friends here and everything too. We also both went to similar schools, have similar interests, and seemed to vibe from the first time we talked. I'm sure a lot of what I'm interpreting is just friendliness but other signs I'm not so sure about: She's asked me to eat lunch with her once or twice and a few times I left work to go get lunch and she went with me just to tag along (even though she brought lunch from home) Since she...

Or do you just keep your silence and move on? Why or why not? What are some of the best responses you have given for these situations? Responses that are direct and unambiguous, but don't make you look "salty" and "crazy". I don't like confronting people. So usually l just let it go without saying anything. Especially when it's at the very early stage of online dating(around date 1-3). I figure if they do that then it's a good thing they show their true color early. I haven't invested much at that point and so l just move on. But there are other times when rude behaviors like those happen after we've been together for a while (like a couple of months). I was often tempted to say something in those cases but in the end l didn't, because l didn't want to come across as being "drama" or "angry". But then l feel so shitty about not standing up for myself before walking away silently. What's your take? What...

This seems like a trivial question in the current climate but hey-ho! It’s good to have a distraction. I just went on an OLD date. He was a good person but I could see we wouldn’t work together. At the end of the date he asked if I wanted to do it again. I said no, unless he wanted to do it as friends which he wasn’t really keen on. He asked why and I said it was due to differing senses of humour which it partly was. I felt we were on different wavelengths. I found it awkward and wondered if I’d been too blunt. I’ve just spoken to my friend who thinks I should had said yes but then changed my mind later. I’m not sure I agree as that would just prolong it for him. I did feel harsh saying no to his face as he was clearly hurt. I’m sure if someone said no to me in person I would want to hide so maybe it would have been better online. Maybe I should have acted really bored and unimpressed during the date but I did enjoy getting to know him. Maybe I should just stop worrying about it as...

Me 33,f have tons of really bad experiences. I was with someone who was seeing 3 girls at the same time in 3 different cities. I was also with someone who was hunting on tinder when we were already living together. He told me it was his low self esteem but he was going out with those girls. It's obvious that I have trust issues. But I am a smart girl. I know I can't force anyone to do anything. I have no impact on how my bf behaves. I can't control anyone. But I can protect myself. I started to date a 32,m 5 mos ago and after we got exclusive I saw a tinder open when he wanted to show me something on his phone. We had a mature conversation, I explained him how important exclusivity is for me and we moved on. Recently he became busy at work, we see each other rarely but we still are in regular touch. He being way more distant made me feel uncomfortable I checked on him. I spied. I went on tinder and found out that he is still out there. I told him that I saw him on ti...