Would you call out people that ghost, slow fade, breadcrumb or lie (about age, being single but actually married etc.)?

Or do you just keep your silence and move on? Why or why not?

What are some of the best responses you have given for these situations? Responses that are direct and unambiguous, but don't make you look "salty" and "crazy".

I don't like confronting people. So usually l just let it go without saying anything. Especially when it's at the very early stage of online dating(around date 1-3). I figure if they do that then it's a good thing they show their true color early. I haven't invested much at that point and so l just move on.

But there are other times when rude behaviors like those happen after we've been together for a while (like a couple of months). I was often tempted to say something in those cases but in the end l didn't, because l didn't want to come across as being "drama" or "angry". But then l feel so shitty about not standing up for myself before walking away silently.

What's your take? What's your experience?

Submitted March 13, 2020 at 11:47PM

Or do you just keep your silence and move on? Why or why not?What are some of the best responses you have given for these situations? Responses that are direct and unambiguous, but don't make you look "salty" and "crazy".I don't like confronting people. So usually l just let it go without saying anything. Especially when it's at the very early stage of online dating(around date 1-3). I figure if they do that then it's a good thing they show their true color early. I haven't invested much at that point and so l just move on.But there are other times when rude behaviors like those happen after we've been together for a while (like a couple of months). I was often tempted to say something in those cases but in the end l didn't, because l didn't want to come across as being "drama" or "angry". But then l feel so shitty about not standing up for myself before walking away silently.What's your take? What's your experience?