In English it's exactly the same as allo. May 18, 2021 at 11:58PM

Yikes. Just yikes. That's all imma say. You clearly don't know what you're speaking of and it's useless trying to explain things to you. Guess we can't all win huh? May 18, 2021 at 11:58PM

Wow, so now you try to win with the old homophobe trick, and somehow make me think that its bad to be homophobic, let alone im homophobic to begin with going with your assumption. You. Just want to feel special. Go hug someone. You actually probably dont know why things will never work out the way you want them to work in reality compared to your own brain and imagination May 18, 2021 at 11:55PM

I come from a very religious background and am currently attending a religious university. I most definitely experienced the same difficulty you describe here! I’m aroace, and I was able to figure out the “aro” part a lot easier. I had clear examples of romantic attraction around me, so it was comparatively easy to realize “nope, I definitely don’t experience that”. In contrast, people were relatively tight-lipped (around me, at least) regarding their sexual attraction to others. It took me a while to figure out that there was this mysterious, alien feeling that almost everyone around me felt, but that I definitely didn’t. All that to say, what you described in your post is very similar to my own experiences! May 18, 2021 at 11:53PM

Yikes chief take that repressed aphobia somewhere else. Also what are you legit on about, you pulled up points we didn't even talk about. Also no I didn't say it was a mental illness- I re read my post to find out where you got that from couldn't find it so you just pulled that out of your ass apparently. May 18, 2021 at 11:52PM

In LGBTQIA+ The A stands for Asexual, after all! Some people will try to say that we don't belong, but we're all in it together May 18, 2021 at 11:51PM

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have you read about the split attraction model (SAM), sexual attraction and romantic attraction are very much two different types of attraction. sounds like you dont experience sexual attraction, and you are most likely ace. sex neutral ace is totally a thing, aces that can take or leave sex, they dont love it or hate it, but usually dont think about it all too often. maybe something to look into May 18, 2021 at 11:48PM

So now youre saying that asexuals are actually infact a mental illness. That removes any sort of claim to be considered "not a choice" You Are Stupid It I S So F U N N Y May 18, 2021 at 11:48PM

We are talking asexual as a sexuality. Asexuals don't feel sexual attraction that's all. Most human sexuality can't be explained by science, this is a case of that. May 18, 2021 at 11:46PM

I love this post so much. May 18, 2021 at 11:46PM

How would you scientifically prove to me, that you are born asexual. The answer believe it or not no matter how much you want to deny it. Is you are born asexual because you lack the necessary hormone levels of a normal human being who carries a healthy sex drive. Meaning viagra is your lord and savior. Embrace it May 18, 2021 at 11:43PM

my advice is to use whatever label feels good to you. seems like you know you dont feel sexual attraction, so you could be anywhere on the ace spectrum. grey sexuality is feeling sexual attraction rarely or under certain circumstances, so if you feel that applies to you then use grey ace. with harry, i think you are just describing a crush without the sexual aspects, which i feel like is a very common ace experience. i have had tons of celeb crushes, and i only recently realized that most people want to have sex with their crushes?? wild to me. so a crush for me has always been kind of what you are describing, i feel attracted to them because of their vibe, i like watching interviews where they talk about their craft, and i usually am aesthetically attracted to them. May 18, 2021 at 11:41PM

Honestly same, like I absolutely love doing romantic things, but sex is wayyyy further down on my list May 18, 2021 at 11:39PM

By implying being asexual is a choice you are wrong. Its not a choice its something you are born being, you can't choose to be asexual. That's That. May 18, 2021 at 11:37PM

I shared a bed with a guy I fancied SO BAD romantically for months without ever wanting sex 😂 May 18, 2021 at 11:33PM

Its half a choice now for both men and women, you take a pill. Science has partially disproved your sexual entitlement May 18, 2021 at 11:32PM

yooo that sounds great B) May 18, 2021 at 11:31PM

I'm 42 now, discovered asexuality through fanfic of all things, several years ago. Spent my whole life thinking I was allo (though of course I didn't know that word) because that's what people are "supposed" to be. Learning about asexuality was kind of huge, though it still took me a while before I accepted that that's what I was. As soon as I read the description for aegosexuality though, I knew. Everything finally made sense after a lifetime of feeling weird. Also, everyone wants to feel special, there's nothing wrong with it. People need to stop being assholes about it. May 18, 2021 at 11:31PM

Yeah, dom here. I like tying up guys. May 18, 2021 at 11:26PM

A) losing interest in the act that creates babies does not constitute me as saying sex is morally wrong, Sorry try again, not this, anti-natalist B) who said i was abstinent, i have sex with my girl atleast, once a day if not 6 times at the most. Sorry try again, not saying, be abstinent C) i guess EDD or lacking the hormones to have a sexual drive does mean one is asexual. Ok, you got half of this one correct, i take a pill to cure my EDD, so im also partially correct, still though nice try May 18, 2021 at 11:25PM

Man, those comments were a headache to sift through. "Asexuality isn't real/doesn't deserve to be in the acronym" but half the comments are people saying being ace is just "Straight but trying to be special" I like the one person who said asexuality and anything part of the lgbt+ is mental illness but prefaced it by saying "I'm gay lol" that's some omega brain strategy there. May 18, 2021 at 11:23PM

And you're absolutely right about that! In my example I was talking more so about intentional ignorance and deliberate discrimination of asexual identities (like in my case where I got told to my face that I have an illness because "not feeling attraction means something is broken in your brain" or threatened with... "corrective measures" specifically because of my asexuality). But you're right! I'm terribly sorry if I came across as implying ignorance is bad. That wasn't my intention /gen May 18, 2021 at 11:19PM