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/u/couldinever on In my book, this is a huge win for us 💜

Some ace people also have sex after determining their sexuality (e.g. me). Not saying you’re deliberately excluding that option, but it could be misconstrued that way when you specify demisexuals and asexuals who are still figuring it out, so I thought I’d chime in and add to your point. October 28, 2020 at 12:02AM

/u/queenkatoe on I want a relationship that’s more like a friendship

perhaps like a queerplatonic relationship? October 28, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/RobertPankiw on My buddy bean keeping warm in my ace blanket!

For anyone interested, they are posted on my profile. October 27, 2020 at 11:59PM

/u/bubbles2360 on Since it's Ace Awareness Week I figured I could repost the little Comic I made last year :D

For real ahaha. The attachment guys have to their dicks truly baffles me cuz I view dicks the same way I view a stomach, kidney, lung, etc... just a damn organ xD October 27, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/Birdynumnums1 on Some books with asexual leads

Oh I'm glad, I hope you like them! October 27, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/Shuffle_Replay on [Self] Happy asexuality awareness week!! I came out fully a few days ago ☺️ sex positive asexual bi/pan romantic bean here!!

Cuuute 💜🖤 October 27, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/funkycybersloth on My buddy bean keeping warm in my ace blanket!

Awesome! Id love to see! October 27, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/RobertPankiw on My buddy bean keeping warm in my ace blanket!

So many, I can send you some October 27, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/aminervia on sex averse but foreplay favorable

I love foreplay as long as it doesn't involve either of our genitalia outside underwear or tongues. It got me into a lot of trouble in my 20s-- it's hard to back out of a sexual encounter once you've gotten that far and when I tried to say no or back out I would be overwhelmed with self loathing. I was even called a sadist once by a guy who thought that I get off leading men on and then leaving them to "take care" of themselves. I feel sexual desire up until the point that the sex part starts. Then my body is like "nope, I'm done" and my brain shuts down with revulsion. I even masturbate (in my own way) thinking about sexual encounters but it lasts about 30 seconds max and I never climax. I spent hundreds of dollars on toys recommended by friends because the concept of masturbation without orgasming was horrifying to them. I'm so grateful to have found the "graysexual" label, because up until now I had thought I was mentally and phy

/u/funkycybersloth on My buddy bean keeping warm in my ace blanket!

Well hi there! No way!! Do u have any pics of them? October 27, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/throwaway1145667 on Since it's Ace Awareness Week I figured I could repost the little Comic I made last year :D

ME: I'm actually asexual! It means th- Random af guys: I'm not like other guys...my dick can change you :D October 27, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/tsukikotatsu on Since it's Ace Awareness Week I figured I could repost the little Comic I made last year :D

Sexual arousal decreases brain activity in the prefrontal cortex October 27, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/RobertPankiw on My buddy bean keeping warm in my ace blanket!

Two things, first, hi again, second, your cats name is bean? My cats name is Beans! October 27, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/RobertPankiw on I tend to question my ace-ness. But then I take an embarrassingly long time to understand jokes like these and all is right with the world.

Reminds me of that old joke, what kind of bees make milk? Boobees! October 27, 2020 at 11:42PM

/u/Synthee on Despite being Aro/Ace, it still kind of bothers me that boys never liked me in school.

I think, deep down, it's definitely a validation thing. I don't even think I had male friends (be openly trans/NB wasn't a thing when I was young, so they were all cis). October 27, 2020 at 11:41PM

/u/Lessedgepls on Since it's Ace Awareness Week I figured I could repost the little Comic I made last year :D

I think the intention was to point out a specific hypocracy, not compete for oppression. October 27, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/Synthee on Despite being Aro/Ace, it still kind of bothers me that boys never liked me in school.

Thank you for understanding. I mean, "society" loves to say that everyone uas a type, but what if you are no one's type? Just standing off to the side as an anomaly. Regarding your male friends, it sounds like they were trying bond with you based the supoosed mutual attraction to women. In other words, it makes kinda sense. Neither did I say or give those customers the impression that I was a lesbian, confusing me more. Anyway, thank you for understanding my feelings. October 27, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/RobertPankiw on Since it's Ace Awareness Week I figured I could repost the little Comic I made last year :D

I thought "We can work on that" was going to be on all of the panels when I read it. October 27, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/MrDysprosium on Since it's Ace Awareness Week I figured I could repost the little Comic I made last year :D

Yep, you're right. I misunderstood. October 27, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/Synthee on Despite being Aro/Ace, it still kind of bothers me that boys never liked me in school.

Well, I learned a new term today 😁 October 27, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/Kwbluegreen on Some books with asexual leads

Omg thank you for these I cant wait to start reading them! October 27, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/strawberryspringtime on Void cat supports everyone in here, happy asexual awareness week 🖤🤍💜

Oh my gosh this is adorable!! October 27, 2020 at 11:29PM

/u/Ace-Of-Broken-Hearts on We got representation on a Target Fanny pack! Right in the middle !

BUT WHY DIDN’T WE GET THE A???? October 27, 2020 at 11:29PM